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13 Handjob Techniques Every Man Wants To Experience (Try Now)

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If you have ever wondered thinking how to give the perfect hand job to your man. Here’s 13 tried, tested, “man-pleasing” best hand job ideas and techniques you can use during The Play to drive your man absolutely wild.

We will first start with some basic hand job ideas and techniques and in the end, I will show you couple of advance hand job tips.

So girls, if you are ready to please your man in bed then spare the next 15 minutes to read this amazing article as it will change your thinking and perception on playing and massaging his penis.

#1. “The Twister” Hand job Technique.

What makes The Twister so much fun is that it provides intense stimulation to your man in a variety of ways at once.

It’s a fantastic basic stroke not many women seem to know about or use (though men sure do wish they would).

To perform The Twister, wrap your hand around the base of his penis and varying the amount of pressure from medium to-hard firmness (side note: you are NOT grabbing his penis or jerking it up and down)

(You can try going super light with this as well, but it’s a whole different sensation and sexual touch for him).

Then, move your fingers to stroke up and down his penis while simultaneously twisting your hand in circular motion around his well-lubricated shaft.

The extra friction of your moisturized hand twisting in circular motion around his penis provides a tremendous amount of stimulation and can easily elicit a wonderful gasp.

Remember, you are twisting your hand AROUND him, not actually trying to twist HIM.

#2. “The Tip Swirl” Handjob Technique

The Tip Swirl takes a similar principle to The Twister, but ups the intensity by applying it to the head of the penis.

This can feel SUPER intense to at the tip of his penis, so be careful about overusing it.

To perform The Tip Swirl, moisturize your hands with plenty of lube and wrap your fingers around the base of his penis, thumb and forefinger on the tip of his penis.

Move your hand in circular motion up to the length of his shaft and when you reach the top, swivel your palm in a circular motion across and around the head of the penis.

You can also tickle his balls with your gentle claw for extra pleasure and sensation.

Then continue to rub your thumb over and back moving your hand back down the shaft. Your thumb and forefinger will now be facing downward.

As with all hand job ideas and techniques, varying the amount of pressure or speed of The Tip Swirl keeps his body guessing.

You can also squeeze and release your hand during a stroke, almost “pulsing” to add a new sensation to the mix.

#3. “Two Hands on the Wheel” Handjob Technique.

Using both of your hands allows you to massage both the glans and the shaft at the same time.

You’ll want to be in a position where you can balance without resting on a hand, arm, or elbow.

Sometimes being on the mattress may prove too wobbly, so kneeling on the floor might work best.

Wrap one hand around the base and down to his shaft, while the other hand covers the head of his penis.

Move your hands stroking up and down while rotating them slightly in circular motion.

Make sure to use a slightly gentler grip with the hand on the head, as it’s extremely sensitive.

#4. “The Okay Sign” Hand Job Idea.

This one focuses solely on the head and the frenulum. Make the "Okay" sign with one hand.

Then wrap the "O" around the head of his penis and stroke it up and down slightly.

You only need to cover about an inch or two of skin here, but the sensation he feels is a biggie, and it’s a totally different feeling then when you use your whole hand.

#5. “Rub a Tug Tug” Handjob Tip.

While giving him a handjob, cup and massage his testicles. You can also tug on them, too.

That can be a big turn-on for some guys. Just make sure to start gently and ask if he wants it harder.

#6. “The Taintilizer” Handjob work.

If you ever watched Seinfeld, you might know this technique as “The Swirl.”

This is about the prostate. The perineum is nicknamed the "taint" because it ain’t the balls and it ain’t the anus (or on you, it ain’t the vag and it ain’t the butt).

Massaging the prostate can give him an out-of-this-world orgasm.

All you need to do is run your finger along that little area between his scrotum and his anus.

You can press the perineum, rub it in circles, or rub it back and forth. Find a rhythm and go with it.

Depending on how deep his prostate resides, you might actually have to press pretty firmly.

Let him guide you on what feels good. This little gem can be used in conjunction with a handjob or a blowjob, or even during intercourse, if your arms can reach it.

The other option for prostate massage is to access the prostate by slipping a well-lubricated finger in his anus.

Not every guy is comfortable with this kind of anal play, so use this perineum play technique at your own risk and use it only if he is comfortable.

However, it’s easy to reach this magic spot via the bum and it provides a crazy intense orgasm. So if he gives you the green light, proceed!

