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How to Easily Find the G-Spot in a Female (Step by Step Guide)

How to find the G-Spot in a female. How to find her G-Spot

Today you are going to learn how to find the G-Spot, the area inside a woman’s vagina that, when stimulated properly, has the power to grow from a tingling pleasure into an earth-shattering orgasm.

Most men have heard about the G-Spot, but do not know where the G-Spot is exactly located.

And that is the main reason why most women miss this incredible pleasure when a simply amount of pressure is applied to it.

But today is your day to learn more about the G-Spot. You’ll find out where it is, how to stimulate it and what to do with it.

Once you begin with G-Spot play, a whole new world will open up to you and your partner. 

And I’ll help you explore that world.

So, if you are ready to completely improve your sex life, let's begin.

Discovery Of G-Spot - Does the G-Spot Even Exist?

In the 1940’s, gynecologist and research scientist Ernst Grafenberg began to study the female reproductive system, especially the sensitive area where the urethra is closest to the vaginal wall.

Although Grafenberg was actually studying the area in terms of how it affected female ejaculation, his findings about the G-Spot were his largest contribution to human sexuality. 

In fact, it made him famous! As you may have guessed by now, the “G” in G-Spot stands for Grafenberg.

In the late 1970’s, sexologists John Perry and Beverly Whipple took up where Grafenberg left off, again studying female ejaculation and the area they referred to as the urethral sponge.

Also in the 1970’s, researchers surveyed thousands of women about their experiences with G-Spot play. 

The results were inconsistent. Some women claimed they didn’t have a G-Spot; others said they didn’t feel any different when they stimulated it.

Also in 2009, a research team at King’s College London performed the largest study on the G-Spot, interviewing 900 pairs of female twins. Their findings were inconclusive. 

According to study co-author Dr. Andrea Burri, “It is irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never been proven and pressurize women and men too.

So what do these findings tell us about where is the G Spot located? Not a lot.

Let’s dig a bit more.

In 1982, Whipple and Perry, along with sexologist Alice Kahn Ladas, published The G-Spot and Other Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality, a book that turned out to be quite controversial—and an international bestseller.

Part of the controversy was based on the disagreement it caused in the scientific community. 

Many doctors claimed the G-Spot didn’t exist . The main reason was because it’s extremely difficult to locate the G-Spot when a woman isn’t aroused.

Some women reported positive experiences with G-Spot play, but not enough for the research scientists to prove to their satisfaction that there was anything special about the G-Spot. 

Many even felt that the only reason some women respond to G-Spot stimulation is because it’s next to the inner part of a woman’s clitoris.

In our exploration of each other’s bodies and minds, we naturally find new sources of sensual pleasure. 

If you follow my advice and practice the techniques outlined in this guide, you and your partner can enjoy an intensely pleasurable form of sexual expression.

How to Find the G-Spot? - Where is It Located?

Okay, it’s time to reveal the Big Secret — where the heck is the G-Spot located?

Tip: Although the location of the G-Spot may be clear in the below picture, we recommend reading until the end of this step-by-step guide, because we provide stecific tips to find and stimulate it properly.

How to find the G-Spot - Where is the G-Spot

The location of the G-Spot is actually not that difficult to find once you know what you’re looking for

Use the above diagram as a reference, and I’ll help you find your partner’s G-Spot.

As you can see, a woman’s anatomy has a lot of different parts

Many of them are so squished together that it can be tough to tell what’s what, especially if you’re a man. 

If you look at the diagram above, you’ll see a small area highlighted in green.

That’s the G-Spot. You’ve found it! (not really...)

Looking at a picture is one thing, and finding the G-Spot on your partner’s body is quite another.

As Emily Morse, host of the podcast “Sex with Emily” says: “If you know the right way to go about looking for the G-spot, your girl will enjoy the hunt”.

