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15 Things to Bear in Mind if You’re an Aspiring Sugar Baby – Female Edition

Being a sugar baby is quite a popular lifestyle among today's young women.

These girls know how beautiful they are and they want to cash in their beauty.

Luckily for them, there are plenty of men out there who are ready to support them financially in exchange for various services and activities.

So, if you're a young woman who is interested in becoming a sugar baby, there are certain things you have to know before you go hunting for your sugar daddy via some sugar elite online dating site.

Therefore, here are the 15 things you have to consider if you're an aspiring sugar baby.

You Always Have to Believe in Yourself and Your Abilities

One of the first things you need to know about being a sugar baby is that all of these gals are rather self-assured and confident.

So, if you want to find yourself a sugar daddy, you must always believe in yourself, your beauty, and your seductive skills.

This is the only way you'll be able to succeed in this competitive dating world.

Arrange an In-Person Meeting with Your Sugar Daddy

Finding a rich man who would be interested in having this type of relationship with you is not always easy and simple.

These fellas are not very transparent and obvious, so you'll probably have to meet your man online.

 However, before you strike any kind of deal with him, make sure you meet him in person to see what he's really like.

Learn How to Accept Your Gifts Gracefully

One of the best things about being a sugar baby is receiving all kinds of beautiful gifts from your man.

These rich gentlemen enjoy giving their girls expensive jewelry and branded clothes quite often.

This sounds like a wonderful thing, but sadly, a lot of girls tend to feel guilty when receiving a gift from their man.

This is not a good trait and if you want to be the best sugar baby for your guy, you have to learn how to accept gifts like a proper lady.

Make Sure You Look Your Very Best When You're with Him

Since we're talking about grace and ladylike behavior, you should know that sugar daddies appreciate when their woman looks amazing in their company.

Therefore, in order to be the best sugar baby for your man, you should always try to look your best when you're with him.

Forget about jeans and cute shirts, you should wear your prettiest dress and your finest jewelry when you're with your guy.

Remember, every wealthy man wants a beautiful and classy companion by his side.

Don't Be Afraid to Ask Your Sugar Daddy for Something

Being in this type of relationship is not simple for many girls out there. Most of them are simply too obedient and they only do things when their man asks them to.

You have to know that a sugar baby is not a slave. You are allowed to ask your man for anything you want.

Remember, this is an arrangement between two equal individuals.

Get to Know Your Man and His Resources

Asking your sugar daddy for something is easier if you know him and his resources well.

So, find out more about his likes and dislikes, as well as his financial status. This way, you'll be able to know exactly which types of gifts are acceptable.

Learn How to Be Calm and Composed All the Time

If there's one thing these men hate, it's unnecessary drama.

A rich, classy, and well-educated man wants to be with a woman who knows how to control her emotions at all times. 

So, in order to impress your gentleman, you should learn how to be calm and composed in every situation. Trust us, this will please him.

Be Honest with Your Sugar Daddy

A lot of girls find this unique arrangement quite confusing. They believe that, in order to keep their man happy, they have to tell them what they want to hear.

In most cases, this is not true. These fellas appreciate honesty.

They want to have a real connection with their sugar baby, so always be honest with your man.

Remember, he's not paying you to kiss his ass, he wants you to be yourself when you're with him.

Respect His Schedule

As you know, most sugar daddies are rather successful men with serious jobs.

These fellas are very busy and they have a strict daily schedule.

This means that every single one of their days is perfectly planned and if something or someone messes up their schedule, they tend to be very disappointed.

So, if you really want your guy to be happy and satisfied all the time, don't show up unannounced to his work or home. Respect his plans and his daily schedule.

Be Exact When You're Asking For Your Allowance

The principle on which this type of relationship works is this one - you make your man's life better with your presence and he repays you by giving you a generous allowance.

However, when negotiating the terms of the relationship, you need to be exact when determining your allowance. Know your worth.

Don't Try To Justify Your Allowance, It's Your Money

As we said, a lot of girls tend to feel guilty when receiving gifts from their sugar daddies.

They are the same when it comes to their allowance. Most of them are trying to justify it and to report their spending.

You don't have to do that. This is your money, you've earned it, and you can spend it on whatever you want.

He Will Probably Want to Have Sex with You

Sex is an important part of every relationship, and the case is no different with this unique arrangement.

A sugar daddy supports his woman financially so she would keep him company and make him feel better.

In most cases, this implies sex. So, if you want to be a sugar baby, you should know that your man will want to have sex with you at some point.

Don't Be Shy in the Bedroom

Since we established that sex will probably be a part of your relationship with a sugar daddy, you should know that he will be expecting you to be quite good at it.

Remember, your man is rich, he can buy sex from a classy prostitute, but he doesn't want a prostitute, he wants you.

So, whatever you do, don't be shy in the bedroom. Good skills in bed will secure your place as his sugar baby.

You Don't Always Have to Have Sex with Him

One of the most important things you need to know about this relationship is that you're not anyone's slave or prostitute.

You are free to do what you want and that includes the bedroom activities.

If you're not in the mood, you don't have to have sex with your guy. He doesn't pay you for sex, he pays you to be his beautiful and independent girlfriend.

If You Don't Like Something, You Can Always Leave

A lot of sugar babies don't have good chemistry with their fellas, but most of them stay in those relationships because they think they're bound by some kind of verbal contract.

You have to know that, if you don't like something or if you don't feel good in your relationship, you are allowed to leave your man and find a better sugar daddy.

About the Author Manish Yadav

My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!

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