Is Porn Cheating?
Porn is a hugely controversial subject. Some women believe that the act of looking at porn constitutes infidelity, while some men believe that looking at porn is a man’s God-given right.
Still other couples make a place for porn in their relationship and enjoy it together....
What do you have to say for those couples is porn cheating?
Are they cheating on each other....obviously not, since they are watching it at their own will and wish it cannot be called as cheating.
Still porn addiction can destroy a relationship, no doubt.
But is that the end of the story? Does a man have to give up looking at porn just because he’s in a monogamous relationship?
Is it true that all porn is offensive and degrading to women?
Are couples who enjoy looking at porn together perverts?
I don’t want to change your beliefs about porn.
But I do want to make you aware that most men do look at porn – regardless of whether they’re in a relationship.
Here are some statistics if you are wondering thinking. . .is porn cheating or not?
- 1 in 5 men have accessed porn at work.
- More than 70% of men visit a porn site in an average month.
- 1 in 4 search engine requests are porn related.
- More than 10,000 adult movies are released per year.
- Nearly 1 in 5 movie rentals is a XXX movie.
- 1 in 4 adults saw at least one adult movie last year.
Porn is becoming part of mainstream culture, whether we like it or not.
In their book The Porning of America: The Rise of Porn Culture, What It Means, and Where We Go from Here (2008), Carmine Sarracino and Kevin M. Scott argue that porn will continue to become more integrated into popular culture as more and more mainstream movies feature porn stars or sexually explicit scenes.
Considering that sex tapes have become virtually a rite of passage for celebrities, Jenna Jameson and Ron Jeremy have become household names, and Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends are now major reality TV stars, you can see why some believe that porn is as “American as apple pie.”
For you, what that means is this: The chances of your man having never looked at porn are minuscule.
Still you believe is porn a form of cheating?
In fact, it’s very likely that he looks at porn on occasion without telling you.
To be fair, he doesn’t think that looking at porn harms your relationship because in reality porn and cheating are two different things that women try to bring together which ruins their relationships with men.
For men, porn is simply the visual version of those steamy scenes you read in romance novels.
Sure, you may think that the sex scene in your favorite romance novel is a far cry from an XXX movie, but is it?
It’s time to have a conversation, and it’s a conversation that you may not like.
Do you really know what your man thinks about porn … or is he just telling you what you want to hear?
If you need some help in having that conversation, there are a number of mainstream movies that explore the subject in funny, enlightening, or educational ways.
Check out “Zack and Miri Make a Porno” (2008), “Short bus” (2006), “F**K - A Documentary” (2005), “Kinsey” (2004), or “Boogie Nights” (1997).
Discuss the movie afterwards. It can be difficult to talk about such emotionally charged topics as sex and porn, so help your partner be honest with you by remaining as open-minded as you can.
Avoid dismissing his opinions out of hand or making moral judgments.
The more open you can be to one another about your sexual fantasies, dirty thoughts and feelings, the healthier your relationship will be.
Perhaps, with enough conversation and openness about the topic, you’ll both come to the conclusion that there’s nothing wrong with wanting to view sexually explicit material, but boundaries can and should be set.
It’s up to the two of you to decide what’s appropriate.
If you’re interested in finding out what turns him on about porn, try watching a sexually-explicit film together.
This doesn’t have to be pornographic; there are a number of mainstream movies that are as hot and steamy as any adult flick.
Try “Fatal Attraction,” “Showgirls,” “Striptease,” “Basic Instinct,” or “9-1/2 Weeks.”
If you find that you do enjoy watching erotic material together, you might want to try something a little more explicit.
The “Pirates” series by Digital Playground is one of the best places to start.
These two adult films – “Pirates XXX” and its sequel, “Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge” – have won a raft of industry awards.
They’re loosely based on the “Pirates of the Caribbean” trilogy and boast high production values (for the adult industry), million-dollar budgets, and a big-screen movie feel.
But, ultimately, it all comes down to communication between you and your partner.
You need to be able to talk about what turns you on, and, if porn is part of that equation, then you should feel comfortable enough to discuss it.
You don’t want him to feel as if he has to hide his porn use from you.
And who knows? You may just find that watching erotic films together adds a new dimension to your sex life with new erotic foreplay tips and ideas.
After all, your partner knows that a naked woman on screen isn’t half as sexy as a naked woman in his arms, but to have both?
He’ll be thanking his lucky stars!
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