Great sex is great life.
You deserve a partner who encourages you to be the best you can be; who accepts that you will evolve; who never tries to change the fundamental truth of who you are.
You deserve a partner who sticks by you on the bad days, months and years and helps you get back to the good.
You have the right to regular, eager, nonjudgmental and enthusiastic sex with a partner who worships your body and would crawl over broken glass to give you an orgasm.
Perfectionism is a plague and that truly loving your partner means embracing and loving their flaws.
Love comes from vulnerability and that the fastest way to true intimacy is to be bald and naked and admit to your deepest fears (even if they scare you; even if you feel like you’re not “supposed” to have them).
Every woman deserves to be told she is beautiful…
….and every man deserves to be told he is handsome randomly and passionately and with no expectation of receiving anything in return.
You are worthy of love.
You deserve love.
And that first step to experiencing truly astonishing, connected love with a man or woman who understands you, accepts your flaws and gets stars in their eyes when you walk into a room is to learn to love yourself first.
I believe in you.
You are strong.
You are a lion.
You are ready to let go of the fear and pain and bitterness of all your broken hearts and disappointed desires.
Being brave doesn’t mean you aren’t scared; it means you take a deep breath and go after what you yearn for even when you’re terrified.
Feel the pounding in your chest.
Feel the sweat on your palms.
Feel all your buried passion come bubbling to the surface.
Close your eyes.
Your journey to a love and a relationship they write songs about starts right here.
That’s what this amazing blog is all about.