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Whether you are in the United States, Australia, Canada or UK or anywhere in the world. Ladies believe me, this is going to be the most exclusive and complete dirty texting guide you'll ever read in your lifetime.

Learn step-by-step in detail about how to send sexy texts and erotic messages that will turn him on and crave you? Copy paste and spice up your sex life by sending him these 56+  kinky, sexy text messages and become the sexy hot woman your man craves.

Before you read further, I want you to know why erotic messaging, dirty talking text or sexting has become so important for single, dating and married couples in the modern relationships.

As per survey and research on sexting presented at the American Psychological Association annual convention in Toronto in a paper called: “Reframing Sexting as a Positive Relationship Behavior.

In other words, every one loves the game of sexy messaging as it adds a new thrill and romance to your relationship. So ladies what are you waiting for.

Have fun reading and rock your man's dirty mind tonight with an avalanche of freaky, and naughty text messages.

Note: Whether you are a wife or a girlfriend this is the most complete-ultimate-guide-full-of-juicy-sexting conversations and dirty nessages you can find on the web. 

So please, check the Table of Contents here below and click to navigate to your preferred section. 

(Tip: If you just want quick sexting examples to send and turn him on, just click and navigate to the “Examples of Sexting Transcripts And Sexy Messages For Him” section)

Examples of Hot Sexy Text Messages For Him.

So ladies, now that we have the basics covered, just grab your phone, copy paste these dirty talking text and start sexting!

Keep your fingers ready to press the send button and also speak your own language of sex with your own sexting examples and become the hot wife or girlfriend that'll blow his mind.

1. Sexy Text Messages For Him- Starters or Ice Breakers

These are used to test the waters and see what happens when you send this sexy erotic messages!

One my email subscriber from United States used these sexy texts on her boyfriend and she was amazed with the amazing results she got.

  • Your biceps look so muscular in that shirt…
  • Your ass looks hot in those jeans…
  • You look fucking sexy in that suit…
  • Will you feel good If I make the first move to text you or should I wait for you to text me first?
  • You know what? I am lying on the bed thinking about you.
  • You kind of sexy, you know?
  • I always wondered how to start a conversation. Would you want to try?
  • I’m dying to find out if you’re as good in real life as you are in my mind.
  • You are awfully cute, you know that?
  • What’s your fantasy?
  • When was the last time you thought about me?
  • I just dreamed about you.
  • Your body looks incredible.

  • Have you been working out?
  • I just got out of the shower. The towel barely covers me.

2. Sexting Messages For Him - Flirters

Sexy Flirters is basically a form of sexting conversation for getting him engaged in a talking about sexy things but not in an extremely explicit level. In other words, being a little nasty but not very specific.

  • I’m so shy but you have no idea what I’m thinking.
  • You know what? I am lying on the bed right now thinking about you.
  • What are your plans after our date tonight? What are you going to do with me?
  • Tell me what would you do if we are locked up alone in a bedroom?
  • Would you love to mess up with me in my bed tonight?
  • I am not in a mood to see a movie... can you suggest other ideas that we could do together in the dark?
  • I did something bad. I may have to get spanked.
  • If you come to stay at my house tonight. I promise to make your visit memorable.
  • Do you have any idea how badly I want to feel your body pressed against mine?
  • Imagine we’re alone in the bedroom together and then tell me what you’re thinking.
  • What is your secret fetish? You must have one, come on.
  • Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by again?
  • Tell me the last erotic thought you had.
  • You have me so distracted I had to write the same email three times.

3. Sexting Messages For Him - Short But Juicy Sexts You Can Use To Get Him Hard Instantly.

Use the right sexy messages and it will certainly build up the sexual connection, turn him on and get him hard for you.

