May 6, 2022

10 Kinky Sex Ideas To Make Your Lover Chase You in Bedroom

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This post on Kinky sex ideas was initially written for men. But it ended up being for both men and women.

As both the genders are equally important when it comes to demands of sexual satisfaction.

To keep things interesting and attractive always change roles in the tips mentioned in this post.

These little kinky sex ideas would prove beneficial to keep the friskiness of good sex alive in older relationships, as long as both partners are willing to share a common bed.

So guys try these freaky things in your relationship to keep the charm of initial honeymoon phase alive forever.

How to integrate kinky sex ideas in your sex life.

Sex is an integral part of a relationship that needs to be kept fresh and tempting with the sweet fragrance of love.

But love only is not enough over a period of time sex starts to get unexciting and boring. That doesn’t mean that love isn’t there.​

It’s there all you need to do is find some kinky sex ideas to spice up your sex life again.

You need to bring the kink back into your love life again. Kinky sex mixed with passionate love and feelings is great combination for adventurous and sexy love life.

Let’s learn some kinky sex ideas to keep your relationship full of excitement and thrill with all the freaky and dirty things for the rest of your life.

1. Chase Her

It’s a wonderful feeling when you know that the girl you like tries to chase you to gain your attention and win your love.

A sense of excitement and adventure builds up in that scenario, same goes with women too.

They love when a man chase them so why not try to get kinky with your girl by letting her know how dearly you admire her beauty and her love for you.

Give her subtle hint that you want to get sexual with her.

This is really a freaky things to do with your girlfriend or wife that will blow her mind when she would realize how desperate you are to get physical with her.

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2. Watch Porn Together

If you want to try a simple tip on kinky sex ideas this is it. Just like us men, women too are very visual by nature they love to fantasize that is the reason why they gossip about porn with their girlfriends in private.Most women won’t admit this fact in front of their boyfriends as they might feel shy or little awkward.But somewhere in their kinky mind they fantasize to try all that dirty things while having sex with their man.So Dude, get freaky and be bold enough to bring a sexy porn DVD to watch alone in the bedroom with her.Believe me or not both of you won’t be able to go through the entire movie without getting naked to try some of the kinky sex ideas and positions in the porn movie.

3. Try The Blindfold Technique

Blindfold technique is one of the most exciting kinky sex ideas you can try with your partner to add element of spice in your sex life.

You can blindfold your partner or be blindfolded by your partner.

You can also use mouth-watering deserts or chocolates to make things more exciting and tempting

Lie down on the bed with no clothes on your body and let your partner kiss and lick every inch of your body.

Sensually kiss her earlobes and neck, pressing her lips on yours subtly to make her moan with sexual pleasure like the house is on fire.

Trust me guys it’s very exciting and tempting you try this freaky sex idea once you will be tempted to try it again

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4. No Panties in Bedroom (this one is for women you can your girl to try someday)

Try wearing a long t shirt but nothing underneath to stay sexy and naked how dramatic it would be can you imagine? Girls it can be a real turn on for any man.Slowly whisper in his ears you are not wearing anything below your waist. It would automatically turn his mind naughty, thinking about unique kinky sex ideas to try.

Give him a reason to think why you are not wearing a panties. Show your intentions that you are ready for a long sexy night full of adventurous sex.

Grab his hand to slide it beneath your naked stuff to let him feel the heat by himself.

Guys these are some erotic kinky sex ideas that you should definitely try every now and again to keep the charm and attraction alive in your couple hood.

5. Use Your Hands With Creativity

You might be wondering how to make proper use of hands. I will tell you how, you need to know that your hands are not just for undressing your girlfriend.

They can perform much better than your penis. It’s a myth that the penis is the star of the bedroom I believe it’s not. Hands can add more creativity if used correctly.

Just like an artist draw sketch with your fingers touching every inch of her body like the border of the lips, corner of the earlobes, the wholeness of her boobs, smoothness of her inner hips perform this act of sensual pleasure with kindness.

Remember not to touch any of the sweet spots directly leave them for last like nipples and clitoris.

Let her crave for more on the other hand you continue to intensify the experience to open the gates of heavenly pleasure.

Guys trust me this is amazingly one of the hottest kinky sex ideas you can try with your girlfriend to keep her interested in you for lifetime

6. Erotic Sex Massage

Give her a sensual and erotic massage that she never forgets in her whole life.

In fact make it so exciting and adventurous that she desperately craves for repeat performance next time again. Light music and dim colorful lights and you are all set to go.

