Breakup is a part of life and every guy and girl has to go through it at least once in their life time. Most guys and girls When it happens they go on google type a keyword "how to make him want you back again" or "How to get your ex back again".
But you never try to go to the root of the problem to solve it and that's where things go absolutely wrong.
It means you still love him and want him back for you it’s not the end yet.
Do not worry I know you are hurt and sad, I am here to help, in this post I am going to lay out a step-by-step process that will show you how to rekindle your relationship and bring the romance back in your with your ex again.
The story of your love life goes like this, as usual things seemed to be going so well. You had awesome romance, hot and great sex. You had a ton of fun together.
Things seemed to be progressing, Until the day you got that fateful phone call.
“I feel like you don’t respect and love me, things are not working out between you and me and I believe we should quit.
Well I am not telling this is exactly what would have happened but the point is somehow it ended and now you want to know how to make him want you back again and how to get his attention again.
Force your Ex to Obsess Over You & Revive the SPARK Again.
#1. Be Honest And Admit The Truth
The very first thing you must do if you want to make him want you or come back is accept the truth.
If you lie to yourself about why you and your ex REALLY broke up, or what you really want this article to do for you, you’re going to be very disappointed so better accept the reality
Honesty can be painful and tough to accept. Facing the actual reasons for your breakup can be more hurtful than the actual breakup itself.
But accept you played a important part in the breakup? Ouch. This is tough stuff. Face it now–or stop reading before you hurt yourself more. Got it? Good.
Before you try to get your ex back, you need to spend a little time under- standing why you broke up in the first place.
This might seem obvious, you might even have spent hour after hour thinking just what went so horribly wrong that you guys ended up and now you are wondering will he come back to me.
Or maybe you are blank and have no clue. You have to do a bit of emotional detective work to unravel the mystery of what happened.
I am asking you to be honest and do this is because once you understand and analyze what went wrong it will be easy to move further and more importantly in the right direction.
I hope its making sense to you and you are getting my point.
#2. I know It's Tough But Avoid Him For Sometime
I know you love him so much that you are obsessed with his thought, but you need to stop getting obsessed and think beyond that.
Now that you have analyzed everything the reasons and the mistakes, it's time to implement the right strategies to make him want you again.
Just avoid him for sometime stop calling or texting him, doing this will only spoil your situation and make you look vulnerable in his eyes and that's not what you want.
I know when I broke up with my ex, I use to constantly look at my phone thinking she will message or call, but it never happened in my case, finally it all ended and my painful breakup is the inspiration behind my blogging career.
Anyways lets get to the main point as this post is not about me, it's about you mine is already done and dusted so I have no hopes of getting her back again in my life.
But by God's grace I have found someone who truly love me and I am mad in love with her, although its bit illegal but I am happy with her.
You should not text or call him, or try to get in touch with him by any means of communication for sometime at least.
Avoiding him will push him to think about you more and more, at the same time he will wonder why you are not calling, are you done with him, are you dating someone else.
All these questions will push him to keep coming back to you, believe me this is one of the best ways to make a man want you back.
#3. Show Him You Are Happy Without Him
We all love ourselves more than anything else it's a fact and no men or women can deny it.
But when you breakup the situation was so tensed that you just can't get over your guy and that situation seems unavoidable as you love him so much that the concept of self love just don't apply on you.
But understand that it’s time to get back to your life. I know you’re probably feeling the urge to jump at him and fall deeply in love again, but it’s not time yet.
This is a period when you need to be strong and show him that you are happy without him even though internally you are not happy.
It's mandatory as sometimes you have to convey that you are important and you love yourself.
It also proves the point if you cannot love yourself first, you just cannot love someone else.
At the same time will also make him feel a bit jealous and it will add to the situation getting in your favor.
#4. Dress And Look Attractive Like You Never Did To Make Him Feel Jealous
Now this is important I know you are hurt and you don't feel like doing anything, but you have to remember we discussed about self love and importance, looking good and dressing good is also a part of self love.
Don't ever skip this step, I will tell you why.
Ask in your mind do you believe constantly thinking about him and keeping yourself packed in a close will make him come back. No definitely not.
Why not than try something that will get him bit a jealous and also push him towards you.
Believe me in real life the guy you love won't even realize you exist, so get his attention you have to look like a goddess.
In fact wear something that he loves, somehow if he sees you wearing you his favorite dress and also making more effort to look good for parties and occasions when he's not around you.
But you guys are a part of that party or occasions. Trust me girls he will be more than jealous.
Whether you want to entice him to come back, or just prove him what he’s missing.