  • Seeing you [cook, work, watch the game] is turning me on.
  • I bet you can’t guess what incredibly hot thoughts I’m having about you right now.
  • If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do? 
  • Could you please come at my place and unhook my bra for me?
  • I can't stop thinking about your ass in those tight boxers you were wearing this morning.
  • I know exactly what you want, but I am going to make you beg for it before I’ll give it to you.
  • I wish we were alone right now.
  • I get shivers whenever you glance at me.
  • Your arms are damn sexy.
  • You looked so good last night. I was barely able to contain myself.
  • I can’t wait to feel your masculine body next to mine.
  • Your [body part] feels incredible.
  • Come keep me warm.
  • Where do you want to touch me… first?
  • Do you like the way my nipples stand out in my t-shirt? Or is it too much?
  • Do you think my cleavage is too much?
  • I can’t get last night out of my mind.
  • Tonight I'll play with your erogenous parts and make you cum hard, very hard.
  • Does this t-shirt makes my boobs look too big?

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4. Sex Talk For Him - Dirty, Erotic & Sexy 

As your relationship with a guy progresses, you can introduce unique erotic messaging, and dirty talk techniques to keep things hot and steamy in and out of the bedroom. Some great sex talk examples you’ll find below:

  • I want to show you how naughty I can be. 
  • I can’t stop thinking about some very dirty things… please, can you help me?
  • Do you want to see what a naughty girl I can be for you? Look at me and wink if so.
  • Just thinking of you gets my pussy wet.
  • I love you when you moan in excitement taking my name….but tell me what will it take to see you sweating in intense pleasure!
  • I want to see how good your tongue can play between my gaps.
  • Your clothes are coming off the moment get through the door.
  • I want you to boss me around tonight.
  • Hey Honey! Just wanted to ask should I wear the red panties or the blue one? I am confused can you suggest after all it’s you who is going to play with it tonight, isn’t it?
  • Get out of the gym sweetheart and save some energy for the Bang-Bang. I am going to make love to you and drive you wild between my legs tonight.
  • I had a dream last night about you and me moaning and sweating with intense pleasure. Just wanted to ask if you could stay in my bedroom tonight to make my dream come true!
  • Oh, Baby! Even a thought of you makes me wet below my waist.
  • Tonight I want you to undress me slowly with your muscular touch and bite every inch of my body with no inch left untouched.
  • When I am with you my whole body tightens up in ecstasy with the sensation of your touch.
  • I just saw a porn movie and I can’t stop myself thinking about all the dirty things you could do to me if you were here. I wonder if you wanted to come by and stay with me tonight.
  • I have got a new set of lingerie, just wanted to know if you could come to see how it looks on me.
  • I love the way you get naughty in bed it keeps me seduced and excited.
  • I can feel your masculine power when I touch you down there. It’s really hot, heavy and hard like a rod.
  • Oh, Baby! Even a thought of you makes me wet below my waist.
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  • Get your man to Stay and stop him from Pulling Away.
  • Stop boring, rote and disconnected Sex. He will be 100% Turned On and focused on you.
  • Make him seduce, chase, adore and Love You the way he used to.

5. Sexting Text Messages For Him - Spicy

Sexting to him is like engaging in dirty sexual conversation for the purpose of sexual gratification. In other words, trying to raise the heat and build up the anticipation for the main event.

  • Reveal four parts of my body you admire the most? I promise to give you at least two tonight for being honest.....deal!
  • I love the way you kiss me, especially the part where I moan and scream the most.
  • Tell me how desperate you are for me and why? If your reply is satisfactory we will move on to the next step to turn your desperation into reality.
  • It makes me feel so hot and pumped up when I touch your stick, it really makes me moist and wet inside my panties.
  • I love to moan in excitement when you whisper my name… but tell me what will it take to make you scream with pain and pleasure!
  • Can you text me the details of what you would do to me tonight when you sleep next to me? The excitement and anticipation of spending the night with you is driving me wild and crazy.
  • Just wanted to tell that my new red underwear feels really good and sexy on my skin. I wish I could show it to you if you were here now.
  • I am planning to wear my favorite sexy red thong tonight. What about you?
  • I can’t wait, I’m dying to hug you because the way you hug makes me feel so hot and turned on.
  • It makes me feel amazingly hot when you touch me down there.
  • Tonight I want to enjoy the taste, touch, scent and feel of your skin next to mine.
  • Take off your clothes, I want to admire your masculine body and rub it against mine all night.
  • I want to feel your wet lips all over me on every inch of my body. But the only condition is I will guide your way through my hands.

