Regardless of age, gender, or location, going through a breakup can be pretty challenging. To get over a breakup is just not an easy task whether you're a men or women.
Whether you broke it off or the other person did, the pain of letting your partner go is difficult to handle.
And since not all breakups are the same, people deal with the process of coping in different ways and that is why it is so hard to say that one particular way will definitely help everybody.
It may not be that easy but it is also not that hard to get over someone you love.
So here are 10 tried and tested tips to get over a terrible breakup.
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#1. First, learn to stay away from them
In order to cope with your break up and get out of that mess the very first thing you need to do is to block all sorts of communications with your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend.
Whether it is social media platforms like Instagram and Facebook or messaging apps like WhatsApp.
You might think that you are a reasonable person and blocking someone like this will be so childish but trust me it is not. When you can see what your ex is up to then you tend to start to have a little conversation about how they are doing. This will not be good at all either for you or for your ex.
Avoid seeing your ex or even accidentally running into them unless you stop seeing them you remain trapped in that last relationship.
#2. Never ever say “ We will be friends”
In my entire life, if I learned one thing then it is this; Lovers post their breakup cannot be friends. You might be thinking that staying friends with your ex would make you look cool by not caring too much about the breakup.
You might be a cool person but situations like this are not. Awkward situations arise very often when you try to stay friends with your ex. Because at the end, only one person wants to stay friends and the other want something more than just staying friends.
#3. Call your buddies
Nothing can be worse than being alone and sad after your break up. Of course, there is nothing wrong in being sad but being alone will only make you more vulnerable.
Call up your buddies and see if you can crash at their place or ask them to come at yours. at one point or the other, we all have been heartbroken. so hang around with people whom you feel comfortable with and don't mind sharing things and thoughts like what you feel and how you feel.
#4. Never ever text your ex
Never do this especially when you are drunk. Doing so will make you look like a week and too much emotional person.
Assuming that the other person still has feelings for you is normal but penning down the same and asking the other person to take you back is definitely not normal. And even if your ex replies saying "Nothing" or "Ssup" does not mean that you will have a wedding soon.
#5. Start doing some physical exercises
Intense workouts or exercises will help you cope with your anger and sadness. For a better mind peace, you can also try meditation and yoga.
If you are a fitness freak, then consider hitting a gym nearby you and spend some good 2 hours. It will really get your negative thoughts out of your body.
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#6. Try new things
Maybe, this is not the correct time but you will feel good later. try adapting new hobbies.
No matter whether that is a simple coin collection or something else, take at least 2 to 3 hours from your everyday life just to leave your regular home and try to interact with the outside world.
#7. Rebound relationship maybe
A rebound relationship is one of the best ways to get over your broken relationship and ex.
You are not interested I know but just try to mingle with new people. Just knowing how the other person is what he or she likes can make you a little more interested in the other person.
#8. Already started one? Then take it slow
You certainly do not want to end your new relationship just like your earlier one. And that is why it is important to take things slow with your new relationship.
Because you just ended a relationship and your heart almost dropped beating and you do not want that to happen again.
Think it off as a casual dating thing for some time so that it will give you some good time to understand whether you are actually interested in that person or just trying to get out of the old one.
#9. Avoid his or her friends too
What? Avoiding ex is ok but why friends? Is this what you are thinking? Then please let me explain.
If you meet your ex’s friends and hang around with them then there is quite a good chance for you to run into your ex and once again your past comes in front of you and that is the last thing you would want on this planet earth to happen.
Not forever, at least for some time avoid catching up with your ex’s friends and family.
#10. Do not even think of writing and sending heartbroken letters
Thinking of sending you’re ex heartbroken letters just to let him know that how hurt you are? Then it is a very bad idea. Saying how you could do this to me when I love you so much to your ex is not a very good idea.
When they decided not to be in the relationship any more than anything you say will not convince them. Moreover, this situation makes you look like a dependent person. So just get over your break up and the person.
Do you know some other tips and tricks to get over a breakup? then do let us and our readers know by commenting in the section below.
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