So why not get your ex boyfriend back in your life again and maybe even he feels the same what you feel.
But if that pain consistently exist in your heart, it can become chronic and that's not good for your health.
But I believe it's sometimes good to feel that pain, it also proves the real intensity of your love for your boyfriend.
Aaah! how tough it is to move on, even tough is the urge of getting back together again and giving the relationship one last chance to survive.
Well, at least till the time you guys accept the reality that you’re never going to cuddle up or go on date or sleep in each other's arm again.
It's because when relationships end nothing remains the same again like it was before.
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Even More painful when you feel helpless and just can't do anything about it.
It's because when you are desperately missing the presence of your ex boyfriend or ex husband and sense that it's next to impossible to live life without him, that painful feeling is 200 percent real, 200 percent nasty and 200 percent understandable.
Seriously breakup is very painful. Researchers say passing through this painful heartbreak is as bad as passing through drug withdrawal symptom.
In this post I will show case some of his thoughts and behavior that will give signs your ex boyfriend secretly wants you back, even if he don't realize it himself.
If this is your situation, I have a good news for you!
Maybe you believe in your mind, everything between him and you has ended from his end, but not from your end.
Do you still love him? Do you still think about him every now and again? Do you wonder will he come back again after breaking up?
1. He Says He Hates You.
Do you know that there's not much difference between the word "love" and "Hate".
Hate actually corresponds to anger and it is basically the most purest form of love, you hate someone only when you love someone and without love, hatred is not possible.
Love and hate aren’t opposites, in reality they are opposing sides of an truly passionate coin.
When he calls and says he hates you, it clearly indicates how passionate and intense his love is for you.
He just can't get you out of his mind and if you too love him, you must respond him calmly when he says he hates you.
It's your sole responsibility to understand his negative emotions which comes out of immense love and passion in his broken heart.
Even though getting back together again is tough, still it is clear signs your ex boyfriend wants you back, but he himself is not able to realize this sheer truth.
2. Even After Breakup He Tries To Be in Touch
If your love life was truly passionate and thrilling with him chances are it would be equally hard for him to forget you.
If your ex boyfriend is consistently trying to stay in touch with you sending texts, it means wants to get back together again and It could also be their way of keeping an eye on you, to see if you are seeing someone else.
It could also be that he is guilty of whatever happened and he feels in his heart somewhere it shouldn't have happened.
It shows he is not happy with the decision of getting apart and now he is searching for excuses and ways for getting back together again and fix everything that's wrong between him and you.
3. Your Common Friend Reveals He Misses You Badly
It's quite obvious that you too were part of a group and you have common friends.
One of your friend in the group happens to meet you and narrates the story of your boyfriend getting insane without you and how badly he misses you and wants you back again
Note that this can also be a trap because you haven't seen it in real, it's a message from a common friend.
Maybe he actually wants to have revenge on you. It could be anything, I am not trying scare you, but 9 out of 10 times he won' do that and also you can easily judge how he is by nature and character from your past experience with him.
But this is again signs your ex boyfriend secretly wants you back and if he really wants you must not avoid him.
4. He's a Changed Guy You Can See in His Behavior
Maybe your ex boyfriend was kind of egoistic and rude sort of guy before the breakup, but after the breakup he's a changed guy and you can sense that in his behavior.
If an happens to behave in a very warm and friendly manner after the break up.
In fact, if he is trying to be warmer and more loving than you can ever remember, it means he has realized his mistake and desperately wants to get back with you again.
(Important Note: If you want to fix things with him as well, it's a good idea to stop contacting him for a while and reach out when you are ready after no contact. If you are both in a good place, you can discuss getting back together and what you both need for your relationship to work)
5. He Keeps Talking About Old Memories
Does he keep talking about old memories and beautiful moments you spent together.
Does he talk about the first time you guys met or the day he proposed you or the places both of you used to go to all the time?
If your ex clings onto to all the old memories and constantly find excuses to talk about those special moment, it's quite obvious he want you to remember the same moments too.
And he is doing this to trigger your emotional buttons and make you feel the same love again.
