Think of it this way: At the early stages of a relationship – say, when you first kiss, or when you go out on your first date, or when you first make love .
What he thinks about you as a potential girlfriend.
If you were to ask a thousand men what they want in women, you’d get a lot of different answers – after all, they’re not robots, they’re men.
The other most common thing that men think about when they think about women is how grounded they are. I understand that “grounded” is kind of a catch-all phrase.