In this amazing guide, I will teach you how to kiss with tongue – 14 passionate and erotic kissing tips that is going to get you wet, sloppy, naughty and most of all, romantic trip into the fantastic, frightening and wonderful world of KISSING.
I’m going to teach you WHY people LOVE to kiss so much (and why almost EVERY culture in the entire world tries to eat each other’s mouths on a regular basis.
Each of these can be used during the “Open Mouth Freestyle” step of your kiss.
Learn how to kiss with tongue and mix and match as seems appropriate and based on what your partner is “telling you” try to listen with your mouth (and ears.)
Don’t try to use too many of these kissing tips at once (a little goes a long way) and don’t rush through any given technique.
Like everything with kissing it’s better when you take your time, pay attention and stay present.
So if you are ready to learn 14 erotic kissing steps read this until the end.
#1. The Passionate Kiss.
The Passionate Kissing is all about communicating your overwhelming desire for your man and establishing YOUR sexual tension and power over HIM.
You can start the Passion kiss just like any other, but it’s even better if you stare at him from across the room like a hungry tigress.
Approach him, push your hand against his chest until he’s back against the wall or on the couch.
Grab him by the back of the head (get a ﬁstful of hair if he’s got any then pull him close to you.
Open your mouth WIDE and passionately while teasing his tongue with yours and GO TO TOWN.
The Passionate Kiss works best almost as an “Ambush” (or when you’re having sex).
Out of nowhere give your man the eye, approach him, grab him, kiss him HARD and then when YOU are done (not when he’s done, when YOU are) pull away from him and say something like
“That’s all for now.
More later if you’re good.” The Passionate Kiss says “You are one sexy tigress and I desire you more than any man alive.
” It can also say “I’m a sexual badass and you are lucky to have me.” Done correctly this lip lock technique leaves a man shocked, obsessed and waiting for more.
#2. The Teasing Lip.
This is a great “Teasing” kiss.
This lip lock technique works particularly well if you’re holding your man’s face because that gives you the ability to control whether he can push in closer to you or not.
To perform The Lip Tease bring your face close to your man’s and use your tongue to trace lightly along his lips.
You want to just BARELY be touching his lips with your tongue (you’re not licking his lips, you’re just teasing them)
The less surface contact between your tongue and his lips the better.
Go SLOW. If he tries to grab you and kiss you say “No, I’m in charge right now” with a smile and then continue.
Human lips are astonishingly sensitive and The Lip Tease takes full advantage of that.
Note that your guy might shiver a bit from the sensation and it might create a lot of sexual tension. If he says “OK, I can’t anymore” let him off the hook and move on.
#3. The Lip Nibbler
A close cousin to The Lip Tease, The Lip Nibbler has a certain feminine ﬁerceness to it that I love.
While you’re kissing him GENTLY grab his lower lip between your top and bottom teeth and pull back slightly.
There’s something animalistic about this erotic kiss. It’s not for everyone, but try it once and LISTEN to see how he responds.
#4. Mouth To Mouth Kiss (my wife's favorite erotic kissing technique)
This one is my wife's personal favorite and a kiss that really creates a wonderful level of sexual tension and intimacy with your partner.
When you’re kissing your man open-mouthed exhale slowly into his mouth.
A lot of guys will sense what you’re doing and go along with it, but if he doesn’t give him a smile and say “Breathe with me.”
Exhale into him and then inhale his breath.
This will sync up your breathing (well, the opposite really - you’ll breathe out while he breathes in etc.)
And there’s something marvelous about your chest held together as one person’s lungs inﬂate and the other’s deﬂate.
This creates an amazing kissing scene.
#5. The Eyelid Kiss.
I actually got this out of a play I read in college and have used it in my kissing repertoire ever since.
This doesn’t need to be a “full blown” kiss or anything like that; you can just throw it in whenever appropriate.
If you’re shorter than your man you’ll need him sitting down or laying down.
Take his head gently in your hands and gently kiss his eyelids with closed lips.
(He’ll automatically close his eyes when your mouth gets close.) Take your time. Let it last a second or two.
Make it feel almost ritualistic. Saying “I love you” right after doing this ﬁlls most men’s hearts with glee.
The total lack of sexuality of this not so erotic kiss means it communicates “I care about you” on a deep level.
#6. Peck Neck Assault!
No, I don’t mean you’re going to attack his pectorals or anything like that with this lip lock technique.
The Peck Neck Assault is a very playful kiss where you “Assault” a man’s neck with fast, close-mouthed kisses.