6. Become The Dirty Talking Wife For Him - Really Hot.

If you ever feel like things are getting the slightest bit stale. Before it's too late you need to discover that it’s time to add some dirty talking text and sexting ideas onto your menu to revive your sex life, feel desired and wanted again.

Be the dirty talking wife or girlfriend your man will adore.

  • I am missing your toy so much that I started searching for sex toys on the internet.
  • I did something bad. I may have to get spanked.
  • I love the way you roll your tongue over my nipples slowly sliding down below my waist… it really makes me quiver inside.
  • I love the way you hold me in your arms, looking into my eyes thrusting me backward with your masculine force.
  • Looking at you after the workout filled with sweat all over your body really makes me horny.
  • I want to have you in my bed, alone and uninterrupted.
  • I will make you my make you beg for it.
  • This never happened to me before. I am getting wet just by thinking about you.
  • Have you ever touched yourself thinking about me?
  • I think I never had a real orgasm before I met you.
  • Let me watch while you touch yourself.
  • Get on your knees and beg if you want to touch this.
  • I am going to make you beg for it.
  • There isn’t anything more hotter than watching your bulge grow in your pants.
  • I touched myself thinking about you today.
  • I get thrilled with excitement when your fingers dance on my wet floor.
  • You put me in heaven when you thrust deep inside me grinding hard.
  • How long until I can feel you inside me again?
  • I want to sit on you so you can feel my ass.

7. Sexting Messages You Can Use On Tinder - NSFW!  (These will wake up the sexual animal in your man)

These hot, dirty, explicit sexy sex messages are only to be used when you already have a sexting code with your man. They would come out weird if you use them in the beginning of your sexting experience.

This freaky texts can also be used to seduce a guy you met on tinder (but only after you've achieved some level of trust)

  • Gonna get that dick nice and hard for me? That’s what makes my pussy wet.
  • Thinking about your hard dick gets me so wet.
  • I want you to sit back and relax while I stroke that dick.
  • I want you to jizz all over me.
  • Your cock feels so good in my hand.
  • You better come soon. I want your come all over me.
  • I love how soft your balls are.
  • I’m so hot for you right now, I’m squirming in my chair.
  • I need to feel your big hard cock. Now.
  • The thought of you fucking me hard has me so horny.
  • I want to be riding you right now. Until I make you cum.
  • What if I just unzipped your pants and started sucking your big dick right now?
  • I want your masculine arms around me and your cock inside me.
  • I want you to grab me and fuck me hard.
  • I had to change my panties today. I got it wet by thinking how hard you explode inside me last night.
  • My breasts are BEGGING to be licked by you.
  • Nobody fucked me the way you do.
  • My nipples are so hard… They know I’ll see you tonight.
  • Let me watch while you touch yourself.
  • I am going to make you come so hard.
  • I want to sit on you and feel how your cock starts to get hard on me.
  • I want to suck your cock until you beg me to stop.

8. Sexting Messages For Him - Dirty text messages for him to wake up to

It’s morning and you are still probably sleepy. Gotcha. Don’t panic, use these made for you morning horny texts to have him thinking of you all day long.

  • Here's a little something to get you through your day [insert sexy pic (not nude)].
  • I can’t stop thinking about the dream I had about us last night.
  • I bet you didn't think you were dating this vixen, right?
  • I love how your masculine hand feels in my yoga pants.
  • Is HE already up too?
  • I’d love to touch you while you are still asleep.
  • Thinking of your masculine body is what gets me through the day.
  • You were AMAZING last night. I can still feel you inside of me.