Hot Pro Tip: “The G-spot is composed of tissue that swells when it becomes aroused. If she is already turned on, it will be much easier for you to find it and go about pleasing her” - Morse says. 

Follow these steps to find Her G-Spot

Insert your fore and middle fingers into her vagina with your palm facing up (she has to be on her back). You’re going to probe around her front vaginal wall for the G Spot (the “top side”).

The G-Spot will be located between two and three finger joints up on the front vaginal wall (around 2 - 3 inches).

It will feel rough or spongy.

Ask Her to Locate Her G-Spot

The best way to locate it is for her to try first.

Ask her to lie down on the bed with her knees up.

She should gently insert the forefinger and middle finger of her right hand about two inches inside her vagina

Have her feel for a rough spot on the upper part of her vagina.

The best way to find this area is if she makes a “come hither” motion with her fingers.

G-Spot pleasure stems from pressure on the area.

Have her press her G-Spot, pushing it against the pubic bone

If she feels that pressure, chances are good that she’s found her G-Spot.

Things Women Wish Men Knew When Stimulating The G-Spot

What most men don’t know is that many women if not all can feel doubtful or insecure about:

  • the size of their labia
  • the size of their vagina
  • their smell
  • the amount of wetness (not enough or too much lubrication)
  • the color
  • clitoris size
  • having a bush
  • scars from ingrown hairs caused by waxing
  • period-related issues (flow, cramps)
  • yeast infections, UTIs, or other non-sexual infections and inconveniences
  • fear of childbirth-related tearing
  • shitty boyfriends saying something terrible and scarring about their perfectly functional, healthy vagina
  • squirting or not squirting
  • queefing (passing air out the vagina) during sex
  • the taste of her vagina

Women will also have questions like:

  • Is squirting really pee?
  • What’s a G-spot?
  • Where’s the G-spot located?
  • Does every woman have a G-spot?
  • Should I be able to have orgasms from G-spot stimulation alone? Or I need clitoral stimulation for orgasm? If I can’t, does that make me less of a woman?
  • Is something wrong with me if I can’t orgasm during sex?

All of these things are going in a woman’s mind.  

This is why it is important that your woman knows that you love everything about her vagina and its internal parts!

And that is what we are going to learn in detail below.

The Secret To G-Spot Stimulation Has Two Parts: Foreplay and Pressure

Finding the exact location of the G-Spot is just the tip of the ice-berg. 

There’s a lot you can do to make her scream with extreme pleasure if only you can master the hidden secrets to playing with the Female G-Spot.

Extensive foreplay is especially important for enjoying G-Spot sex because the area around the G-Spot is much more sensitive when she is fully aroused

Just as the blood rushes to her clitoris when she’s ready for sex, the G-Spot also becomes engorged with blood, making it extra sensitive and more responsive to your touch.

The other secret to G-Spot stimulation is firm, constant pressure.

When you and your partner are exploring G-Spot play, it’s easiest to approach her from behind

Slide your forefinger and middle finger into her, your palm facing downward, and gently press down on her G-Spot.

Once she let’s you know she’s found it, press harder until she begins to respond. 

Play around with the firmness she needs

Some women only need a gentle touch, but others need very hard pressure.

Never forget that every woman’s body is different

Your partner’s body may not respond at all to G-Spot stimulation, despite the tricks and techniques I’ll explain in this guide.

If that’s the case, don’t worry about it.

When you explore your partner’s body, you may find new erogenous zones she didn’t know excited her.

Either way, it’s a positive experience that can only bring you closer to each other.

How Extensive Foreplay Can Stimulate Her G-Spot For The Hottest Orgasm Ever

I cannot place enough importance on foreplay

For women, foreplay is sex

Read again: For women Foreplay = Sex.

When you don’t pay attention to the very important role foreplay has in lovemaking, you deny your partner—and yourself—a rich, full, satisfying experience.

Here’s what I mean by extensive foreplay.

Foreplay - Kissing

When you’ve been married or in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy to forget how much pleasure you can find in simply kissing one another.