Remember before you start keep your hands warm and soft. Start by gently massaging her shoulders giving gentle strokes.

Slowly intensify the massage on her neck, now rub her back and pressed them with your thumbs.

Gently go down on her butt portion stroke and press them with your palm it will really turn her on.

Try going deep in the curves of the inner thigh rubbing the sides of the inner thighs feeling the heat without touching the sweet spot.

Repeat the same process on the stomach side feeling the roundness of her boobs going down the pubes and still further down moving your fingers in circular motions to give her deep urge of sexual pleasure.

Guys I believe it’s definitely more than enough to make her horny for a kinky sex all night long.

7. Kinky Kiss To seduce Her

Kissing is one of the most important part of foreplay in sex. Kinky kiss is passionate and powerful enough to serve the purpose with great impact.

To make it powerful and passionate you need to kiss her when she is least expecting.

Passionate kiss make her warm and generates a lot of heat in her body to get things going. It sends her sexual mind a signal “she is ready for more to flow like a river with the moment”.

Passionate kiss will help both of you to relax and calm down physically and emotionally which is absolutely pleasing for the body and the mind.

8. Have Sex in Shower

It’s freaking hot and steamy when you think of having sex in shower.

Yes it’s an awesome feeling even when you imagine being naked with your partner in shower.

Feeling and touching each other in the soapy bubbles it altogether new experience you should try.

But the most important thing to look for is avoiding the flow of water underneath as it clears all the natural lubrication.

Avoiding the water will help to keep the natural wetness alive and it won’t hurt when he tries to penetrate you deep inside.

Soap each other to have fun, caress each other sensually to have the new feeling of each other’s touch which is absolutely amazing and hot.

9. Leave Her a Sexy Note

This one is not kinky but still very vital to keep your sex life and relationship in balance. Pick up a pen and start writing.

It’s just another form of lovemaking that will make her feel important and emotionally connected to you.

Leave a sweet note saying “You were really on fire last night” or “You are too sexy for any guy to resist” or “I love the way you smile thanks of being in my life” leave her this cute little note in bathroom or beneath her pillow or in her pocket.

One thing is for sure the moment she reads, she would blush with smile and happiness thinking about you all day long.

Guys what else you want? you made a girl think about you all day long and that itself proves you are amazingly hot

10. This One Is Only For My Women Friends – Tricks To Plan Some Romance

A lot of women complain that their guy isn’t romantic. And it’s true. . .

A lot of men have no clue what romance really means to a woman.

It’s a bit of a foreign language since it’s not generally part of their sexual needs.

Add to the confusion factor that romance isn’t some universalthing. . . it can mean different specifics to each woman

What romance generally boils down to is feeling appreciated and adored.

However, men are not mind readers. They respond to simple and clear directions.

So this step is going to involve you telling him exactly how he makes you feel appreciated and adored, both sexually and not sexually.

This is Part A:

I feel appreciated by you when you. . .

take me out to a nice meal. . . 

arrange for a babysitter so we can have a date night. . .

bring me flowers for no reason…

run your fingers through my hair.. . .

kiss me sweetly when you get home at night.. . .

sneakily grab my ass when we are out in public.. . .

spend a lot of time on foreplay.. . .

do what it takes to make sure I’ve had an orgasm.. . .

send me out to get a mani/pedi while you watch the kids.. . .

cook dinner and do the dishes after.. . .

massage my shoulders after a long day.

I’m sure you’ve got a bunch more things you can add to the list. The point is to tell him the specific ways he makes you feel adored.

This is Part B:

When you feel adored and appreciated… you get horny.

When you feel validated, understood, valued, and appreciated by your man, those sexy feelings start to flow.

So now tell him that!

When I feel adored/appreciated. . .

I want to have sex. . .

I get turned on. . . 

it makes me horny. . .

I want to drag you into the bedroom and show you how much I love you, too. . .

I want to give you a BJ. . .

Whatever it is that you want to do, tell him!

It can be sweet or it can be explicit.

Personally, my wife go with sweet and then shock me with a totally graphic reply.

You: “I felt so adored by you when you massaged my neck and shoulders after I was so sore from my workout.”

He: “I knew your trainer kicked your ass and you were feeling it.”

You: “Well, you know that when I feel adored, I get turned on. I think your cock needs a special tongue massage. . .”

I hope you found the post on kinky sex ideas useful. If you really liked it please comment and share and don’t forget to check the adventurous and kinky sex stuffs below and see for yourself.

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