Dirty Text Messages At Work. Period.

In order to master this incredibly effective technique, you must have the right combination of witty and dirty, and most importantly, you have to get the pacing right.

These dirty, erotic and sexy text messages we have for you here range from sweet to saucy (and up to NSFW!) and you can copy paste or change them up to suit your style or particular mood.

Some of these erotic messages work great as quick little hot messages to break up the monotony of a normal day...

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Send him a sexy message when he is not expecting it to break up the monotony of a normal day.

… While others are openings to longer, hotter conversations that will turn him on.

Bottom line, you will get the most comprehensive guide about sexting, the whys, the whats and the hows; and the best seductive text messages for him you can use in any particular situation.

Even if you’re a first-time sexter, starting a new relationship, or ultra-cautious... stay with me, and I’ll guide you step by step through the wild hot world of sexting!

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Quick Warning: It will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.

If you are interested in having a man completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out the detailed (& explicit!) Dirty Talking tutorial video here.

What Is Sexting? Definition

According to Wikipedia, sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs, or images, primarily between mobile phones, of oneself to others.

In my research and analysis I have found that if you Google about sexting you'll find most search queries are from United States, Australia and Canada. And these searchers are crazy about the idea of sexting and dirty talking.

The term was first popularized early in the 21st century and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images.

In reality, dirty talking over text is like the foreplay.

Think of the sexy text messages you send to him as if they were your lips kissing his neck, nibbling his earlobes, gently touching to sexually arouse him. 

See how he responds and go from there.

It's an incredible way to "enhance sexual communication and intimacy with your partner", says Jane Greer, PhD, a relationship expert and author of What About Me?

Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or you’re just starting something new, sending flirty, dirty messages is a great way to spice things up and keep them fresh.

It should be fun and sexy to use dirty and horny texts to build the desire factor between you and him.

Tip: Saying sexy things over text is not just for younger people, you and your partner have the capability to send sexy texts to each other if it’s something you both want to.

Why Men Love Dirty Talking? (And why should I send Dirty Text Messages to him?)

I get this question a lot: Why is Dirty Talking So Tempting and Arousing To Him?

And I will answer this question right now. Please feel free to share it with your friends.

Pro Tip: Finding out why he loves when you talk dirty gives you an unfair advantage.

 It’s like having powerful sexy ninja skills to make him hard in your presence.

Simple dirty talking lines can have so much power that will make you completely irresistible to him (and in this guide you will find the best dirty talking text messages)

I know you want this.

So… let’s uncover the secrets to why talking dirty drives men wild.

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  • Stop boring, rote and disconnected Sex. He will be 100% Turned On and focused on you.
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1. Lady in the streets, Freak in the sheets

If you have a ladylike public persona, but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, this contrast, this change gives him a mega-charge of excitement.

He believes that he is a special guy who has the advantage to see this naughty side of you. 

Like he’s the one who motivates you to be uninhibited and that’s intoxicating to his self ego.

And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a dirty little vixen for his eyes only gives him a titillating thrill

This heightens all of his senses and makes the whole scene more tempting and enticing for him.

2. He feels like a rockstar sex god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams combined with different techniques of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you fucking LOVE what he’s doing to you.

Your unbridled expressions of bliss tell him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

You see, men are hard-wired in their brains to please women sexually. This goes all the way back to caveman days.

However, in the modern era, there are so many mixed signals both man and woman give that can get in the way of him knowing he’s “done his job” of satisfying your sexual needs.

The concept of dirty talking cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly.

3. Your confidence slays him.

A woman who possess the confidence and power to use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed is downright appealing and terribly seductive.

Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to show their dark side and are ready to express themselves sexually.

He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.

And your use of dirty talk and erotic messaging clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited.

A good time is in store for you both!

