10 Magical Ways To Spice Up Long Relationships And Marriages

Before we jump on today's topic "ways to spice up long-term relationships and marriage. I want you to recall your old memories.

Do you remember when you first met, you guys gave each other astonishing goose bumps, your naughty mind was packed with sexual fantasies, you vowed that you would capture and conquer! And you did.

You were certain to live together for life time and with each passing day your brand new love life headed toward the world of fabulous long-term relationship...Right?

If you have been in long-term relationships as a couple or married couple by now you realize that its not easy but certainly something to be proud of.

You’ve overcome bad habits, arguments, little quarrel and even sacrificed all for the  betterment of your relationship.

But one thing that you guys forgot was "how to spice up your long-term relationship with amazing sex life.

Somewhere in your mind you too believe that the passion for sex has decreased, the thrilled you experienced at the start of your relationship has faded away?

But do not worry guys this is absolutely normal in long-term relationships. In fact, we’re human and it’s only a matter of time before the monotony bores us or drives us wild.

But the question is how do you fill those loop holes and spice up your long-term relationship again? Confused!

Don't worry you're at the right page at the right time because today I'm going to show you 10 powerful secrets to reawaken the spice in your marriage or long-term relationship again.

#1. Go Out On a Date Every Fortnight

Living together as a couple is amazing, but there's a drawback to it. Seeing the same person each day often causes you to miss out on the thrill experienced of new relationships.

Say for instance: If you remember your first candle light date? You took hours just to dress good, smell good and look stunning just to please one another.

#2. Wear Sexy Clothes (Pajamas, Boxers, Red Hot Lingerie)

Whether you're a man or woman but there's certainly something special and warm when you sleep next to your lover every night.

However, this can turn sexless if you don’t add the spice and tinge for long when you sleep together.

say or instance: If you aren’t excited about what he or she’s going to wear tonight, it shows that the spice is missing in your sex life.

Likewise, when you repeat the same set of night dress each day it’s a clear indication that you aren’t trying to tantalize each other.

If you've ever studied about sexual seduction than you probably know that visual stimulation is something that activates your body, mind and sex organs.

Visualizing your girlfriend or boyfriend in a sexy lingerie or pajama can heat up the atmosphere in the bedroom. This is the reason why every couple should put effort to look sexy in seducing clothes at bed time.

It helps to spice up a relationship. Some hot moves that you try are: sleeping topless because it feels sexy or wearing red hot lingerie or boxers while going to bed.

#4. Foreplay Twist

Do you keep repeating the same foreplay techniques in your long-term relationship? Do you kiss the same parts of your partner's body over and over again.

If you're doing this just stop it from today this is also one of the main reasons why there's lack of spice in your long-term relationship.

The problem is especially with men in committed relationships they tend to take sex for granted and assume their women is enjoying every thing they do in sex which is absolutely wrong.

Whether its men or women both need to deliver a killer performance. If you already know your partner enjoys oral sex, don’t give it to him or her right away.

Kiss him or her on sensitive parts of the body first; tease, flirt, add little kink by inventing new and unique ways to please one another sexually before going straight to oral sex or blow job.

Use some sexual enhancers like sex toys or sensitizing lotions. Believe me it can help you to feel the best possible orgasm of your life.

Remember, the key is altering, twisting and adding new techniques to your routine foreplay to spice up your long-term relationship.

#6. Maintain a Romantic Environment In Your Routine Busy Life

To keep the intensity and spark alive in long-term relationships and marriages its important to stay romantic and make love as often as possible in your busy routine life.

It not only makes your day easier, but also reduces the stress level in your bodies, you might have heard that romance is the biggest stress buster.

A great way to get your partner in a loving mood is by taking care of one of their chores. If he or she has to do the laundry or wash dishes during a particularly stressful time; jump in and do it for them.

Believe me – Your partner will be truly grateful, especially if the burden of chores was adding to an already hectic and stressful day. Call it a labor of love!

#8 Have Sex In The Shower

With kids jumping around, it is really difficult to enjoy bath together in the shower but that doesn't mean it should stop you guys from having romantic sex in the shower.

Believe me this is something that you must plan once every week it will keep the spice alive in your personal relationship.

Note that running water itself possess relaxing properties and a nice warm shower immediately releases the tension in muscles and joints.

The good part is you can turn this time into a sensual and romantic experience by playing with each other's body, caressing gently, kissing and touching sensually.

Remember not to miss a single part of the body while performing this sensual act of kindness. In other words use your hands with creativity.

PRO TIP- Touch the most intimate parts at the end.

Try this and see for yourself how arousing and tempting this experience will turn out and the best thing is it will keep alive the spice in your long-term relationship.

#9 Small Gifts Go a Long Way

When your love life was brand new I'm sure you guys must have exchanged lots of gifts.

But tell me what is the frequency now?

How many gifts or surprises you plan for each other.

Remember giving small gifts show that you’re still romantic and you haven't changed.

In other words the relationship is still significant than anything else.

Both men and women needs to reawaken the romance in your relationship by giving your partner small gifts of affection.

It can be as classic as bringing home fresh flowers for the dinning room table or buying your man his favorite perfume.

You can surprise your wife with that red hot sexy lingerie or a sexy bra and thong set.

An inexpensive gift which women secretly love probably more than most expensive gifts.

Or you can also give a two dollar card which will reignite the lost passion again in your partner's heart.

Guys these are small things but they mean a lot when it comes to spicing up long-term relationships 

#10. Buy Self-Help Programs On Relationships

As your relationship ages so do you. A common effect of aging is a lost or low libido  and also the spice seems to reduce and its natural.

But I suggest don't allow aging and boring routines wear your relationship and sex life down. Be open to buy self-help programs they can jump start the desire you lost.

In the end remember that reawakening sexual desire and intimacy is extremely significant to spice up long-term relationships and should be a natural phase in the relationship as well.

Just as things started off hot then sizzled down, the time has come to start the fire once again. Remember not every trick to spice up your relationship is going to be erotic.

That's the reason why I'm asking you to join good self-help programs that will help you to spice things up in your relationship.

Remember New sex stories are waiting to be made!