May 6, 2022

31 Lustful Sex Tips For Men (Make HER Hips Shake With Desire)

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When it comes to new and innovative sex tips, women are different in their taste and choices. The sex tips that men love, maybe some women do not love.

That’s the reason, it is important for man like you to have thorough knowledge about the best sex tips and tantric sex touches that will make your girl’s HIPS SHAKE with extreme pleasure.

So, if you are ready to learn some amazing sex tips for men that are different from our routine sex styles then, read this article till the end.

#1. Sex Tips for men

Many men think that women are equally attuned to the speed and rhythm of a man's touch. This is a fallacy.

How you touch and caress her can vary in speed but the rhythm should not alter.

Starting sex slowly is a great way to get her all warmed up to the act. As the sex progresses, women prefer the speed (including that of thrusting) to increase, culminating to a boil as an orgasm approaches.

But make sure the overall rhythm or tempo remain the same.

#2. Sex Advice For Men.

Remember that a woman's vagina is naturally blessed with lubrication but her anus isn't.

If you really want her to enjoy sex without hurting her, make sure she is sufficiently lubricated.

Start off by using a condom that has a great amount of lubricant. Or apply generous amounts of a water based lubrication on your penis before you get started.

And don't go thrusting deep into her right away. Begin with slow and shallow penetration and watch her reaction. Let her get used to this new form of penetration.

#3. Women on Top Position Sex Tips.

Unlike the conventional woman-on-top position that involves a

forward/backward thrusting motion, position her in a squatting position and raise her butt up and down during penetration.

Let her control the pace, starting with fast shallow thrusts and then moving into deeper, slower thrusts.

The incredible amount of friction will create titillating sensations along the edge of the vaginal opening during shallow thrusts, and hit the G-spot during deep penetration.

Another trick: Let her lean backwards and rest her hands on your knees and thighs.

This will create an amazing stimulation in her clitoris. Plus, it gives you the opportunity to fondle her for added stimulation.

#4.Lie on your sides sex tips.

Lie on your sides and allow both your bodies to face each other really close. Raise her upper leg, slide inside her and drape her leg over yours tightly.

Push both your feet against a wall. It adds greater power and intensity during penetration, and provides intense stimulation to her clitoris while she is hugging your trunk with her legs.

Besides being great for creating intimacy, this position initiates sex at a leisurely pace that progresses into an intense, heart-pounding action that will blow her mind.

#5. Best Sex Tips for G Spot Stimulation.

Female G Spot is a very special place that you can easily probe and deeply awaken her innermost desires.

And one of the best ways to achieve this is by first creating "neural pathways" between the brain and the female genitals through touch arousal.

Let her know exactly WHERE you are pleasuring her as your hands (or mouth) move along the sensuous pleasure spots on her body.

Basically, talk as you touch her. The auditory signals will help her feel the sensations FASTER and accelerate the neural connections.

Sex tip #6.

Did you know that when a woman's feet are warm, they significantly increase the odds of her achieving an orgasm?

The part of a woman's brain that controls genital sensations is also intricately linked to her feet. So when her feet are warm and cozy, the sexual sensations are wired directly to her nether regions as well.

So try leaving her socks on during sex! Alternatively, giving her a sensuous foot massage with a warming gel will work its sexy magic too.

Sex tip #7.

When it comes to oral sex, most men allow their tongue to rattle the clitoris aimlessly. Instead, try running your tongue through the 10 and 12 o'clock marks on either sides of her clitoral head.

Then gently use your tongue to stimulate her just under the clitoral hood.

The thousands of nerve endings present around these sweet spots will get her aroused VERY rapidly and keeps her orgasmic engine purring on the edge.

Sex tip #8

During sex, a woman's sense of smell is the most powerful among all her five senses. Firstly, anything that is remotely musky mimics testosterone and will boost her libido. Secondly, that part of her brain that deals with smell also handles sex and memory.

Thus anything that arouses her through her sense of smell will leave a lasting impression. Hint: Put on that musky cologne BEFORE sex. It will turn her on massively... even if she doesn't notice it!

Sex tip #9

Did you know that the right side of her spine will titillate her sexual nerves faster than her left?

This is because her right side is controlled by the left hemisphere of her brain that handles logical cognitive abilities.

So pay special attention to this erogenous part of her back. Kiss, caress and stroke her gently there.

Make your moves curvy - it is a LOT more intense than a direct touch and you will get a LOT more mileage in preparing her mind for sensational lovemaking!

