Will She Stay In Love If You Can’t Give Her An Orgasm?

Learn the secret behind how to make a woman orgasm

An orgasm, especially during sex with someone you care for, is one of the most satisfying events possible.

As men, luckily, we experience this almost every time we have sex with a woman… however, the reverse is not always true.

Have you ever thought how many times you have made your girl horny enough to experience the heights of intense orgasm. If not think about it now!

According to statistics from Planned Parenthood, 1 in 3 women have “inhibited orgasm”, where they used to be able to orgasm, but no longer can. 80 percent of women do not experience an orgasm from penetration alone. And 1 in 10 women have anorgasmia — an inability to have an orgasm at all!

So can women who do not have an orgasm stay in love? Or is an orgasm completely essential for a healthy relationship?

Think about it if the tables were turned…

What if it were difficult for us to orgasm? What if your girl tried and tried to make you orgasm, but you just couldn’t reach sexual satisfaction (after getting incredibly turned on time and time again)…

Add to this the hypothetical situation that a previous girlfriend or two WAS able to make you orgasm. So you know what you’re missing.

What would you think of your current girl?

Sure, you’d still love her… but the strain, and lack of physical satisfaction, could make you “weigh your options” after some time of being left dissatisfied.

The situation is no different with women.

She May Still Love You, But Her Lack Of Sexual Satisfaction Can Cause a Strain On the Relationship

She may love you, but she may start to feel like there’s something missing from her life.

Some women will put up with this lack, or just accept it (especially if they’ve never orgasmed before), but many can go looking for “greener pastures”.

Many years back, I had a relationship where everything was wonderful, but I was unable to make a woman orgasm.

We had a hell of a chemistry, physical attraction, and the sex was freaky and fun… but I was never able to make her orgasm.

And her previous man WAS able to make her orgasm, so she had something to compare the current sex to…

Not good for me… After a year or so she left me.

And this situation can occur with any hot, or in demand woman.

Good news is, once you learn a few basics, you can bridge the gap between her orgasm and yours… adding into the relationship the only missing element, fanning her flames of love with the physical satisfaction part.

Believe me guys learning the secret behind how to make a woman orgasm is not less than art. You have to be her provider of love… emotionally, mentally, and now physically.

The Clitoris Is Key To The Female Orgasm – Concentrate On It

Woman’s orgasm is something that is not possible without stimulation to her clitoris, a woman will not be able to orgasm.

There’s a lot of debate as to whether the G-spot is a real location, and if G-spot orgasms exist, and anatomy proves that there is indeed an INTERNAL part of the clitoral cluster located in the upper vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located.

So even G-spot orgasms are clitoral orgasms…

So back to the clit… The clitoris is a small, pin-sized nub that is located at the top of where her two inner labia meet. You stimulate it if you want to make a woman orgasm.

Whether orally, manually or with your penis (or vibrator!), this is her magical orgasm button.

You can even command a 6 foot Amazonian woman all from this little point. That’s how powerful it is.

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So How To Best Stimulate The Clitoris?

There are various ways to stimulate a woman’s clitoris.

Before starting, you want some good foreplay, in order to not touch the clitoris directly before it’s ready. She may be overly sensitive. But just like we become erect, so does her clit (to a smaller degree).

With the tongue, you want to lick from down-to-up, in a rough stroke, pushing some pressure onto the clitoris. Start off light, and then get heavier. Repeat the same stroke repeatedly until she’s raising her pelvis off of the bed, and pushing it into your face / mouth. Once she reaches this level of pleasure where she’s rising up, suck on the clitoris (if she doesn’t have an overly sensitive clit), while fingering her upper-wall, g-spot area with two fingers in a “come here” motion.

Or at this junction, instead of sucking her clitoris off until orgasm, dive in, and penetrate. She will have a head start on you, so she will most likely orgasm well before you…

(Extra tip: While penetrating, rub against her clitoris with the pelvic area of your penis, and rub hard… this will get her off quicker).

Orgasm Can Equal Stronger Love… and Understandably

So hopefully you can see why it’s understandable that a woman’s orgasm is very important to her… as ours is to us!

Sex is considered the physical expression of love… hence the term “making love”.

When making love, you want to reach the pinnacle of the act, and be able to satisfy each other.

And with the above help, you should be well on your way to making her orgasm.

It doesn’t have to be the first time, and it doesn’t have to be every time… that kind of pressure is unfair to you (and yes, women still do enjoy sex without orgasm — as they often say — but this can’t go on every time).

As you get to know her, and yourself, and practice the above information, she will be having more and more orgasms, strengthening your relationship with her in the process.

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The conclusion is Sex is an integral part of any relationship. But more importantly it should hold equal value and importance for both men and women. Just like men, women too have feelings and sexual desires.

Imagine being a man if your sexual desires or craves are not getting fulfilled, even though she loves you with all her heart and soul. There is a chance you will move on in search to find someone who can satisfy your sexual needs.

It’s because even though you are getting the love and affection of your woman. Still something is missing which is very significant and matters to you.

I believe same holds true for woman too, being a man it’s your prime responsibility to ensure that you are taking proper care of woman’s physical needs and this will ensure she is not reaching out knocking someone else’s door to fulfill her sexual need.

Love is a feeling but sex is a desire, love is commitment but sex is fulfillment, love is the journey of life but sex is the adventure of life. Love is the beginning of any relationship, but sex completes it and builds the required trust and emotions.

This is how important is sex in a relationship. Sex cannot be prioritize, but also cannot be ignored. For a good relationship to exist and survive sexual satisfaction at every stage of life matters a lot to both men and women.

About the Author
David Carreras, is a sex coach, researcher and author of Mr. Manpower’s Guide to Overall Manhood Enhancement (www.mistermanpower.net). He’s written for several men’s health and sex-related publications, and blogs on a regular basis.

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