Remember when you were first dating your partner? It seemed like you could spend the entire night kissing, right?

Kissing is a great place to start. Before you move on to serious foreplay, spend ten minutes kissing each other.

Don’t fondle each other during this time; use your arms and hands to hold each other and deepen your kiss

Focus entirely on the sensation of your lips meeting hers.

Touch Each Other Sensually

Instead of reaching straight for the “good parts,” spend time touching each other’s bodies

Start by gently stroking each other, delighting in the feel of skin-on-skin. 

As your passion increases, your urgency will grow, and you’ll find yourselves touching each other with stronger hands, teasing out sensations you may not have known were possible.

Now it’s time to explore her erogenous zones.

Play With Her Erogenous Zones

Every woman’s body is different

Explore her own unique landscape and take note of what she finds particularly pleasurable.

Start your exploration by lightly touching one of her erogenous zones, like the nape of her neck, an especially sensitive area. 

She will probably lean into your touch

If she does, keep going, using your lips to arouse her further.

Don’t head for the “good parts” yet;  with good parts I mean the “Vagina, Clitoris, G-Spot.

See if you can discover a few more erogenous zones first. The area on the back of her leg, where her thighs meet her buttock, is incredibly sensitive to touch, as are the backs of her knees.

The deadliest erogenous zone is her inner thighs. With the right touch, usually light and tantalizing, you can have her moaning in no time, begging you to head north and touch her clitoris. 

Don’t do it! Spend a little more time with her other erogenous zones, traveling back to the inner thighs when she least expects it. 

You’ll soon have an incoherent woman writhing with uncontrollable passion.

How To Master Her G-Spot and Give Her an Earth-Shattering Orgasm

Now that you’ve slowly raised the heat with foreplay now it’s time to cut the cake.

Remember pleasing a woman with the G-Spot play is about applying the right pressure and technique.

Women feel the most intense pleasure when you apply strong, constant pressure to her G-Spot but to make that happen you also need to master the right techniques. 

Step-by-Step G-Spot Orgasm

1. Discover, touch, and tingle her G-spot (the tissue with ridges and bumps on the top of her vagina at about 1-3 inches in internal depth).

2. Apply even pressure with the flat pads of your fingers on the G-spot and drag the pads of your fingers toward you and the opening of her vagina.

3. Release the pressure, moving fingers toward the bottom of her vagina, then circle to the back of the G-spot again and repeat dragging your fingers forward, as always applying pressure.

4. Repeat steps 1-3 over and over. Increase pressure and speed as needed. Generally, as she gets closer to squirting, she will want more pressure, speed, or both.

Keep it light. Have Fun. Play and discover.

If it helps, you can always take out the word “vagina/pussy/yoni” and substitute the word “you” where appropriate.

You are so tight.

You feel so good.

Your smell drives me crazy.

You taste amazing.

You get the idea!

Advanced G-Spot Cupping Technique To Drive Her Crazy.

I use this technique all the time. Don’t be fooled. It sounds simple, but this technique is really powerful.

It feels so deeply comforting to have someone touch her G-Spot this way.

This technique will set you apart from the rest because I can almost guarantee that you will be the first person ever to touch her this way.

So let’s get to it!

A woman’s G-Spot can feel physically sensitive after sex, and she may also feel a little emotionally vulnerable.

You can show her that you love her vagina and use no words at all by cupping her vagina after she orgasms or after sex.

I call this kind of touch of the vagina – comfort touch. (And you can find out all about the comfort touch in this article here: Tantric Sex Touch Technique.

A great way to convey safety and care is by cupping her vagina with the palm of your hand after sex or after she orgasms.

You do this by placing the bottom palm of your hand over her vaginal opening and allow the rest of your hand to curve over the top part of her pubic bone and apply gentle pressure.

Women who have experienced this kind of sexual touch have reported to me that it helps ground them after sex and also communicates a level of appreciation and care that feels nice.