Sex tip #10

If you want to give her a different sexual experience while achieving an orgasm, try the “69” position, where you align your mouths near each other's genitals.

This is considered one of the best oral sex positions as it enables both you and your partner to stimulate each other simultaneously.

If your partner is much smaller in size than you, try having her on top of you.

This position is also a favorite of men who want to get a woman started having orgasms while staying hard at the same time.

Sex tip #11

Women have this amazing ability to increase their alternate sensory awareness when one of their senses is inhibited.

For instance, when you blindfold her, her sense of touch, smell and hearing will suddenly become amplified.

Use this to your advantage and create a sensual build-up during sex.

She will try hard to hazard a guess what you are going to do next, or which part of her body you are going to venture upon.

Her sense of touch will become doubly sensitive when she cannot see, so pay your attention to those sensuous spots where she normally loves to be touched. These will send her temperatures racing very quickly.

Sex Tips for Men #11

Ice cubes can be a really kinky way to arouse a woman during sex. This works even better if she is blindfolded (see tip above).

Take an ice cube and run it along her body, allowing it to get close to her sensitive nipples. For added excitement, try putting the ice cube in your mouth and then giving her oral sex.

The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of the ice will send her into spasms of pleasure!

Sex Tips For Men #12

Another great position to titillate her G-spot is to let her lie down on

her back and straddle her legs on your shoulders, so that her body resembles an "L" shape.

Begin intercourse in the usual missionary position and subsequently lift her legs up until they are over your shoulders. For better support, you can lean against her thighs while she holds your hips firmly so that you can penetrate even deeper.

Sex Tips #13

Try inserting a lubricated finger into her anus as she is reaching an orgasm. Many women experience the most astounding orgasms during anal stimulation.

This is because the anus contains thousands of sensitive nerve endings and thus even the slightest stimulation will trigger extraordinary sensations.

This "forbidden move" could induce several spasms of orgasms at once, so be prepared for the aftershocks

Sex Tips #14

Some candles give off scents that can turn a woman on. Try lighting up the scent of jasmine when you are planning for a night of lovemaking.

In short, make sure that you appeal to all of her senses… and not just sight and feel.

Sex Tips #15

Have her sit on top of you during intercourse and then let her rotate herself from a position that is facing you to one that is facing away from you.

Make sure she does this very slowly so that she can feel every part of you inside her. This also allows her to get stimulation to her G-spot, one of the most intense pleasure spots in her body.

Sex Tips #16

Many women love the idea of being spanked. While you do not want to actually hurt her during the process, you can give her some light taps on her bare bottom that will have her squealing with delight.

This makes you appear more in control (something that women really love) and also titillates her at the same time. Try this and get her squirming, hot and ready for more.

Sex Tips #17

Speak up when she's naked and tell her how much you appreciate her body.

Many women worry about how they look when the clothes come off. Such inhibitions make it harder for a woman to orgasm.

Also, women who feel embarrassed about their bodies are less sexually assertive.

So if you love the way she looks when she's naked, share the news! Make her feel hot and sexy about herself.

Genuine flattery will go a long way in helping her relax and prime her for an orgasmic experience.

#Tip 18

Bring her to a state of heightened anticipation, and then strategically back off from what she would expect you to do next.

For example, if you are undressing her, stop halfway and then proceed to kiss her.

When she is expecting you to perform oral sex on her after some heavy foreplay, turn your attention to her breasts instead.

Tenderly move AROUND her hot buttons, not ON them. This sensual art of unpredictability will add plenty of sizzle and excitement in the bedroom.

#Tip 19

When it comes to sex, most men simply stick to doing what they THINK their women will like.

Chances are, there is a lot more she likes you to do to her that you are not aware of.

Simply ASK her… you’ll be surprised by the things you will LEARN about her! Try this:

Ask her to write down 3 things she likes you to do during sex. It can be the type of foreplay she wants; the position she prefers or the role play she fantasizes about.

Then go down the list and grant her wishes. The freshness and excitement of what you are going to give her will make sex truly out-of-this-world for her… as it will for you!

#Tip 20

You can bring her to the heights of ecstasy even without first engaging in penetrative sex.

Use your imagination and get a little naughty and provocative.

Bring on some "erotic aids" to the bedroom - chocolate body paint, blindfolds, feathers, massage oils, handcuffs etc.

