Try These Text Messages To Make Him Want You (get him hooked)

The Launch Texts For Early Days Of Your Dating.

The texts you will be sending the man you’re messaging at this stage are designed to grab his attention and pique his intrigue, like a rocket waiting to launch. 

They will make him happy to hear from you, and they’ll stir up the kind of attraction and excitement that you’ll need to take the relationship to the next level.

Before I give you the messages you’ll be sending at this point in the game, take into consideration where and when you met the man you’re hoping to woo.

For instance, did you exchange numbers at a bar last night, or have you been platonic friends since high school and only recently felt the two of you could be something more?

Why is this important? Well, picture this:

Despite the different backgrounds, the fact remains the same: you have his number and want to text him.

What comes next is the important part, and that’s choosing the right words.

After all, texting someone you met at the club is going to be vastly different from texting an old pal.

Still, the end goal remains the same: you want to make it known that you are interested in him, but you need to do so in a way that doesn’t make you appear desperate.

The trick here is to start small and build a texting rapport with your guy before sending him anything that’s too heavy or suggestive.

How he writes and responds to your text messages is going to play a big part in how the situation unfolds, but there are some key ideas to keep in mind when texting him in these early days.

Remember: texting reveals your personality and is a digital first impression; those first few messages you send can determine your entire romantic future. 

Here are  examples of different types of text messages you can send him at the “Launch” stage.

Examples of texts that will “Ignite His Passion For You"

Perfectly Customized Text Messages To Make Him Want You.

In the early stages of texting, you’re going to want to focus on making plans.

Since texting allows you to create whatever impression of yourself you wish to convey, too much of it may set you up for failure.

In other words, it could put so much pressure on you that when you do finally meet up and interact face to face, you don’t feel like you can be your natural self.

What’s worse is that even if you choose to fake it for the first little while, your true colors will eventually shine through, and he will realize that you’re not the same person you were pretending to be in your early texts.

This is why in the first few messages you send him you’re going to want to initiate plans.

While doing so, you need to be specific. Sending a message like, “Want to do something sometime?” or even, “Let’s hang out this weekend” is vague, and it doesn’t ask for much commitment. 

On the other hand, being specific about your plans gives him something to commit to, and it also shows your assertive side—this is a good thing, because no man likes indecisiveness.

The more original you can be here, the better. Sure, asking to meet for a coffee works, but instead of opting for the typical date or meet-up idea, suggest something fun and unique.

Maybe there’s a show in town you’d like to check out, or a new restaurant opening.

Perhaps the weather is getting nice and there’s a great park to stroll in nearby. The more creative you can be here, the better.

If you can propose an event or place that the two of you have chatted about in a previous conversation, that’s perfect.

If you’re feeling shy about initiating plans, or if you’re worried about rejection, or if you want him to be the one pursuing you, then you may want to put the ball in his court.

To do so, it’s crucial that you let him know you’re interested in going on a date and give him the opportunity to ask you out.

For instance, you could text him, “I’ve loved chatting with you and think it would be wonderful to do so in person.”

This works well, because the message is positive, and it opens the door for him to ask you out without fear of being turned down.

A more playful version of this kind of message would be something along the lines of, “You have amazing eyes. I’d love to see them in person ;).”

Examples of “Perfectly Customized” Texts:

Texts That Will Make Him Laugh.

Lastly, you’ll want to make sure that you aren’t overdoing the humor or making all of your text messages sound like a joke.

A clever one-liner or a fun pun can take you far, but adding “haha” or “LOL” to every message could take away from it, and it could even confuse him. 

For instance, if you send him something along the lines of “It was so nice seeing you last night” and add “HAHA” to the end of it, then he’s going to be unsure of whether or not you actually mean it.

If you can make him chuckle with a Laughter Text, then you can almost guarantee that you’ll be on his mind all day.

So be the happy-go-lucky, whimsical woman that every guy dreams of finding, and you’ll have him counting down the seconds until your first (or next) date.

One of the best ways to make a guy laugh is by sending him animated GIF's or memes.

If you have an iOS or Android device, you can install special keyboards or add-ons that will allow you to send him funny clips. This is a great way to break the ice after a long period of silence.

Examples of Laughter Texts to Make a Man Want You.

Make Him Feel Proud Text.

Imagine this situation.

Sitting in the lunchroom, Joe unwraps his homemade ham and cheese sandwich and pulls out his phone. Seeing he’s received a message from Laura, he taps the screen to open the text

Grinning ear to ear, Joe can’t help but feel proud to be the one this impressive woman is texting with her good news.

What I call “Making Him Feel Proud Texts” are the type of texts that give the guy receiving them a glimpse into what life with you would be like.

They are designed to make him feel lucky to be on your mind, and to show him what an outgoing, confident, happy, and motivated woman you are.

To properly send this kind of love-for-life messages, use words that ooze positivity.

