On the previous lesson we discovered that there’s more to men and sex than what we originally thought.
Sex to him is a symbol of seduction, power, ego, conquest, accomplishment, and validation.
Now that you’ve learned the inner workings of what your man really thinks about sex, now we have to figure out how you can use this to your own advantage.
So based on what we just learned yesterday, here are a couple of strategies and techniques you can use, to make your man want and crave more of YOU.
#1. Create Sexual Tension
Remember when you first got into a relationship together? You used to do a lot of flirting and teasing and your relationship was fun.
And part of that fun was the chase.
The chase of not knowing what to expect to happen next is what builds that sexual tension between you and your partner.
However the longer that you’re in a relationship together, the more you get into a routine and the more predictable your relationship becomes.
And a lot of times, this is the reason why your man is out there looking for something else to excite him again.
So how do you rebuild that sexual tension between the two of you again and spark that mystery, the chase, the fun part of your relationship?
I’m gonna share with you the Three Tease Techniques you can use on your man that will definitely get his interest piqued among other things. 😉
#2. The Three Tease Techniques
You don’t have to use these technique in any particular order, but use them and you’re sure to win the heart of any man you want to be with.
The Tease Kiss
Use this at unexpected times when there’s absolutely no opportunity to have sex.
Kiss him deeply and passionately just before he’s about to leave to go to work, right before you enter the house of a friend you want to visit or just before you leave for a short trip.
While this may leave him surprised at first, you can tease him further by telling him that there’s just something about him that really turns you on at that moment. Which then leads us to the next tease technique.
The Tease Text
This is perfect for times when you aren’t face to face with each other or even when you’re in the same room with other people around. In one of my separate programs called the Verbal Viagra, (In the Language of desire program here), you will find out exactly how to do that.
You can even tease him via text by leaving him hanging to guess.
Example:
If we were alone right now…
You have me soo…
Mmmmmm….
It piques his interest and at the same time, creates that sexual tension and desire in his brain of him wanting to know more what you want to do with him.
Innuendo Tease
This technique can turn an otherwise proper conversation and steer the conversation into something more naughty.
The key to doing this is spotting for trigger words like, hot, wet, slippery, moist, slide etc…
For example:
Him: It’s really raining hard today…
You: It’s not the only hard thing that can make me wet…
And the trick is to get back into the normal conversation after planting the seed in his brain.
Example:
Him: So what else makes you wet?
You: You know what I mean 😉 Anyway, we should bring an umbrella and a coat before we head out.
Just make sure not to overuse this technique every chance you got. Use it at times that you know will catch him off guard and take him by surprise.
#3. How To Get Him Warmed Up and Ready.
Now that you already know the Three Tease Techniques, it’s now time to push him over to the edge to get him to want you more. So how do you do that?
Earlier I mentioned that you can learn the Verbal Viagra from my other program. So I’ll give you an overview of how that works.
We call this the Verbal Viagra because these strategy allows you to create and build up that sexual tension between you and your man that is out of his control. So here’s the steps you need to take.
Choose a Scenario
This can be from a public place, when you’re hanging out with friends, a sporting event where you are together at a time where you can both discreetly send each other text messages around unsuspecting groups of people.
Send Him a Kick-Off Message
You should be the one to start of the conversation without him suspecting it.
Start of with something simple, complimenting him of a physical attribute. Tell him he looks sexy wearing that suit, or his biceps look huge with that shirt etc.
Get Dirty and Descriptive
Once you get his attention, start following up with a naughty message telling him all the details of what you think you’d want to do with him right now if there weren’t any people around.
I have a list of Kick Off and Dirty and Descriptive messages that you can use, and you can find them on the Verbal Viagra from this Program Here language of desire.
Now things are getting more interesting in this program isn’t it?
Yesterday we talked about understanding what your man thinks about sex.
Today we talked about how you can use this knowledge and turn the switch on his brain to make him crave more of you by teasing his imagination, getting his mind racing, and of course, fulfilling the promise to have those needs met.
Tomorrow is the fun part. Tomorrow we talk about how to get him to cater to your own wants and desires.
Stay sexy,
Manish – lovefindsitsway.com
