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So when was last time you played shower sex game with your girl for purposes other than to get clean?
Even if it’s been awhile, I’m sure it doesn’t take much for you to remember just how fun and exciting it felt.
If you’re looking to bring back some of that fun to your boring old shower routine, this guide will show you how to get nice and dirty and experience the best shower sex with your girl.
Having sex in the shower can be a great way to add some kinky fun into your relationship.
In this guide, I’m sharing three very sexy shower sex games that are guaranteed to make things between you and your girl hot and steamy.
Before you begin your wet and wild sex shower games, you’ll want to discuss them with your partner and come up with a set of rules.
Putting some rules in place is very important, especially if you’re new to sex games.
It is not uncommon for one partner (if not both) to feel a little shy or apprehensive when first starting out.
There are many reasons for this, including feeling embarrassed, fear of having to do something you don’t want to do, feeling uncomfortable about your body, etc.
To help eliminate some of the discomfort and apprehension, take some time to establish a set of rules for your fun in the shower sex.
In doing so, you will achieve the following benefits.
• You will learn each other’s limits and how to go about respecting those boundaries. This will help to provide the comfort that’s needed to willingly participate in the sex games.
• You will open the path of communication between you and your partner and at the same time fulfill your sexual fantasies.
• You will create a stronger bond of trust as you establish rules and abide by them
Agreeing on a set of rules prior to engaging in shower sex games will help both you and your girl feel more comfortable exploring this new area of your relationship together.
This will allow both of you to enjoy the game and partake in the fun to the fullest extent.
What kinds of rules should you set? The following are some suggestions:
• KEEP AN OPEN MIND. Playing around in the shower can bring to mind various dangers for some, such as slipping and banging your head against something, breaking a leg, etc.
It’s not like these things never happen… but if you take time to be careful, the chances are slim. So agree to keep an open mind.
• AGREE TO DIFFERENT SEX MOVES AND SURPRISES. Sex games are all about having fun.
And one of the things that make them fun is the surprise factor! So don’t get caught up in needing to know what’s coming next.
Instead, relax and go with the flow. This includes what game you’ll play in the shower.
• AGREE TO A STOP WORD. Although you should discuss your boundaries ahead of time, there can come a time when something not discussed is encountered and one or the other partner might not feel comfortable doing it.
So come up with a word that lets your partner know that the game has pushed you to your limit and you wish to go no further.
• DECIDE WHAT’S ALLOWED TO BE DISCUSSED. It can be fun to share with your best friend the details of your exciting shower adventures.
But your partner might not agree with you divulging this information.
The only way to find out what’s permissible and what’s not is to talk things over with your partner.
This is especially the case if you decide to videotape yourselves during your sexy fun.
If you partake in this, be sure to agree on a place where the video can be kept for safekeeping.
Most couples prefer to keep videos and photos between the two of them, but if you are okay with your partner showing someone else, be specific on who that is.
Shower sex games can be a great way to get her wet and add wild fun to your relationship. So be sure to talk things over with your lover.
Doing so will ensure you both get the most out of your these pleasurable experiences and keep you and your partner coming back for more.
One common sexual fantasy among both men and women is to dominate or be dominated by our partner like BDSM.
By this, I mean pretending as if you or your partner is a slave.
One popular sex game that allows you to explore this fantasy is the Shower Sex Slave.
This is a great game for couples to play because it can help to increase the emotional bond between them.
With one partner playing the Master and the other playing the Slave, each gets to see how the other responds in their assigned role and learn a few new things about their partner’s wants, desires, and skills.
It’s a great way to test just how far one partner can go with their sexual desires and how long the other can go without giving in to them.
The Shower Sex Slave game can be played at just about any time, but it’s especially great after a long and stressful day.
This is because the game is meant to be played out slowly.
It’s all about slow and sensual pleasure, so there’s no need to rush.
• Scented Candles
• Brush (or comb for him)
• Soft Body Sponges
• Long, Thin Towel
• Shampoo & Conditioner
• Soap or Body Wash that creates LOTS of suds!
Ambiance is very important for this game.
So when preparing to play this game, light some scented candles and either dim or completely turn off the bathroom lights.