Make an effort to look even more attractive and sexy than you did when you two were in a relationship. No doubt it will hurt him a bit, but sooner or later that jealousy will again turn into love.
#5. Use Social Media To Show You Are Great Without Him
Never underestimate the power of social media, I will tell you why even if you are heartbroken and hurt with your breakup.
The best way to make him want you want you back is to make him think you are doing better even when he is not around.
Have fun at parties, click pictures with your close friends, post status updates about the new and cool stuffs you are doing.
In general do whatever you can to show him, how free and happy you are without him.
Trust me this happiness factor will definitely kill him from inside and he won't be able to ignore the fact how happy you are without him.
And the best part is that by doing all of these cool stuff, you are keeping yourself amused and over time you will realize you are happy again.
But that's not the whole point the point is this little things will drive him wild and slowly he will think of getting back to you.
#6. Wait For The Ideal Time To Talk To Him
Now after doing all the above stuffs, there's a fair chance he will call or text you.
But if he doesn't it's time to take the initiative and I believe you love him, so there's no harm in that.
It's fine you guys broke up, but if you really want to know how to make a him want you and only you.
I suggest you to start to initiate a conversation with texts.
You can do this as things now have cooled down, the anger and desperation has washed off little, so now its time to play the tricks.
But be cautious start with a casual text and not a direct phone call. You can use this texting idea to ignite his emotional hot buttons.
The best way is to keep the texts simple but powerful. If everything goes well next day, try to talk about awesome moments you spend together.
This will definitely trigger his emotions and push him to think of how much fun you had and how beautiful life was being together.
Texting Tips - Once you have started a conversation make sure you are talking about things that you guys loved doing together.
Talk about stories that will crawl right into your man's unconscious the stories that will make him smile, laugh, or reminisce.
Being able to bring that back up in your man's mind is very powerful emotion that you can create. This doesn’t have to be the first time you met.
Try to think of the moment when you knew you were meant to be together, whether that was the first time you locked eyes or the first time you kissed.
Note that this are little points but it will make a huge impact on his mind and you must use the power of this moments, if you want to find out how to make him want you back again.
Even though you guys are not together still the love won't die in span of week or two or even months.
Now what I am asking you to do is a bit dangerous as it can get him furious and even turn him off, but if you do it gracefully and tactfully he will definitely come back to you.
Now that you are on casual talking terms with him just tell him “I just saw (romantic movie) with a friend. You should watch it too, it's just awesome, see it you will enjoy it too.
Oh, man. Can you feel the power? That’s the kind of thing that will have any red-blooded man or woman start a-simmerin’ and a-stewin’.
He will start thinking what the hell is that she is watching a movie with someone, this will get him really red hot.
And yet so subtle! Remember that you’re not saying “I was just on a hot date” or anything as cruel as that.
You want your man to be able to FIGURE OUT that you were out on a hot date without you actually having to come out and say whether you were or not.
Just the idea is enough. In fact, if you’ve played your cards right up to this point, it won’t matter even if they know it’s not a hot date.
See the bottom line is not to hurt him or make him feel bad, it's just that you want to ignite that emotion he had for you once in life and you want to see and feel that same love and intensity in his eyes again for you and that's the reason you are doing this.
One more thing you can actually watch a movie in real or even fake him it's up to you, but make sure whatever you do it works out nicely for you without getting you in further trouble.
#8. Talk About The Romantic Experiences
Talk with him about those romantic moments include anything where it was really just the two of you enjoying each other without any outside interference. It could be ten minutes, an hour, a day, or more.
However bad or painful your breakup was but the moment you recall the romantic memories things automatically appear cozy and wonderful again.
This could also be the moment you discovered you were in love or other emotionally heavy moments.
I bet guys out there are like, “Chicks dig romantic stuff; this is perfect.” But girls don't underestimate the power of romantic memories to entice your man.
In fact, science shows that men are actually more romantic than women.
Dr. Terri Orbach has done years of studies showing that men fall in love more easily, expect more romantic gestures like hand-holding, and even tend to believe that "love conquers all" more than women do.
So recall your most romantic experiences to ignite his emotional buttons, believe me this how to make him want you back again.
See whatever tips I gave you in the initial part of this article was too create the right situation to reach at this point and it wouldn't had been possible without the above steps.
Now it's the right time to trigger his emotional buttons to a point of no return by talking about your best sexual experiences.
Ahh, sex. Obsession and taboo. Bio- logical necessity and spiritual sublimity. Sex isn’t everything in life, but it’s definitely something that you cannot ignore.
No matter how long you were together (or how bland things may ultimately have gotten in the bedroom),
I’m willing to bet you have some particular sexual moments with your man that you revisit in your fantasies again and again. And I’m willing to bet your ex does, as well.