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Excitement is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome.

4. Dirty talk equals excitement

Excitement is such a big (BIG) turn-on for men.

In fact, excitement is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome.

Think about it, a quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood.

He ends up wondering if he’s pleasing you which can bring up insecurities for him.

When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself.

That level of engagement with what’s happening between you two confirms that he’s pleasing you at both levels, mentally and physically.

All of the above factors stimulates multiple chemicals in your man's brain and you're able to hit some of the top triggers for his sex drive. 

Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Right? 

Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone.

If you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty!” or you simply want to know exactly how to talk dirty to a guy...

I have something very special for you later on in this post. It will certainly blow your mind.

All I ask is you don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life!

When should you send Sexy Texts to him?

According to a survey by Cosmopolitan (point 6), sending sexts to your man when he is not expecting can be quite thrilling.

Say for instance,  when he is sitting in an important meeting, buying stuff in a grocery store, standing in a queue, or playing a video game.

Sexting to a guy at an unexpected time, when the sexy message is tempting, makes things even more exciting as he wants to reply back but he can't because of the situation and the surrounding he is in.

Also, you could be together... but in a situation where there are other people near you and it’s not easy for you to rush off to have sex.

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Sending sexts to your man when can't rush to have sex can be quite thrilling

Although you need to be able to (discreetly) use your smart phones to text.

So a movie, play, or other place where people would get mad at you using your phones isn’t a great idea.

A few situations that work well are:

  • A social gathering or party.
  • A group dinner.
  • A family reunion.
  • A company picnic.
  • A charity fundraiser.
  • A sporting event.
  • A concert or live music venue.

Those are just a few ideas...

The only important thing is that you are in a place where you can easily make eye contact and use your phones without drawing too much attention to yourselves.

Ideally, you are in the company of other people. It ups the sexual tension... and delicious torment.

The mismatch of the sexy texts you send with your partner's surroundings makes things really exciting.

Send Sex Texts occasionally and not every day

Sexting a guy everyday will spoil everything because it would become a daily routine and that’s not what you want.

You need to tame it down a little bit to keep him guessing.

Flirt with him every now and then but limit the extent of sexting and dirty texts so that your relationship doesn’t turn into something that is based only on sex.

Sometimes in order to spice up the relationship, the sex life and keep it moving smoothly, this sexy texts play very vital role, but it should not be dependent of it.

How to Sext - Step by Step guide to send Sexy Messages to Him

Sexting your boyfriend or husband has to be easy and comfortable.

The seductive words and phrases you use while sexting should feel sexy, and not vulgar as sex therapist Vanessa Marin said in her interview with Refinery29.

If you're not feeling OK with the texts you're sending, that nervousness will spoil the mood and ruin the moment.

Marin also explained that starting with the lines and phrases you’re comfortable with will allow you to build up the trust and take it further with those phrases that felt awkward in the beginning.

Pro Tip: There's no need to rush. It’s sexier to start simple!

Also, giving your man feedback, telling him that you like what he is saying can help to keep things going.

Andy Duran said in an interview with Women’s Health: "With the absence of in-person feedback, being vocal about what you’re liking is extra important".

Check this excellent video below by Adina Rivers (or keep reading if you can't play audio 😉 )

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How to Sext - Step 1

You could begin with a Starter (or Ice Breaker) Sexy Text, like: 

  • Your biceps look so muscular in that shirt…
  • Your ass looks hot in those jeans…
  • You look fucking sexy in that suit…


Another idea is to compliment him on something he did recently:

  • I loved how sweaty and delicious you looked after your workout...
  • I love how smart and powerful you look when you are engrossed in work...
  • Damn your ass looked great when you hopped out of the shower this morning...

How to Sext - Step 2

Follow that up with telling him how he’s turning you on:

  • ...and I’m having all kinds of naughty thoughts.
  • ...and it’s turning me on.
  • ...and I wish we were alone right now.
  • ...and it’s got me very horny.

