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37 Sex Moves To Surprise Your Man (Man Melting Stuff Inside)


Sometimes even in the most romantic relationships the sexual intimacy fades with time. And if you are a woman you know it better than anyone else. To overcome this issue here are 37 amazing sex moves to surprise your man.

When it comes to women intimacy isn’t just about sex moves or sex surprises or foreplay tips. It’s about bonding sexual as well as emotional. 

It’s about knowing why you’re together and making that bond stronger.

Taking out time for yourself and your partner isn’t always easy, but if you’re consistent you should feel an improved connection within days of implementing these 37 (combined) foreplay ideas, unique sex tips and sex moves to surprise your man in bedroom.

37 amazing sex moves to surprise your man in the bedroom and outside.

#1. Maintain constant eye contact while making love. Try not to unlock eyes, even when you’re climaxing.

Pay attention to pupils dilating, his breathing, and the expression on his face when he comes.

Take a mental picture of that moment, and refer to it when you’re experiencing challenges in your relationship.

#2. Talk about your physical needs before sex starts. “Baby, tonight I want you to . . .” When you fill in the blanks, don’t hold back.

Find out what sexual moves or foreplay ideas neither of you have tried before, and … “Go there!”

#3. Role play romantic scenarios, scenes from porn, and sex scenes from well-known movies. Think:

Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger in ‘9 1/2 weeks’ or Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez in ‘Unfaithful.’ Keep it light and fun.

You may feel silly, or your man might not know how to make love to your man in a steamy shower, but at the very least you’ll make a good memory. And don’t forget, if it gets awkward, it’s okay to laugh.

#4. Wear tasteful lingerie. Wear tasteless lingerie. Or leave it on. Try it either way, or try it every way.

#5Dirty talk during sex. “Fuck, suck, pound, eat, lick, taste, hard, cock.” If you didn’t already know, lots of men love women who can fuck and talk like a sailor.  See if your man is down to try some raunchy tete a tete.

#6. Ask your man to wear your panties for you. (Yes, some men will do this!) If your man does this for you he really, truly trusts you.

A foray into cross-dressing can bring your one on one connection to a whole new level.

#7. Have sex without using any words at all. Touch each other non-stop.

Keep your hands consistently on each other’s bodies, caressing, stroking, and lovingly. 

Note: That these are little sex tips and ideas that matter to a man when it comes to sex and foreplay.

#8. Straight up fuck to hardcore music. Do you normally “make love?” Do it harder -- faster -- this time. Seriously.

One or both of you should have a little trouble walking for a day or two. And the reason why is your little secret.

“Why am I walking this way? Umm, I pulled a muscle at the gym.” (Yeah, sure people will believe it!)

#9. Try new sex toys to please your man sexually. Never used sex toys before? Start small (or big) with a vibrator, Venus Butterfly or Orgasm Rabbit.

Chances are you’ll become interested in experimenting with other, more “devious” toys. Cock rings?

#10. Change up the pace. Alternate between slow love making and hard pulse pounding fucking.

If you’re not sure when or how to move from slow to fast, put together a playlist to guide you. Then you just have to keep up with the tempo.

#11. Set a timer to see how long you can continue with the foreplay ideas and pleasure each other without coming.

Can you go 30 minutes? 45 minutes? 1 hour? Mother of Gaaawd, can you make passionate, sweaty, sticky love with your man for 2 whole hours? (Doesn’t it at least sound fun to try?).

Try this sex move to surprise your man and see how it will spice up your sex life.

#12. Although this sex move is not a compulsion but you can try if you want to try some kinky sex ideas.

Have sex on an airplane! Hmmmm. Maybe you're not adventurous enough to try the official “Mile High Club?” (Those airplane restrooms are really small…)

Try sneaking in a hand job — one of those airplane blankets or your coat will come in "handy" for concealing your "dirty deed."

Try to pull this off without either of you smiling or laughing.

Can you send him into sheer ecstasy? Can he stay quiet and keep a straight face?


#13. Similar to the airplane, you haven’t lived until you’ve had sex in a public place.

Get crazy on some playground equipment (late at night when there’s no kiddos around), or bang out a quickie in a movie theater. 

Just make sure the theater is relatively empty -- or not – depending on how risky you’re feeling that day.

#14. If you're normally submissive, go all out aggressive.

Tell him what to do. "Sit down. Lay down. Touch me here." This doesn't mean you need to go full on dominatrix… But come to think of it..

#15. Try some BDSM! Go full on BDSM! You know! Bondage, dominance and submission, sadomasochism.

You don't need to go 100% "50 Shades of Gray" but try pushing the boundaries past your usual comfort zone a little bit.

You might just stumble on something that sends you and your partner to sheer ecstasy. It really is a whole new world.

#16. Wear high heels or thigh high boots while you're having sex . Yes, LEAVE THEM ON! This is one of the best sex moves to surprise your man.

Remember, men are VISUAL creatures. They find this incredibly hot.

The image of you wearing “ass-jacking” heels or thigh highs will be burned into his brain indelibly!

#17. Take turns watching each other masturbate. Or masturbate at the same time.

Keep constant eye contact, and turn up the heat on the sexy, dirty talk.

#18. “Let’s make some noise!” If the kids are with a babysitter for the night don’t hold back. Get loud and proud! Howl with pleasure and delight.

When your man hears you squeal with pleasure his brain gets a huge squirt of oxytocin and dopamine and his ego gets an incredible boost. 

He’ll work even harder to keep you moaning in ecstasy. For me this is again one of the best sex tips for women to satisfy a man phyiscally and emotionally.