#7. “Scaling the Mountain” (One of the best Handjob Techniques)

Lightly pull your finger from the base of his penis, all the way over the glans, and back down to the other side to the bottom.

Do this over and over again, and every third or fourth time, gently circle the glans a few times with the index finger.

(Note: this can also be used to get the erection going in Phase Two)

This method stands on its own or can be used to “transition” from one move to the next.)

These 7 were basic but really powerful hand job ideas and techniques now let’s discover some advanced hand job ideas that your man probably never heard before. Believe me this will take your sex life to another level.

#8. “The Accordion” (Hot Handjob Technique)

Okay, Ladies, put on your seatbelts and your helmets. We’re about to get into Advanced Handjob Techniques.

“The Fire Starter”

Remember those old TV shows where pioneers could start a fire by rubbing some sticks between their hands?

Well, try “starting a fire” (slowly and gently) the same way with your man’s erect penis.

Start at the bottom, and slowly “smolder” your way up to the head of his penis.

(Naturally you’ll want to use plenty of lube here, or else you might really smell smoke).

This stroke isn’t for everybody, but if your man likes this one, it’ll soon be your signature stroke.

#9. “Victoria’s Secret” Handjob Tip.

Take your bra off and loosely wrap it around the base of his hard penis (alternatively you can use your panties here).

Then move on to any of the other strokes listed.

#10. “The Nook and Cranny” - No Hands Handjob Technique.

Okay, this handjob tip doesn’t involve your hands, but use this move and your man will never look at your rear end the same way again!

Slide his lubed up cock up and down in your ass crack and around your ass (don’t go in!).

Talk about your ass and how great his cock feels. “Doesn’t it feel like home, baby?”

(Alternatively you can do the same thing with your labia. Just don’t go in the hole just stroke it up and down)

#11. “The Dr. Spock Handjob Technique”.

Believe me, use this technique, and your sex life is sure to “live long and prosper.”

Using your non-dominant hand, spread your four fingers, making a V with your hand.

Use your well-lubed moisturized hand “V” to stroke the shaft from the bottom up, slowly.

Place your dominant hand above your “V” and simultaneously, move the dominant hand faster up towards the glans of the penis.

Take the forefinger of your top hand, and lightly tickle over the glans. Do this stroke on and off as you see fit.

“Everything but the Hands” A handjob without using your hands?

This may sound weird, but trust me ladies, he will love you for it. It will feel traditional with a twist.

Start with any of the handjob techniques above, then move into this unforgettable “no hands” version.

Slide his well lubed cock up and down the inside of your arms, your wrists, and elbows with varying grips and pressure.

This is best done slowly, and if you take your time, both you and your man can really get into it.

He might not come with this strategy though. If you want him to come, you probably need a more “hands on” move.

Note: This is also a good “Go To” strategy for when your hands get tired.

Gently pull the penis with one hand and pull the balls with the other.

Try several grip varieties varying the amount of pressure–strong, soft, light stroke or hard stroke. Always remember you are not grabbing his penis.

Remember: don’t neglect the balls when it comes to the lube. Balls (and their owners) like lube. So keep massaging the testicles.

#12. “The Piano Man” Technique.

Using your fingertips, tap up and down along the underneath side of his shaft, as though you were playing the piano.

This sensation will deeply stimulate his nerve endings and increase his cock’s blood flow. No Billy Joel music required.

#13. “The Holy Grail (Ball play)” Handjob Tip

This one is considered cruel and unusual punishment (sometimes downright torture), and should be illegal in all fifty states and US territories.

Ignore the penis. Just focus on the balls. Pull, lightly squeeze, and “cup” his balls with both hands, using one hand occasionally to massage and rub the perineum area. You can massage his inner thighs for extra sensation.

Periodically twist your fingers and gently circle the base of his shaft, but otherwise neglect his penis for a while.

He’ll love you for this one! (He might hate you a little too, but he’ll forgive you, I promise!)

“Holy Grail (Variation)” Lube up the balls and rub your palm up and down them while you’re also stroking his cock (or while he is).

When it comes to the balls, attention is good.

Even if you’ve never noticed your man playing with his balls before, he should appreciate the Three T’s: “Touch, Tickle, Tug.” Whew!

Just reading this has got to have you all worked up! Go grab a drink of water, ’because it’s about to get really hot in here.

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About the Author Manish Yadav

My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!

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