Tip: Remember, the amount of dirtiness of the text you send to him depends on your mood and what you feel comfortable with.

How to Sext - Step 3

By now you’ve gotten his attention saying some sexy things. And it’s time to get dirty and descriptive.

Tip: If he hasn’t checked his phone yet, if possible, go over to him ASAP and whisper “check your phone” in his ear. Then return to your seat.

Here are some examples of dirty texts for him that will start to spice up the conversation.

  • I want to show you how naughty I can be.
  • Do you want to see what a naughty girl I can be for you? Look at me and wink if so.

The objective  now is to get him physically aroused.

To turn him on.

Then send him a variety of erotic texts, mix and match. The point is to be highly explicit.

Things like:

  • I need to feel your big hard cock. Now.
  • I want to be riding you right now. Until I make you cum.
  • I’m so hot for you right now, I’m squirming in my chair. 
  • The thought of you fucking me hard has me so horny.
  • What if I just unzipped your pants and started sucking your dick right now. Because I’m thinking about it...

Pro Tip: Set a certain pace here by sending a message every few minutes or so

You don’t have to watch the clock and time it perfectly or anything. 

But space them out a bit.

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When sexting is done right, you will both find a reason to make an early exit from wherever it is that you are

How to Sext - Step 4

Get alone and get down to business!

You will both find a reason to make an early exit from wherever it is that you are (or meet somewhere if you are away)

However, sometimes you might have to endure the event until the end. The torture can be sort of delicious in itself.

When you leave and are finally alone—whether that is home, a parked car, or a nearby motel—make good on those promises and enjoy some frenzied tear-your-clothes-off sex.

How to Sext - Additional Advice and Tips.

1. Keep Mystery on your Sexy Texts

Sometimes it’s easy to mix up what is a real sexy text and what is a “normal” sexual text.

Normal straight texts will not seduce a guy (unless he is already turned on).

These sentences cut the mystery and go straight to the end.

For example: “I want to have sex with you”.

This phrase is just like normal conversation between couples which doesn’t stimulate the sexual hormones.

In order to enjoy great sex with your partner you need to send sexy erotic texts to him and ignite the senses to make him feel he is part of your sexual fantasies.

Make sure to check our examples of sexy messages to send him later on in this post! We have Ice Breakers, Hot, Flirters, NSFW!, you name it.

2. Proofread your dirty texts

Auto corrects are great for normal conversations... but in the heat of a sexting moment, they are not your best friend!

So make sure you proofread your dirty messages!

An unwanted auto correct can kill the mood.

Trust me, he won’t want to hear about how bad you want to be “duck” by him.

3. Sometimes, don’t ask open ended questions

What would you do to me?” would have an epic answer from an experienced sexter.

But maybe your man isn’t as confident (yet), or is not expecting something like that from you, and may end up in an awkward situation.

So in some cases, instead of asking open ended questions, a multiple choice is the way to go to try to engage with your guy without putting too much pressure on him.

For example: “What do you want to do after the movie today? Sushi? Ice-Cream? Come back to my place and  get naked?

4. Take a deep breath and let it fly!

It helps to think of getting into character.

What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him? Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!

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What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him? Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!

Now that you know how to sext, let’s go straight to the best and hottest sexting examples (that you can copy paste and use right now!)

Pictures when sexting. The right way.

Whenever you are sending sexy texts messages with sexy pictures to him, make sure your naughty texts generate attraction and mystery.

Let me explain this: 

Suppose you just took a shower, came out and want to send him a hot pic of you.

You should only show a little bit of your body without exposing too much.

Show off your cleavage in the towel or expose little bit of your curve below the waist.

This will definitely push his imagination to the next level to start fantasizing about you looking fresh and hot out of the shower.

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Subtle, suggestive, tasteful photos are more effective when sexting than plain nudes.

The idea behind this is to create a scene where the heat and sexual excitement builds up with little bit of flirting, naughty pictures and sexy texts.

