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Want to know how to make any woman addicted to you?
Interested in jump-starting a stale sex life?
Maybe you want to have sexual control over a woman or maybe you want to spice up your sex life and drive your girl crazy again or maybe you want your Ex back again.
If you answered yes to any of these questions, keep reading – because this article is for you.
You’ll learn how to seduce her brain in order to become the man she craves constantly.
Ok, then. Let’s get started! And find out what makes a woman sexually and emotionally addicted to a man.
There are still lots of things scientists don’t understand about the brain. However, there’s been a ton of research done on the brain sexual chemistry and how it all relates to human behavior.
The brain sexual chemistry is essential to human pleasure.
I’m not going to get too technical, but I do want to give you an overview about your brain and sex.
The Brain’s Sexual Chemistry – Dopamine and Oxytocin
The brain’s sexual chemistry controls our ability to feel good.
This is important because feeling pleasure motivates us to repeat behaviors that are crucial to our survival like eating, fucking, socializing – you get the idea.
And if you understand this sexual chemistry then certainly you can make any woman addicted to you sexually and emotionally.
The brain’s sexual chemistry system is pretty complicated and many different neurochemicals are involved in its functioning, but there is one main neurochemical that I want make sure you understand – dopamine.
Learn how to tap into this neurochemical to make her want you and she will not be able to get you out of her mind!
Dopamine (the pleasure chemical):
In the beginning of a relationship, dopamine is skyrocketing.
You are simultaneously overwhelmed with fear and pleasure. Where will this go? Is she as into me as I’m into her?
The smallest signs that she returns your feelings make you giddy. You can’t get enough of her.
You may literally forget to eat or be unable to sleep because you can’t stop thinking about her.
All you care about is when you can get another hit!
Everything about her turns you on.
However, as many of you know, the cruel truth of the matter is that this kind of intensity isn’t sustainable and eventually begins to taper off the more comfortable and familiar you become with each other.
This is due, in part, to the neurochemical oxytocin.
Oxytocin (the bonding chemical):
Both men and women release oxytocin during sexual arousal. It evokes feelings of contentment, trust, reduces anxiety, and increases feelings of calmness and security.
These feelings are what help you let your guard down and protect you against orgasm/boner-killing feelings like fear and anxiety.
But it’s easy to start feeling safe and comfortable, which results in you putting in less effort into a relationship. We’ve all done it.
She starts caring less about her appearance and you’re seeing her with no makeup and sweats on more often than not.
You start going to the gym less. Date nights have devolved into snuggly movie nights at home.
The sex is less interesting. You feel like you practically have to beg for it most nights and you start noticing other women more than you used to.
You are addicted to dopamine because it makes you feel exhilarated, excited, and alive.
It’s the reason you enjoy sex and fall in love. The purpose of oxytocin is to balance you out so that you can also develop a deep connection with a partner.
The sad part, though, is that the more used to each other you get, the more the novelty wears off and the less dopamine you trigger in each other.
You find yourself with a cozy, oxytocin-dominant relationship.
That’s the reason you need to keep the oxytocin balance harmonious enough to make a girl addicted to you sexually and emotionally.
You want the predictability and safety and deep bonding that oxytocin brings, but you also want novelty, which is harder to sustain in the long term. How can we have our cake and eat it, too?!
I’m about to share with you how to trigger these chemicals in order to GET her addicted and KEEP her addicted to you for life long.
What triggers dopamine?
Novelty, Surprise, and Triggers
1. When you introduce a new way to enjoy sex (either something a new partner has never experienced before or something you and an old partner have never tried before) – it can be dirty talk, phone sex or role-playing – it’s a novelty, which means new or different. Novelty = rise in dopamine.
2. The element of surprise. Sending a dirty text unexpectedly, whipping out a sex toy during sex, or suddenly changing into a ‘character’ during sex are all ways to surprise her. Surprise = rise in dopamine
3. Because dirty talk, sex toys, or role-playing are all things that lead to sex, they will become sexual triggers, which means any of these things will cause an instant rise in dopamine due to sex being the predictive reward.
Triggers = rise in dopamine, rise in dopamine = more desire and more connected, hotter sex!
More on dopamine’s response to triggers:
Risky behaviors like gambling can co-opt the reward system and drive us to make irrational decisions that definitely are not beneficial to our survival.
You know what I’m talking about.
It’s like when you lie and cheat on your girlfriend and it feels so good in the moment, but you definitely regret it the next day.
That’s the way your brain’s sexual chemistry work. You are overwhelmed by pleasurable feelings in the moment even though your rational brain says, “Don’t do it!” You just can’t stop chasing that feeling.
Drugs like crack also co-opt the reward system. In fact, one study showed that when given a choice, rats chose continual, self-directed electrical stimulation to the dopamine receptors in their brain – over sex, food, and water.
They were basically electro-stimulating their brains into ecstasy.
Therefore, it appears that the brain’s sexual system may be driving addictive behavior.
Furthermore, this system can be activated by simply seeing or hearing triggers that have been associated with pleasure in the past.
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For instance, watching your favorite porn and hearing a woman moan in ecstasy can activate the brain’s sexual chemistry system. For a crack addict, simply seeing a crack pipe will release a burst of pleasurable feelings.
Let’s now relate this knowledge to getting a woman you have just started dating addicted to you.
First of all, you must plan dates that will stimulate her brain’s sexual system. Forget dinner dates!
BORING! If you want to create an addict, you must know how to excite her.
Don’t just plan a picnic. Plan a picnic, but blindfold her and guide her down the path to the vista point where the picnic will take place.
Take her skydiving (if she’s that kind of girl).
Go to a theme park. Disney is basically set up to trigger the reward systems.
Take her on a hike (exercise has been shown to activate the reward system).
Go for a bike ride. This can be especially fun if you live near the beach. Bike a little then stop for a cocktail at a bungalow bar.
Go to a sex-toy shop together and pick out something you both think would be fun to try.
Try some role-playing, which I have elaborated on in the section titled “Head Games.”
Take a repelling class together.
Go indoor rock climbing together.
Play video games together (if she’s into that sort of thing).
Watch an action thriller movie together that keeps you both on the edge of your seats but that has a happy ending.
You can also apply this technique in order to sustain a healthy bond and sex life with a long-term partner.
Remember you should never stop having dopamine-inducing, novel, exciting experiences like the ones I described earlier with your partner.
Take a trip, go to a crazy event like Burning Man, Cochella, go camping, or try something new in bed – do anything to get out of the old and into something new!
Now, let’s relate what you just learned to texting and dirty talk:
If you send a playful text that leads to awesome sexting that then leads to incredible sex, over time your first playful text will trigger dopamine in her brain.
The dirty talk (and even the sound of the text alert alone) will become a trigger.
My wife has a special ringtone for me. I know it’s there and I love to ding it randomly from time to time. It’s unexpected and triggers her rewards system for me.
Because you are the man that continues to trigger dopamine in her system, she will become addicted to how good you make her feel. She will not be able to get enough of you!
So, be careful who you use this stuff on! You don’t want lots of unsuspecting women running around begging you for more sex. There’s only so much of you to go around!
I will stop here. I hope loved reading this article on how to make any woman addicted to you sexually and emotionally both.
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My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!