6. He May Directly Ask Are You Dating Someone
If he still loves you, he would never ever want to see you dating someone else.
It can hurt his male ego which is the reason why he may directly ask you if you’re dating anyone.
The answer to this question is quite contradictory, if you want to him jealous, all you need to do is show interest in someone else.
But this isn’t something I would suggest as I believe there's no point in hurting in his sentiment and ego, especially if you still love him and want to get your ex boyfriend back.
I am saying this because if your ex is always asking about your current romantic situation? It means he still loves you and he has some hope left of getting back together again.
If he's still asking you about your love life is a signs your ex boyfriend secretly wants you back as he still cares about being in relationship with you again.
7. He Keeps Proving Himself
It's a fact someone who doesn't like and just can’t stand you, will never try to prove himself repeatedly and explain you what went wrong.
In fact the one who doesn't care will leave you alone for never seeing you again.
But that's not the case with your boyfriend, He still loves and cares for you which is the reason he keeps proving his point what went wrong.
You can understand the difference between someone genuinely wanting to figure out what went wrong so they can improve their future relationships and someone who's just trying to pretend being nice.
This efforts seriously prove he wants to move in relationship with you and start fresh again.
8. He Calls You when He's Drunk
There's a fair chance that if he loves you, he might turn to alcohol in anxiety and tension of having broken up with you.
Even more chance of him calling you when he is totally drunk, intoxicated and not in his senses.
As it is said that we speak from heart when we are drunk and we speak the truth and if he calls you and starts explaining the reasons why everything went wrong and how bad he feels now having broken up with you, then it’s an clear sign that he still have feelings for you.
However, be a bit cautious in your reply when he calls you. It could be he confesses his love to you while he's drunk and suddenly become cold the next day.
9. He Spies On You
No doubt he has broken up with you, but your memories still linger in his thoughts.
And if he still loves you, he will definitely try to find out every little detail about your daily activities like whom you meet, where you go and what you do.
Probably by seeking help of a close common friend whom he can trust blindly as he would never want you to know. he is spying on you.
It's obviously because he is still interested in you and wants to get back with you, which is the reason he spies on you behind your back, just to make sure you are not dating or seeing someone new.
10. You Keep Meeting Him Unexpectedly
Do you keep meeting him every now and then, out of the blue? If it happens occasionally, it’s fine.
But if it starts to become a regular scene, then there's a probability your ex boyfriend have someone who tells him everything about your daily routine activities.
To be honest, I don't think there's any harm in that provided he is not hurting you and yes he is trying to make every possible effort to convince you to come back again in his life.
11. He Talks About Future Plans
Maybe he never discussed about his future plans with you when he was in relationship with you.
But after the breakup he might have realized his mistakes and wrong doings.
And if he is willing to talk about the future plans with you. It means if he sees you as a potential partner and lover.
And in the back of his mind he is constantly thinking about reconciliation and get back with you which is definitely signs your ex boyfriend secretly wants you back in his life.
12. He Make Excuses To Meet You
If he is making excuses and concrete plans to meet up, then it's obvious he is planning to date you again.
Note that even though he wants to date you, but he will never directly ask you for a date.
He knows very well you are upset with the breakup which is the reason why he will try to run into you all the time trying to impress you and get you emotional by talking about past memories when you dated him.
He may even ask you to come home to meet him mom or maybe you left some stuff like your T shirt or perfume that he loved the most.
Whatever the reason is he’s desperate to have you back in his life in some way.
I suggest you to take your time and enjoy his company and make him miss you, but don’t get too excited about the fact he's is changing so rapidly.
Let him work his butt out (little bit) and see how things unfolds. Believe me if you guys happened to meet again, it will be the most precious moment of your lives.
And for him he will realize how easy to break a relationship, but how difficult it is to make a relationship and he will know he has earned you and this time he would never ever want to lose you again in this life.
13. What To Do Once You Have Figured Out He Still Loves You and Want You Back.
Now that you have found some solid reasons and signs that he still loves you. It's now time to make a decision.
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