He will likely ask for more.

But If you answer “no” to that, you will keep him thinking about you, imagining how hot and sexy you look.

According to Vogue, subtle, suggestive, tasteful photos are more effective when sexting.

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Sexting Tips in a Nutshell

  • Sexting has to be easy and comfortable. If you're not feeling OK with the texts you're sending, that nervousness will spoil the mood and ruin the moment.
  • There's no need to rush. It’s sexier to start simple! Think of Sexting as if it was the Foreplay.
  • The Sexy Message has to sound like you! Don’t try to talk like a porn-star because it will sound off.
  • Specific items or clothes, Nicknames, personal details, are good tools to make it sound personal (“I Can't stop thinking about your ass in those tight boxers you were wearing this morning.”)
  • Sending sexts to your man when he is not expecting can be quite thrilling.
  • Send him a sexy message when you are together... but in a situation where there are other people near you and it’s not easy for you to rush off to have sex.
  • See how he responds and go from there.
  • Start out slowly with an Ice Breaker and test the waters.
  • Follow that up with telling him how he’s turning you on.
  • Get hotter and dirtier respecting your pace. Become more descriptive and explicit.
  • The objective is to get him physically aroused. To turn him on.
  • Text occasionally and not every day. Otherwise it will become a routine.
  • If you are sending hot pics, only show a little bit of your body without exposing too much (like your cleavage in the towel after a bath), this will definitely push his imagination to the next level to start fantasizing about you.
  • Proofread your texts. A bad autocorrect can really kill the mood. (He doesn’t want to read how bad you want to be “duck” by him).
  • Don’t ask open ended question if your man is not confident yet to sext. (“What would you do to me?”). Instead ask multiple choice questions to keep him going (“What do you want to do after the movie today? Sushi? Ice-Cream? Come back to my place and get naked?”)

General FAQ about Sexting and Dirty Text Messages

What to Say In Dirty Text Messages?

One of the most crucial things to note when sending your man a sexy and dirty text message is make sure you send him short and playful messages that would allure and tempt him to reply back.

This also shows that he is keen and interested to have a conversation going via dirty text messages.

Some quick examples of dirty text messages could be:

- I am trying to work, but all I can think of is how badly I want you inside me.

- Is your cock hard right now? Reply if you can't wait to see me.

- How about body to body massage tonight?

How to Write Sex Text Messages?

The best ways to write a sex text messages are: 

Sex text that build sexual tension in a man.

Text messages that is short but makes him hard instantly.

Texts that teases and makes him intensely horny.

Sex text thats makes him think only about you 24/7.

How and When to Send Sexy Texts?

The best time to send sexy texts and sexually explicit words is when he is in a situation where he can't act on them.

For example, when he is a meeting, gym or at the grocery store.

Send a sexy text that will make him want to rip off your panties... but he can't, for example:

- I am trying to work, but all I can think of is how badly I want you inside me.

Dirty Text Messages not only helps to ignite the sexual sensors in his brain, but they also raise the heat and excitement of your next meeting or date.

Remember to keep things interesting by sending sexy text messages when he's least expecting them, it builds up the anticipation and also keeps things spicy between both of you.

It's really important to mix them up and surprise him. Do not sext every day or it will become a routine loosing the excitement.

Conclusion

Sexy texts and dirty talking lead to good sex and with good sex you end up creating good and loving memories that you can talk and linger about in future.

When relationship gets older past memories help to keep them fresh and new.

Say for example: “I like the way you use to run your hands on my hair” or “The way you use to roll your tongue on my body” or “The way I use to quiver in excitement and pleasure when you use to finger me”.

Talking of all these memories will help you make new memories and that’s the charm this little sexy texts messages could play in your love life.

I hope these sexy messages help you express the burning desire and love towards your partner in your heart.

But I would love to end this post with good a sexy note to keep things on high.

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