However, most women think that being good with seduction means acting like a porn star and objectifying yourself to fulfill your man's desires.
That couldn't be further than the truth.
Seduction doesn't mean giving in to whatever sexual desires your man wants out of you.
That's actually the exact opposite.
So before we get into the nitty-gritty of this course. I want you to know that in order for this course to be successful.
You have to follow the following steps first.
So before we get further down the rabbit hole, here's what I want you to do.
I want you to first understand that trying to seduce your man doesn't mean that you have to give in to all his wishes and demands.
It doesn't mean that you also have to objectify yourself in order to please your man.
Being great with seduction means being comfortable in what you are doing.
And that starts with setting boundaries on what you are willing to do with your partner.
You can try to explore sexting with your man, but that doesn't mean have to go all the way and send him naughty pictures just because he asks for it.
You can have naughty conversations with him too, but that doesn't mean that you willingly consent to actually do it either.
The first step that you have to take in this course is for you to know your own boundaries.
Keeping the boundaries also allows the man not only respect your space but to actually even crave and chase you more because you're not giving into everything he's asking for.
While I ask you to know your boundaries, I want you to also be open-minded and let go of your misconceptions about sex and seduction.
If you start feeling uncomfortable with how far the dirty talk is going, take a minute and ask yourself why you're feeling uncomfortable.
Was it because the conversation was being too risque for your taste? Was it because it's not something you're sexually into?
Talking to your partner about it will also help you understand his perspective on why certain things or sexual activities turn him on the most.
Not only will you understand your partner's desires, but in return, he will also have an insight and understanding of what are turn-ons that are comfortable for you too.
Remember Mad Libs? This works exactly the same way!
Combine the words I give you below (and add your own!) to come up with your own easy, sexy, dirty talk.
Your body parts: Tits, Pussy, Mouth, Tongue, Clit, Finger, Hand.
His body parts: Dick, Face, Ass, Balls,Cock, Come, Eyes, Abs/Stomach, Hands.
Verbs: Come, Jizz, Suck, Lick, Bite, Tickle, Stick, Taste.
Now, mix and match:
I want to put my [your body part] in (or on) [his body part].
Do you want me to [verb] your [his body part]?
I can’t wait for you to [verb] all over my [your body part].
Your [his body part] makes my [your body part] tingle with anticipation.
I want to [verb] your [his body part] until you scream.
I want you to stare at my [your body part] and only my [same body part].
I’m going to play with my [your body part] while I play with your [his body party].
Your [his body part] is/are so fucking sexy.
Baby, I love the way your [his body part] reacts when I [verb] your [his body part].
The your [his body part] looks makes my pussy wet.
[Verb] my [your body part].
[Verb] my [your body part] while I [verb] your [his body part].
These are just a few examples but you get the idea. Have fun with it!
Finally, you have to get comfortable with your own skin.
Society has dictated to women for decades that they have to be prim and proper.
That classy women don't dress sexy, talk dirty, or act slutty.
However, society has mixed up being comfortable with your own sexuality with being a dirty classless woman.
Perhaps, you might have lost touch of your own sexy feminine side, so I'm gonna share pointers on how you can get comfortable with your own skin.
To fulfill this we have created a powerful FREE WORKSHEET called “Sexploration Quiz” DOWNLOAD IT AT THIS LINK HERE so that you can use it in order for you to start exploring things that you're comfortable with and things you are willing to explore.
In the "Sexploration Quiz," we talk about a list of activities that you can do with your partner and a checklist on whether it's something you're willing to do or not.
For example, sending naughty pictures to your partner, role-playing using sex toys together and more.
List down things that you and your partner would want to try to do and then find out which ones you are comfortable doing together.
So as part of your assignment, I want you to create a list of things that turns you on and activities that you want to explore with your man.
If you want to have access to the "Sexploration Quiz" for techniques and strategies, you can access it here at this link.
After setting your boundaries, letting go of your misconceptions about sex and getting comfortable with your own sexual desires, we can now move on to understanding what REALLY turns HIM on.
And then you can take this quick 3 questions quiz about what you have just learned! (not mandatory but recommended)