#19. Have you ever heard of the “Sextember Challenge?” (It’s not just for September!) You have sex every day in a month -- all 30 days -- or 31 days.

Short of a life threatening emergency or death in the family, you and your lover MUST make love at least once every day.  

Pick one month, and commit to having sex every day, no matter what.

Quick sessions, long sessions, tired, early morning sessions. People who try this SWEAR it brings them closer.

#20. Have your man undress you with his teeth. No hands allowed.

Speaking of undressing, how about a nice game of strip Trivial Pursuit? (Strip poker is so predictable…).

This is an awesome sex move to surprise your man.

#21. Remember as a teenager when you made out in the backseat of your boyfriend’s car? Well, you’re not that awkward girl anymore!

You’ve come a long way, baby!

Find a deserted parking lot and let your man devour your flesh like it’s your first time all over again.

Better yet -- get on top and ride his hard cock! See how long it takes to make the windows steam up.

#22. Surprise him by hopping in the shower and giving him a handjob or blowjob. He’ll never expect it.

Or, have good ole’ standing up shower sex. He might need to hold you up against the shower wall, which is extra hot and sexy! 

#23. Where no man has gone before… If you’ve never tried anal sex, give it a shot.

It’s not for everybody, but some ladies get an intense orgasm from it. 

Anything is worth trying once, right? Hint: there are some anal “starter” toys that can make things easier for a novice. 

#24. 69. What’s better than Oral Sex squared? NOTHING! You’re blowing him – he’s blowing you.

Let’s face it, everybody loves receiving fellatio.

The challenge is, can you deliver pleasure while simultaneously receiving pleasure too? Are you up for the challenge?

So these 24 foreplay tips and sex moves where to surprise your man. And I believe you enjoyed reading them.

Now let's understand some amazing post sex foreplay ideas and sex moves to help you connect better with your man.

Post sex: Foreplay Ideas and Sex Tips

#25. Don’t just hop out of bed and turn on the tv after sex!

Lay there -- hot, sticky, and naked -- and stare at each other.

Hold each other, and talk about what you liked most about your lovemaking session.

Then create some anticipation and set the tone for the next time. “I want to try _____. Next time, can we try _____ ?”   

#26. Food. No, this isn’t kinky! When was the last time you had a good hump session, followed by breakfast in bed?

If you’ve never done this before, you should absolutely try it!

Feed each other pancakes, strawberries, and whipped cream.

(Okay, when you bring whipped cream into the mix maybe things can get a little kinky…).

Again this is a powerful post sex foreplay idea and sex move to surprise your man in bed......isn't it

#27. Post coital massage. Bust out the essential oils (or baby oil) and get started rubbing.

If you’ve never given a massage before, don’t worry. Your lover won’t expect a “professional” experience.

Of course, you can always look up some massage tutorials online.

He’ll appreciate your warm touch and affection either way. And then it’s your turn to be on the receiving end!  

#28. Full coverage kissing. Let him kiss every inch of your body.

When you’re laying in bed, basking in post-orgasmic afterglow, the added physical attention will send a rush of oxytocin and dopamine through your body, making your love making session even more memorable.

You could even get fully aroused again and be ready for “Round 2.”

#29. Take a couple’s shower. Soap each other up really good. Scrub off the hot, sticky juices. You’ll want to be nice and clean for later.  

#30. Stay up late watching movies. Naked. Yes, “Netflix and Chill” with your partner. While naked.

Want to add a new element into the mix? Watch some porn and talk about some of the sex moves and positions you’d like to try next time.  

#31. Give each other pedicures. Yes, ladies, I said it! Some men LOVE doing this with their women.

They’re interested in seeing what all the hub-bub is about; and most men have never had their feet

“pampered.” Besides, no one else will see his newly painted bright purple piggies. It’s your little secret!  

#32. Talk about your fantasies. Your most intimate, dirty, kinky, naughty fantasies. Talk about “how” you’d like to do them.

Why you’d like to do them. Who you want to be involved! (Threesomes or Foursomes?

Hey, we’re just fantasizing here, so everything is fair game!)  

#33. Are there things on your “never” list? Talk about them and explore “why” they’re on the “never” list. “Oh, I could never have ___.”

Many people say “never” because they don’t fully trust their partner.

The more you build intimacy, the more trust you have in the relationship, and a whole new world of possibilities can open up.

#34. Food! Again? Just for fun, order some food for delivery.

When the driver arrives, show up scantily clad, or barely covered in a robe, and see how the driver reacts.

This will make a great story for the grand kids one day! 

#35. Read to each other. Current events, books, or magazines.

It’s probably best to stay off social media, though. It’s too easy to get sucked into the rabbit hole, isn’t it?? 

#36. Help each other on a work project or a hobby. Crafting, boating, jogging – whatever! It’s super-hot when your partner wants to get involved with your interests.

#37. Get up early and cook breakfast together. Watch the sunrise, and enjoy the peace and tranquility before the daily chaos begins. 

There you have it! 

As you can see, there’s a “communication” element to almost all of these sex moves and foreplay tips. 

Keep the lines of communication open, no matter what.

Your man will appreciate the fact you made an effort to strengthen your intimate connection with him. 

And hey, if you’re new to this, start small.

Don’t feel like you have to attack everything on this list all at once. It’s important to keep things fun and appreciate the memories you create together.

I will stop here. I hope you loved reading this short but sexy guide on sex moves to surprise your man.

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About the Author Manish Yadav

My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!

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