Whether you’re sharing your own achievements or encouraging his endeavors, telling him how great of a day you’re having, or letting him know how blessed you feel, the point of these messages is to make him think about how bright the future looks with you in it—because Girl, you’re radiating sunshine!

What’s the secret to pulling off this type of text? Expressing a genuine love for life.

Don’t be afraid to be fun and flirty in this type of text either, especially if you can send him something that you know will make him feel good about himself.

Whatever you choose to send him, just make sure that your text tells the story of a woman who is bold enough to know what she wants, and brave enough to take it!

When you can be the one who makes him feel a vibrant love for life, he’ll go gaga for you and have the urge to make you his own.

Examples of Make Him Feel Proud Texts.

Building The Connection Texts To Make Him Yours.

You’ve been texting the guy you’re into, but lately his responses are few and far between. When you ask if something is wrong, he says he’s just been busy.

This may very well be true, but you’ve noticed that he’s found time to like posts on Instagram and reply to comments on Facebook . . . yet he doesn’t text you back.

If you’re like most women, then you’re probably feeling dismayed.

Maybe you’ll want to call him out on it, or maybe you are tempted to send him a snotty “Cool story bro” text; or maybe you’ll wallow in your own self-pity and wish that you were someone he wanted to message.

Well, if you’re looking to win this guy over, then it’s time to put those behaviors to bed.

Instead of getting your knickers in a twist or sending him passive-aggressive messages because he’s not replying, send him the kind of text that he’ll want to respond to—the kind that will grab his attention and, like a moon circling a planet, pull his orbit back to you.

I call these “Building The Connection Texts.”

Building The Connection Texts can be tricky because you don’t want to be overbearing or make it seem like you’re desperate to hear from him.

Even more importantly, you want it to come across as though his lack of communication hasn’t been affecting your life—after all, your life is far too fun and busy to be put off by a few unanswered messages.

Before sending him another message, take the time to reflect on the texts you’ve sent that went unanswered. Were they rambling or, from his perspective at least, pointless?

Did you send them at a time when he was likely busy with work? Did they require a lot of thought, or a long response on his part?

To pull him back in, you’re going to want to send him a building the connection Text. This kind of message doesn’t beg for a reply, but instead, it’s of value to him. 

For instance, you may want to share some news that you think he’ll find fascinating, or, if you are going to ask a question, make it one that he’ll enjoy answering because it’s of interest to him.

As you may have guessed, because of the draw it creates, this kind of text is great in situations where you’re looking to win an ex back.

Just remember, men like to keep things simple, so if your texts demand a lot of attention or are overbearing, then he may be choosing to avoid them.

Also, keep in mind that guys love their freedom, and a smothered man won’t stick around.

If you want him to respond to your messages and be happy to hear from you, then the trick is to keep your texting relationship lighthearted and easy

Here Are Some Really Good Examples On Building The Connection Texts.

Bring The Spark And Chemistry Back Again Texts.

Imagine This Scenario.

Dawn and Ben had been texting each other for a few weeks and had gotten together a handful of times.

The spark between the pair was undeniable, but due to a previous heartbreak, he was keeping her at arm’s length.

Desperate to bring him closer, Dawn used a clever “Bring The Spark And Chemistry Back Again” Text.

Ben could feel his body temperature skyrocket as he read her message. Not because he was angry with her, but because of the jealousy that overtook him as he pictured her sitting in a dark theatre, clinging to some other man’s arm as she jumped and shrieked out of fright.

In that moment, he knew that he had to drop his guard and sweep her off her feet—before someone else did!

It’s pretty rare that you hear of a case where intentionally agitating a person can spark a positive reaction, but in the early days of seeing someone new, stirring up feelings of jealousy or discomfort can actually do wonders for making the man you’re seeing commit to something more with you.

Of course, this needs to be done subtly. If the man you’re texting gets the impression that you’re intentionally trying to get a reaction out of him, then this will backfire on you.

Don’t worry, though, because building chemistry through these types of messages is easier than it sounds.

By being mysterious in your messages—more specifically, by remaining vague about your plans and company—it will get the wheels in your man’s head turning.

From casually dropping other guy’s names in your texts to sending him ambiguous messages about your “crazy” or “amazing night out,” tidbits of information like this will have him wondering what you’re doing, who you’re meeting, and where you’re going.

Make note that when sending this sort of message, it’s important to keep all of your texts positive and not overdo it.

If you hold back too much information on a regular basis, then he may start to get the impression that you’re into someone else.

Examples Of Getting The Spark And Chemistry Back Again Texts.

Conclusion: Important tips to keep in mind while texting him at this point in your relationship:

Be straightforward - Since you’re still in the stage of determining whether or not the two of you are compatible enough to take things to the next level and date, it’s important that you don’t play games.

As you already know, men and women text quite differently from one another, so if he’s struggling to decipher your messages, or if he feels overwhelmed with confusion when reading them, then sooner or later he’s going to give up.