Use these to discover and explore her body and bring her to a suspended state of ecstasy though playful teasing.

Many couples experience the most sensational sex just through this journey of erotic discovery.

Sex Tips #21

Every woman has her own ideas and fantasies about the perfect sex - one that she is probably too shy to bring it out into the open.

To keep her on the erotic edge all the time, ask her to write down her fantasies on one of those small post-it pads.

Drop them into a small box and tug it away in your bedroom. Every now and then, when you want to sizzle things up, just dip into the box, retrieve one of these and relive her fantasies on the spot!

#Tip 22

While the backseat of the car isn't the most comfortable place to make out, it is nonetheless an ultra-hot spot for an afternoon (or night) of romp…  simply because it gives a glimpse of the great outdoors while still offering a little privacy of sorts.

Bonus tip: A movie drive-in makes for a perfect excuse to get away for the night and have a good time right in your car. And you have plenty of time before the end credits start rolling!

#Tip 23

A woman's breasts are her gateway to her orgasm. When you engage in foreplay on her breasts, stay away from her un-aroused nipples first.

Instead gently caress the side, top and bottom of her breasts before moving towards her nipples.

When she is getting aroused, you will notice the nipples swelling up and flushed with flood, signaling that the time is ripe for direct stimulation.

Give her breasts and nipples a good 2 to 3 minutes of your attention and you will induce greater blood circulation and lubrication in her genitals, priming her for an orgasm later.

#Tip 24

Her ears are more than just an organ for hearing. They are also the main bridge to her organ that is most sensitive to sexual stimulation - the brain.

Try speaking softly against her ears and let your breath tenderly touch her sensitive skin.

This will allow her to feel a momentary sense of pleasure that will be heightened once she hears you say the things that you plan to do to her.

#Tip 25

A woman's back is a HUGE erogenous zone. There are different sensitive points on a woman's back: the lower back or the area just below the scapula.

Find out which part of her back is most sensitive to stimulation.

You may let your fingers run tenderly along the expanse of her back and plant gentle kisses on her warm skin. Know when she whimpers the most because that area is the point of maximum thrill and frenzy.

#Tip 26

Try this for a change - make love in your bedroom with the lights on and curtains open.

Most of us have a little bit of an exhibitionist streak, even if we do not openly admit it.

This will add plenty of excitement to lovemaking, especially when your neighbors could chance upon the both of you making out (and perhaps be a little envious too!).

#Tip 27

Make it a sexual quest to have sex in EVERY part of the house. Make it more challenging:

Do not have sex in the same place twice. This will compel both of you to look for "untapped love corners" where you can give her a romping good time!

And if you have kids, have a go in their rooms too (just make sure they are at your parents' place when you are at it!). It’s amazing how adding a simple touch of uniqueness to your routine can make a huge difference to your sexual enjoyment.

Sex Tips For Men #28

Try making out in front of a large mirror. With a full frontal visual, you have never thought she will look that hot, have you?

Alternatively, place a mirror on the floor and make love over it, doggie-style - and have an erotic perspective over your lovemaking!

#Tip 29

Why not amp up the excitement by making out in a place where there is a possibility you will get caught flat out?

Well, her parents' place could be reminiscence of what you did when you were dating.

Sneak into one of the bathrooms and have a quick romp while her parents are watching the TV, or even in their rooms when they are having guests at home!

#Tip 30

Don't head off to sleep straight after a lovemaking session. Women are emotional beings.

They want to feel special not just during sex, but after sex as well. A good cuddle will make her feel wanted and appreciated for who she is. This can work magic into your relationship.

#Tip 31

For some women, screaming during sex is what actually causes them to come to an orgasm.

It's not so much the act of screaming that that causes her to climax.

It is the act of letting herself go, the act of totally relaxing her mind and body, the act of totally losing her inhibitions, that leads her to a sexual ecstasy like no other.

So encourage her to make some noise in bed!

So there you have it… 31 tried-and-tested best sex tips for men to spice up your sex life and give your wife or lover amazing sex that will blow her mind.

For starters, pick a few of those sex tips that YOU like, and put them to action tonight.

I promise… you WILL see (and feel) something sensational when you do!

The key to sensational sex is to simply learn about your partner’s sexual landscape, understanding how her body works and making her melt with passion.

Make time to learn new things to do with each other in bed. She will be sexually and emotionally fulfilled, and you will be amply rewarded with the most wondrous sex you had ever imagined!

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