If possible, turn on some soft music that has both a relaxing and sexy feel to it.
The role of the Slave is to clean your lover from head to toe without engaging in sexual intercourse.
However, your lover’s entire body is yours to do whatever you want.
You can touch, stroke, lick, and do anything else you wish, whether your Master asks for it or not.
However, you must carry out any and all demands made by your Master.
Just don’t engage in sexual intercourse while in the shower.
Save this for after the shower if you decide to have sex at all.
You must also remain completely silent during the game.
This is part of playing the role of submission.
No matter what the Master asks, it’s the slave’s job to add some naughty fun when fulfilling their Master’s desires.
The Master of this game gets to make whatever demands they want of their shower sex slave, such as spend more time cleaning a certain area of your body (or request that that area be “licked” or “sucked” clean).
To add to the fun, use an authoritative tone when speaking to your shower sex slave.
Remember: you are the Master, so you have all the power!
To start, undress your Master. Next, sit your Master down, either on a chair or the edge of the bathtub, and gently brush or comb his or her hair.
If your Master is bald, perform a scalp massage for a few minutes.
You can even shave your Master’s head if you feel skilled enough to do so.
Your goal is to help your lover relax and let go of tension, so go slow.
With the shower already running, gently stand your Master up and lead them into the shower.
Make sure the water is already warm. You don’t want to turn your lover off with tepid, cold, or scalding hot water.
Next, take the big bath sponge and lather is with the soap or body washes until you have lots of suds.
Slowly rub the soapy sponge over your Master’s body.
Where you, start, is up to you, just be sure to cover your Master’s entire body.
Once you have your Master nice and soapy, set the sponge aside and begin using your hands.
Remember, good slaves, make sure to clean every spot!
Use your hands and fingers wherever necessary, and think “slow and sexy” as you clean your Master.
To steam things up a bit, spend some extra time cleaning your Master’s erogenous zones.
To do so, kneel down in front of your master.
Next, wet the long, thin towel and then twist it so that it is rolled up like a thin, spiral tube.
For a female Master, position the towel between her legs so that one end is in front of her and the other end is behind her.
Next, move the towel back and forth, slowly and softly, so that the towel sensually rubs her vagina.
For a male Master, position the towel under his penis and slide it from left to right.
You can also position it in the same manner as with a female master, just be careful with your Master’s testicles, as they are very sensitive.
If you want to do some naughty cleansing with your mouth and tongue, go for it!
By this time, you and your Master should be feeling very aroused, but don’t give in just yet.
Instead, stand behind your Master, with your naked body pressed against his or her back, and begin shampooing your Master’s hair.
Slowly massage the shampoo into your lover’s hair and massage the scalp.
If your lover uses it, do the same with the conditioner after you’ve rinsed the shampoo out.
This titillating shower sex game doesn’t end until the shower is over.
This includes drying your Master off with a towel and rubbing either oil or lotion all over your Master’s body nice and slow.
Once you’ve got your Master dried and their skin softened with lotion, you can then proceed with lovemaking if you wish.
Where you have sex is up to you and your partner— bathroom counter, bathroom floor, or in the bed—you choose.
To add to the erotica, keep playing the role of Slave and Master until you’re done!
#2. Amsterdam Windows Shower Sex Game.
Ever heard of the term “Amsterdam Windows”?
If you’ve been to Amsterdam’s red-light district, the main city of Holland, you probably know that it’s where prostitutes stand in window displays along the streets to entice the men that walk by, in hopes they will choose them to carry out further sexual pleasures.
What makes Amsterdam Windows so fun is the voyeurism and the self-pleasure that couples can take part in while playing out their role.
It’s great for practicing to let go of inhibitions, learning what turns your partner on, and building trust.
• Scented Candles
• Strobe Light (optional)
• Red Light Bulbs (optional)
• Soap or Body Wash
• Shower Brush (optional)
Again, ambiance is very important for this shower sex game.
To set the mood, consider changing out the bathroom light bulbs with red bulbs or use a stand-alone strobe light unit.
If you don’t have access to either, then use some scented candles for lighting.
The woman usually plays the roles of the Prostitute.
As a naughty lady of the night, your job is to seduce your voyeur and lure him into participating in some erotic pleasures with you.