If you want to really take it up a notch you can put your other hand over her heart. While touching this way, remain quiet and focus on taking deep, relaxing breaths together.

This technique lets a woman know that what just happened was really pleasurable and intense.

Best Sex Positions For Intense G-Spot Stimulation

With these basic sexual positions, you won’t have to make too many adjustments to incorporate the techniques you’re going to learn below. 

The bad news is that you may have to unlearn a few bad habits.

Fortunately, you’ll have a great time while you’re learning.

These sex positions are designed for intense G-Spot stimulation to help you and your girl enjoy the best possible sexual experience.

Using A Pillow As A Cushion For Hitting Her G-Spot

If you’ve never used a prop or sex pillow before, now is the perfect time to try it.

When you experiment with G-Spot play, you’ll be putting her body into positions that may feel unnatural to you. 

Having extra support will make it easier for her to relax and trust that your sexual activity won’t hurt her body.

I recommend using a sex cushion when you first try the G-Force and any other positions that require your partner to balance in new ways. 

The point of sexual play is pleasure, not pain, and using a sex cushion ensures your pleasure-seeking session remains a pleasure.

Best sex positions for G-Spot stimulation

The image above describes the position in a much better way.

Modified Missionary To Stimulate The G-Spot

Always remember that regular missionary sex doesn’t work very well for G-Spot sex. 

It feels great, but when you’re in this position, it’s difficult to line up your anatomy so she’ll feel G-Spot pleasure.

The problem is that the missionary position is the most popular position. 

According to Alfred Kinsey’s studies on sexuality in the mid-20th century, as many as 70% of U.S. men reported using just this sex position, to the exclusion of all others.

Modified Missionary sex position to stimulate the g-spot

Follow this step-by-step process to stimulate her G-Spot in the modified missionary position.

1. Have her lie on the bed as she would for regular missionary sex. 

2. Place one or more pillows under her bottom, which will tilt her pelvis upward. 

3. Lie on top of her and enter her as you would with the unmodified missionary position. 

4. Using one hand to support yourself, move the other to her vagina. 

The pillows should have positioned her pelvis so that it opens more space between you. 

5. If you are able to reach her G-Spot with your free hand, apply as much pressure as you can, until she tells you it’s enough. 

6. As you enter and withdraw, keep your hand in place and allow the movements of your pelvis to rock your hand into her. You won’t have to use your finger muscles to keep the pressure steady; your concentrated pelvic motions will hold your fingers in place.

You’ll certainly love this modified missionary position because it brings your body into a great deal of contact with one another, and you have the chance to look into each other’s eyes while you are making love. 

And you also don’t need to strain your arm muscles trying to keep your fingers on her G-Spot.

And your girl don’t have to waste energy trying to keep her hips elevated. You guys can focus purely on the feel of your bodies coming together. It’s wonderful.

Keep in mind that although missionary is the most common position, and this new techniques are easy to master, it might take a few lovemaking sessions before you and your partner can really connect in this position.

Modified Rear Entry For Intense G-Spot Sex

Most sex experts claim that rear entry on its own is one of the best positions for G-Spot sex.

But with a few modifications, the modified rear-entry position should work beautifully for you and your partner. 

The secret is in your pelvic motions: Think short and deep, and you’ll get the idea.

Here’s what to do:

1. Have her kneel on all fours. She should spread her knees slightly, tilting her pelvis back and up. She’ll probably be tempted to place her face down on the bed, but it’s important for her to keep her back flat and her pelvis tilted up. Make sure she keeps her elbows locked and her head and spine aimed out and up. 

2. Enter her from behind, as you would with typical rear-entry sex, penetrating her as deeply as is comfortable for her.

3. Holding her hips and keeping your own hips firmly in place, make a compact upward-scooping motion with your pelvis. Do not pull out more than an inch or two. 