The more the better.
Just keep kissing and kissing and kissing. This kiss communicates “I adore you.
” Men’s necks (like women’s) are very sensitive, but most women completely ignore them.
The Peck Assault (or just nibbling open-mouthed on his neck) feels great and sends shivers up and down the spine.
#7. The Blow Me Kiss Fun and simple.
All you have to do is pick a part of your man’s body (lips, chest, neck, thigh, cock, whatever.
You can get as dirty or clean as you want.)
Lick that part of his body as if you are giving him oral sex then pull your head back slightly and blow through pursed lips.
He’ll feel a delightful chill on that part of his body. No need to get super sloppy or anything; one swipe of the tongue will do the job.
You’ll be amazed how many parts of a man’s body become insanely sensitive once you add saliva. =-) Oh!
By the way, a personal favorite for this one is licking and blowing on the inside of the wrist.
#8. The Mirror Universe Kiss.
You ever see those old Star Trek episodes where “Evil” Spock and Kirk show up? (You know they’re “Evil” because they have goatees.
If you ever watched the show “Community” you know about the awesome spoof they did.)
Anyway, you might not know this but everyone has a “default” way they tilt their heads when kissing.
(Just like all couples have a default way of holding hands.)
Next time you kiss your guy, pay attention to which way you both turn your heads (you probably both tilt to the right as that’s the most common) and then, GASP, tilt your head the other way.
It’s simple, but just doing this completely changes the sensation of kissing someone and adds a ton of variety of sexual tension to your bag of tricks.
#9. The Wrist Cannibal.
The inner wrist of men and women is VERY sensitive.
Simply take his wrist in your hand and bring it to your mouth.
While looking him directly in the eye GENTLY dig your teeth into the ﬂesh of his wrist.
Not every guy will like this, but those who do will love this erotic kissing scene.
#10. The “I’m Not Kissing You”
Another wonderful “Tease” kiss (that’s not necessarily a kiss at all.)
Bring your mouth close to his. Keep your mouth open like you’re leaning in for a deep, passionate kiss but stop JUST before you would make contact.
If he tries to get closer use your hand to gently hold him back.
(You may need to tell him to just close your mouth, relax and enjoy it.)
This “Almost” kiss is wonderful for building up sexual tension and desire.
#11. The “Make Out Like Teenagers” Kissing Tips.
OK, this is less of a speciﬁc kissing technique and more a way to guarantee you can use all your kissing techniques and enjoy them.
You remember when you were in High School and MAKING OUT was like THE MOST AMAZING THING EVER?
I do. I remember the sheer ELECTRICITY that ran through my body from nothing more than a little lip-to-lip . . .
Unfortunately, as soon as we start having “actual sex” a lot of us convince ourselves that making out is just “Foreplay” . . . something to spend a moment on before the main event.
But if your sex life is ﬂagging; if your guy has performance anxiety or issues; if you just can’t have sex because it’s that time of the month or if you just WANT to making out can be a main event all its own.
All you have to do is tell your guy “I want to make out with you but we are NOT having sex.
” It’s best if you keep your clothes on and insist that he should not touch you anywhere below the waist. Make out.
Dry hump. DRIVE EACH OTHER CRAZY. It’s AWESOME.
#12. The Tongue Tickler (Not for first time kiss)
This is a bit advanced and can seem a little “weird” to folks who are used to more passive forms of kissing but it feels REALLY good.
While kissing, grab your man’s face in your hands (again, for control) and push your tongue into his mouth while curling it upwards.
Use the tip of your tongue to gently tickle the sensitive roof of his mouth.
Alternatively, you can run your tongue between his lower lip and bottom teeth (also quite sensitive on most people.)
#13. The Tongue Job (How to Kiss With Tongue)
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like.
A lot of times while making out a guy will use his tongue as a substitute for his penis and PENETRATE your mouth with it.
Again, your mileage may vary depending on the guy, but sucking and licking his tongue like you’re giving him a blow job adds a lot of variety to your kissing.
#14. The “Choose Your Own Adventure”
And ﬁnally, the ULTIMATE erotic kissing technique which is . . . uhh, do what feels natural.
Honestly, if you learn to listen and be present when kissing it’ll become a lot less about speciﬁc techniques and more about the give and take between you and your man.
Use the ﬁrst few steps I’ve given you and then just do what feels natural.
Because you know what? There’s actually no “Wrong” way to kiss (there’s just “Wrong” ways to kiss certain people.)
Once you learn what your partner likes you can GO CRAZY. OK! Almost there.
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