To do so, you must tease him by running your hands across your body, touching and pleasuring your most intimate parts.
Be as naughty as possible, as your goal is to entice your voyeur into some self-pleasure of his own.
The only thing you are not allowed to do is talk.
The man usually plays the role of the Voyeur.
As the Voyeur, you will simply watch the lady of the night do her thing.
When you feel aroused, don’t hold back. Rub your penis until you’re nice and hard, then take it out and pleasure yourself.
No matter what you do, be sure not to talk to your naughty temptress
To start, the Prostitute needs to wear something skimpy and sexy.
A tight, white t-shirt with no bra and a mini skirt or bikini bottoms work great.
The white t-shirt will expose your hard nipples and turn your voyeur on!
You can even add some high heels to your outfit if you have a pair you don’t mind getting wet.
Once dressed, get into the shower with the water running.
If you don’t have a glass shower stall, then just leave the shower curtain or shower door open.
If you’re worried about water getting on the floor, then try turning the shower head away from the open side of the shower just a bit and lay some towels on the floor.
As for the voyeur, you will sit on a chair a few feet away from your naughty lady.
Just make sure you are in a good position that allows you to see her every move.
For effect, you can wait to enter the room until after your partner is already in the shower.
You can then walk by and take a look at her, then sit down to see what she’s got.
The more you put into the role-playing, the better!
With the voyeur seated in the chair, it will now be up to the Prostitute to play her seductive role to the fullest.
She can keep her t-shirt on or remove it at some point during her sexy, drawn-out shower.
As the Prostitute, be sure to get the suds going and to rub them all over your body.
Be sure to use your hands to glide, caress, and explore your body for your voyeur.
Your goal is to turn your voyeur on, so make sure to do a lot of teasing.
To steam things up, push your body against the glass to add a bit of torment to his highly aroused state.
Eventually, you will want to play with your clitoris and slide your fingers in and out of your vagina.
If you have a removable shower head, you can use it directly on your vagina and possibly bring yourself to a climax of your own.
Whatever you think your voyeur would find sexually stimulating, do it!
Forget that you are watching your lover and look at her as the naughty prostitute that she is.
Once you have a throbbing hard-on, take your pants down or completely undress.
Pleasure yourself as you watch her touch her own erogenous zones.
Amsterdam Windows is about carrying out a sexual fantasy that thousands of people share—watching our partner touch and play with him or herself.
This can be just as much a turn on for women as it is for men!
How you end the game is entirely up to you and your lover. The following are some suggestions:
• You can stop after you both have an orgasm, with the Prostitute in the shower and the Voyeur in the chair.
• The Voyeur can join the Prostitute in the shower and carry out whatever pleasures he or she desires.
• The Voyeur can flash some money as an invite for the Prostitute to step out of the shower to perform oral sex on the voyeur or partake in a hot and steamy session of lovemaking (you can even do it right there in the chair).
Remember: there should be no verbal communication during this game.
You should act like complete strangers, with one of you in the shower and the other sitting in the chair getting turned on by whatever he or she does while inside the shower.
As if this game isn’t hot enough, there are a few other things you can do to turn up the heat:
• Add some music. Mixing some soft, slow tracks and building the music until it’s sexy, rough and erotic can make the role-playing a lot easier, not to mention add to the ambiance.
• Play this game with the goal being to see just how fast you can make the voyeur reach an orgasm.
• Videotape your naughty escapade and watch it together at a later time. This will give you an opportunity to pleasure each other as you watch yourselves.
I’m sure you know of the TV game, Wheel of Fortune.
But what you may not know is that there are more fun and naughty version of this game called Wet Wheel of Sex and Fortune.
It’s a great game for engaging in a variety of sex positions and getting couples out of their boring routine.
The object of Wet Wheel of Sex and Fortune is to do whatever sex position or act the wheel lands on.
Of course, this requires a wheel of naughtiness.
Because this game is fairly popular, you can purchase a variation of this game from most adult sex stores or order one online.
But trust me—making a wheel of your own is so much more fun!
• Waterproof Sex Wheel
• Scented Candles
• Relaxing, Sexy Music
• Wine or Other Beverage
• Food (such as chocolate-covered strawberries or other sexy tidbits)
• Soap or Body Wash that creates LOTS of suds!