Talk about those moments and see how it transforms him emotionally towards you.
Believe me this little things will make him want you back again as no guy would want to lose a partner like you and that's what you want him to feel.
#10. Time Can Heal Give Some Time Don't Rush
When a relationship end it ends roughly most of the times. Probably because you were both immature to handle it carefully and peacefully.
In the process of breakup Harsh words are exchanged which hurts the sentiments of both man and woman.
You need to give yourself and him enough time to come out of that rough breakup by allowing things to cool down, reflect and heal.
I believe rushing is not always the correct option and it will only make your relationship more vulnerable.
Better wait until some time has passed that you can think about the break-up objectively and can speak to your ex without getting upset or angry repeating the same past again and again.
#11. Change Something That He Didn't Liked in You in Past
There are always two things in any relationship, good and bad. No matter how pretty you're or how good you were in everything you did to him. There's always something lacking in everyone of us.
Be honest you already know it very well, there was a reason why your relationship ended? If there is and you think this is a reasonable complaint, then you should try to change it.
It could be anything maybe you were too possessive and he didn't appreciated it. Maybe you were too talkative or too shy or quite.
Maybe you were too sarcastic in your language or maybe you were bit immature. Whatever it was change it, if you want to make him want you and beg to be with you.
These are little things that really matter in a relationship, this small things can make or break a relationship.
I believe you must think about it, if you do so the next time he sees you on the road or in a common friends party, He should be astonished to see the changed you, this will change his entire perception and thinking about you.
#12. Find Out Whether He Want You Back Or Not
The point is it could be he has really moved on and is not interested in getting back together with you.
If this is the case you're probably wasting your precious energy and time or just embarrassing yourself in front of him which is not something that you would like to happen to you......Right?
To be honest this should have been the first point out of the 9 above, but I kept it in the end because I knew it's difficult to console a broken heart that is mad in love.
In other words even if you knew he's not wanting to stay in relationship with you, still you would give yourself a chance to Try at least Once.
If it was so easy to control your heart's emotions than love would simply not exist. We would have been living in a world where relationships were build on giving and taking and not on emotions and bonding.....
I hope it's making sense to you. To be honest I really want you to try all the above steps to get him back again in your life.
You tried still you failed, it's OK, maybe he was not yours, but if you didn't tried, it will always be on the back of your mind that maybe I should have given one more try and you will have to die with pain.
#13. Last But Not The Least Make It a Challenge For Him To Get You Back Again
I must say one thing when it comes to man, they have a habit of taking people and things for granted. Not all men of course, but most do.
All the above steps are awesome, but if he gets you back easily, you will not be of value for him.
And it's a fact when you get something too easily you tend to devalue it. And in your case he may disrespect you by repeating the same mistakes and arguments again.
To avoid this from happening again make yourself a prize for him to achieve. Make it a challenge, let him grind a bit (Note: Not to overdo it or else things may turn blue again and all your dreams of getting him back will shatter)
Say for instances when it comes to money. Man work their butt out to save money, they tend to spend it wisely and they don’t make exorbitant purchases.
They value their money, because it shows their hard work. That same value and respect should reflect in his eyes for you and this is only right cure or medicine that will get him back again into your life.....Trust me.
Imagine those lovely moments when you guys first met. Think about the first date when he brought you BOOKIE at your doorstep, opened the car door and helped you seat at your first romantic dinner?
Remember all the little but memorable surprises he planned just to see you smile and make you feel special.
You have to bring back that time again for your relationship to flourish and excel. So throw him a challenge in a disguised way.
It will prove his love for you.....BUT REMEMBER NOT TO OVER DO IT..... His respect and dignity matters too take note of that.
You’re dating your ex again. Congratulations! Have fun and KEEP DATING. You have plenty of time. Don’t rush things.
Keep it interesting, and don’t fall into a rut. You probably learned from your first breakup that sustainable relationships take a lot more work than you thought. But what greater challenge is there in life than staying with the person you love.
And this is critical for your success with man, no matter how hard you try to make him want you and love you. But if he is just not interested in relationship with you than it just don't make any sense.
Even after all this if nothing is happening quitting is the best way out, don't lose you dignity. Believe me you deserve someone better that's all.
I will stop here I hope you enjoyed reading this article on how to make him want you back again.
Force your Ex to Obsess Over You & Revive the SPARK Again.
Hi, I'm Manish A passionate blogger from India. I'm on a mission to help you discover your lost happiness and inner peace again by truly connecting with your soul.Believe me you deserve to be truly happy and prosperous in this one and only life.