8 Serious Reasons Why Marriages Fail

Serious reasons Why marriages fail or succeed?

Why marriages fail when all know that we get married to have a healthy relationship. In the beginning of our married life we love each other madly and have awesome sex life too. In spite of so much love between married couples divorce statistics says that 60 percent of marriages fail due to lack of trust and true love towards one another. Is finding true love that hard or there is something wrong within us? The only reason I believe is we don’t allow the love in our hearts to grow into something truly amazing. Let’s find out the top reasons why marriages succeed or fail.

1. Being Selfish
Why do people get married? Do they get married to hurt each other or they really want to be together. Let’s find out in order to produce a great marriage both the partner’s needs to share the responsibility of satisfying emotional needs equally. In most marriages one partner tries to fulfill every little demands of the other partner. On the other hand the other partner responds only when something concerns to them. It keeps the first person unloved and unsatisfied. Continuous ignorance over time shows the selfish attitude of the dominant partner where they meet their own needs first but neglect when it’s their turn to share the same love and affection. This kind of selfish attitude creates lack of consideration and respect in the neglected partner’s mind and it is one of the top reasons why marriages fail.

2. Clash of Ego
In today’s generation most married couples are working and they are totally independent. Living independent is good but if you are too independent it takes away the love and connection from married life. There comes the ego problem no partner wants to have any expectations from the other one. Today’s marriage is based on finance and not love the more you earn the more is the ego. If you have headache you take medicine and you may not feel the pain anymore. But the reason behind the headache still exists, what I want to say is ego only kills your marriage. When you are in marriage you have to work on your problems mutually to solve them. The goal should be to grow together irrespective of your earnings. It doesn’t matter who earns more money and who earns less what matters is to experience true love by killing our ego and taking the marriage to the next level.

3. Dead Emotional Intimacy
Marriage is connection between two individuals who come close to one another to share those intimate emotional feelings which you cannot share with someone else. What’s the use of such a marriage were emotional intimacy is dead and lost. It’s like two people living separate lives without sharing each other’s thoughts, no words to speak, no emotions to feel, no gestures to show. We don’t get married to find a roommate we get married to get connected. Pursue each other’s interest, hobbies and listen to each other’s thoughts in order to build true emotional intimacy. The lack of involvement between couples is again of the top reason why marriages fail.

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4. Dead Sexual Intimacy
If you don’t remember when was the last time you had sex with your partner than it’s really a signs of a failing relationship. It’s fine we all live a busy life still you need to take some time out of your busy schedule to entertain one another. The more you spend good time together the more you feel connected. Same goes with sex the more you do is the more you want. But if you are having sexually unsatisfying marriage and not having regular sex with your partner than automatically the body reduces the production of sex related hormones. Though you share common bed but hardly intersect each other as a couple which is clear signs why marriages fail.

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5. It’s all your fault
The most common relationship problem cause why marriages fail is because instead of trying to find solution and fix things with mutual understanding. We try to stretch them like a rubber without knowing the limits how much to stretch. When you don’t know the limits obviously it would break. In marriage too we try to blame the other person in spite of finding solution to the problem. Married life requires two people to work on their behavior and communication skills to fix relationship problems. It’s not only how good you are in finding a solution, but it’s also about finding a solution without blaming and hurting the sentiments of the other partner by making them feel good and positive.

6. Abusive Marriage
Not respecting your partner is sign of emotionally unavailable partner. Abuse is not acceptable in any kind of relationship let it be marriage or anything. Emotional abuse and physical abuse are two main reasons why marriages fail. Abuse creates negativity and fear making a person weak and helpless from inside. Over a period of time continuous abusive cycle kills marriage and takes life out of it. Being in clutches of abusive relationship doesn’t allow you to enjoy sexual intimacy with your partner too. It happens due to the continuous humiliation and ignorance over time in your marriage which is again a big reason why marriages fail.

7. No apology
You hurt your partner intentionally and you are not even bothered to apologize. It’s because you don’t care how they feel and it doesn’t matter to you. Your partner says you hurt them, but you don’t find anything wrong in what you did. You see their faults in every little thing, you want them to change their attitude. But in spite of doing so many mistakes and hurting them continuously you won’t change your attitude. This behavior of yours not only hurts your partner but also adds fuel to the fire. It forces your relationship to move towards bitterness and agony which is again signs of a failing relationship.

8. Bad Addiction
Bad addictions like alcohol, drug and sex are again top reasons why marriages fail. Any kind of addiction can lead to conflicts in marriage. Addiction only creates negative feelings, anger and destructive arguments between spouses. The addicted spouse gets involved so deeply with the addiction that they tend to make normal married life impossible to survive. The effect of addiction on marriage can be very damaging as it not only effects the mental state and well being of the addicted person but also effects the family life including children. Upbringing of Children’s in such unhealthy environment is not good for development of any family.

These are some of the stages of marriage that proves why marriages succeed to fail. But in order to survive a failing marriage it takes two different individuals to genuinely couple up to get married and support one another. It’s very easy but first you both need to ask each other a simple question what do you want? Do you want this marriage to survive? If yes than nothing in this world can stop you from having the best married life. Few simple tips would really help like big smile, sweet hug, gentle cuddle, little romance, genuine appreciation, hot sex, spend loving time, cherish memories, keep trust, believe in forgiving and you are done. I don’t think you require anything more than this to survive your married life. Good Luck and God Bless……………..MANISH

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