• Anything Required to Perform the Sex Acts on Your Wheel (such as sex toys, sponges, vibrators, etc)
If you choose to make your own wheel, you can do one of two things.
You can either assign a period of time (such as 5 minutes) to each sex act on the wheel, or you can make two wheels: one with the sex acts and the other with times listed on it.
If you use two wheels, then you spin both to find out which sex act you will perform and for how long.
In making your wheel with the sex acts, you can both write out the sex act or cut and paste a picture of the sex act onto the wheel (such as kissing, sucking her nipples, licking his penis, etc.).
Be sure to include some sexy and fun sex positions on the wheel (doggy style, a woman on top, etc.).
Just as the Wheel of Fortune has some spots that are considered top prizes, you can add a spot on the wheel that says “Lover’s Choice.”
If you land on it, it means you get to choose what you want your lover to do.
And don’t forget about that spot you don’t want to land on.
On the real Wheel of Fortune, it’s the black tile marked “Bankrupt.”
So use your imagination to include a spot that you might be a tad bit shy about doing if landed on, yet something your partner would love to see you perform!
Just remember: wherever the wheel stops, there must be a time limit applied to whatever sex act you wind up performing by yourself or together.
Wet Wheel of Sex and Fortune is not a game you play in just a matter of minutes.
It should take you up to an hour or more to play.
For this reason, be sure to have some wine or other beverage and some food (think romantic—strawberries, cheese, and crackers, grapes, etc.) on hand to help add to the fun.
For this game, it’s important that you get into the right frame of mind. You don’t just want to “get on with it” and rush through the game.
If you want, start with a sexy shower together or give each other a sensual massage.
When you feel you and your lover are aroused, continue with some foreplay to really get each other going.
This is an important start to the game, as the Sex Wheel should be based more on sex positions, oral sex, and other intimate sex acts than anything else.
Depending on the size of your shower, this game may be easier for you to play in a bathtub.
Even then, there can be some limitations to some of the sex positions you can put on your Sex Wheel.
• STANDING DOGGY STYLE. A variation of regular doggy style, but with both of you standing up.
• BENT OVER DOGGY STYLE. She bends over and balances herself by placing her hands against the wall of the shower or side of the tub. You remain standing as you penetrate her from behind.
• HER ON TOP. This is great if you have a bathtub. Just lie down and have her climb aboard.
• HANGING LOTUS. In this position, you both face each other. She wraps her arms around your neck and her legs around your waist. You will need a strong back and legs for this one!
• ON THE BATHROOM COUNTER. For even more excitement, add this one to your wheel. You and your lover will move out of the shower or tub and over to a nearby bathroom counter. Place her on the counter facing towards you. Make sure to use a counter that has a mirror so you can watch yourself!
SEXY TIP #1: Don’t just put any old image on your Sex Wheel—include some of both you and your partner!
For example, take some photos of each other just for your Sex Wheel that depicts what’s going to be included on the wheel.
Don’t be afraid to include some shots of each other’s genitalia.
For oral sex on the man, you can have a picture of her licking a banana.
For oral sex on her, have a picture of him sucking on a plum.
The more you use your imagination and personalize your Sex Wheel, the more fun the game will be!
And just think how much fun it’s going to be taking those pictures!
SEXY TIP #2: Include a penalty. If for any reason one of you is not able to perform the act for the required amount of time, then assess a penalty, such as taking away a turn, handcuffing your partner to the shower head during the next sex act.
Or placing a blindfold over your partner’s eyes during your next spin (that way they have no idea what sex act is about to be performed).
Keep in mind that Wet Wheel of Sex and Fortune is all about having fun and spending some quality time together.
So take your time and enjoy being with your partner.
Unlike the real Wheel of Fortune, there aren’t any losers in this game—just wet and wild pleasures!
There you have it—three shower sex games that are sure to add some wet and wild fun to your sex life!
All you have to do now is try them out on your partner. Just remember to talk things over with your lover and go over the rules.
Once you get that out of the way, the next time you take a shower with your partner, don’t just get clean—get down and dirty.
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