Tips For Dating An Extrovert (If You Are An Introvert)

2. Constant Commnunication

Being an extrovert/introvert is just a matter of behavior and communicating is a matter of relationship responsibility. As long as you both understand that your relationship is based on only your similarities and differences as persons and not factors outside of it, you will be able to surprise a lot of people because you both are able to identify this stuff and don’t give a hoot of external distractions.

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Extroverts’ openness is often unfairly construed for flirtation. It could be true but really one introvert must be able to recognize that the outset personality of an extrovert is what makes him/her an extrovert to begin with. One must be able to differentiate flirtatious act from friendliness.

4. Pick Your Battles

Yes, pick it wisely! Behavioral differences will lead to arguments and there’s no escaping it. Be that as it may, introverts hold the control over this since extroverts are the most likely to act immaturely during arguments. Not that introversion displays such incisive maturity based on behavior; it’s just that between the two, outgoing persons tend to act rather childishly and could really lead into something bad.

5. Embrace Diversity

It’s the mantra of the world and clearly, the mantra of every surviving relationship out there. The applicable axiom to love conquering all is the ability of each side in recognizing that no matter what’s the case, differences are there to stay. They key is always learning the ways to accepting its reality—and that no relationship is perfect ergo no relationship if perfectly fitted. So don’t believe anyone quoting that two couples are just perfectly made for each other. There’s no such thing. If anything, diversity offers the opportunity to really define love. Isn’t it love all about accepting differences?

Putting them both (an introvert and an extrovert) together could be a recipe for disaster but really, who are we to challenge union of two opposing behaviors when we are talking about matters of heart? Well, didn’t the world say “opposite attracts?” Not even the best love advisors out there could totally pan such idea because to be totally different with one another in a relationship is what it should really be because otherwise, the being in a union or a in a relationship’s purpose gets defeated apparently.

Generally, most of us would say that too much difference (like in cases involving introverts and extroverts) is too much to handle for any subsisting relationships. Arguably, common reason of break ups is the inability of one person or both to adapt on the dissimilarity both put on the table. But really, in those cases, differences are not really the problem—it is the attitude that decides whether or not you are in love enough to clinch these differences.

Interestingly, we’ve been hearing and reading a lot of discussions about how should we view these factors when dealing with relationships and we can only get to have better understanding of it if we can continue to be objective and interactive on this kind of issue. So in view of that, it is encouraged that anyone who has their comments regarding the issue discussed above to feel free to chime in.

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