4. Continue making these stroking motions until she lets you know her G-Spot is responding. At that point, apply more pressure with your thrusts, concentrating your focus on pressing the top of your penis against her G-Spot. Moving your hips and penis in small, tight circles is a great way to keep the pressure firm. 

5. As you’re penetrating her with your penis, reach one hand around her and touch her clitoris. Circle it gently with your forefinger, and then, as she responds, make your movements firmer and more concentrated, mimicking the motions of your hips as you grind into her. 

If you guys can master this position perfectly, she’ll be experiencing intense orgasms from her vagina, clitoris and G-Spot at the same time as if she’s going to explode.

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Sex Toys For Ultimate Pleasure And The G-Spot Stimulation

Although there are million kinds of vibrators and sex toys - but for the purpose of this guide, I’ll discuss only two sex toys G-Spot Vibrator and G-Spot Dildos.

Once you master the art of using a vibrator you can take your girl to the brink of orgasm every time you have sex with her.

G-Spot Vibrator

When using a G-Spot vibrator you’ll be astounded at the creativity that went into this clever little invention. Someone was really thinking.

The best part of the G-Spot vibrator is that it provides direct G-Spot contact through the curved head, so that when you insert the vibrator, it hits her G-Spot without having to hold the vibrator in an uncomfortable position.

The wavy design of the shaft allows the toy to vibrate up and down her clitoris as you’re using it on her G-Spot. The sensations are really incredible.

She will probably love the particular combination of stimulations she’ll feel with a G-Spot vibrator, and you’ll get off on the expression of joy that fills her face when she reaches her climax. 

Here are the steps how to use the G-Spot Vibrator.

  1. The first step is to insert the G-Spot Vibrator inside her vagina. But without hurting her so be careful.

  1. Once you’ve inserted the G-Spot Vibrator, confirm with your partner you’re hitting the right spot. 

  2. Now apply constant pressure to the G-Spot. She may love this, or may only want intense, direct pressure at the end. Follow her guidelines.

  1. If she loves it, keep inserting and removing it with a steady rhythm.

  1. As she reaches orgasm, apply firm, constant pressure to the G-Spot. And wait until just before climax to turn it on.

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G-Spot Dildos

Dildos are different from vibrators in one significant way: They don’t vibrate. And are available in a wide range of sizes, designs, textures and materials.

Although most women prefer vibrators, many other women, particularly those who orgasm easily during intercourse, love dildos. 

They can control the speed, depth and intensity of their thrusting, bringing themselves to a climax with the sensation of delightful fullness.

Women who prefer dildos will love ones specifically designed for G-Spot play. g-spot dildos are designed in a similar style as G-Spot vibrators, with a curved tip that hits her G-Spot when she thrusts the toy inside her.

All you need to do is to master how to use these two sex toys properly and you’ll become the man she’ll always want to have sex with.

Here are the steps to using the G-Spot Dildos.

  1. The first step is to insert just the tip of the dildo inside her vagina. As usual make sure you go slow so you do not hurt her.

  2. Start to push the dildo in and out of her vagina, gently at first. If she loves it, use the dildo to penetrate her a bit faster. Match your speed with her body’s reactions; as you observe she’s getting closer to orgasm, move the dildo faster, but without hurting her.

  1. As she’s starting to climax, adjust your penetration according to what she needs to have an amazing climax. This last step will be different for different women, so try both techniques and find out which works better for your partner.

  1. Now, keep penetrating in and out of her until she reaches orgasm. 

  1. Hold the dildo deep inside her during orgasm.

Source - Bad Girls Bible

Bonus Content - How  To Make Your Girl Feel Special During Lovemaking

For women, the key to cracking their code and unleashing the sexual beast that lives inside is all about creating a safe space for them to play.

The more they know you love their G-Spot and clitoris and know everything about it, the safer they will feel with you, and the more fully expressive and adventurous they will become.

Here is what I want you to do:

First, ask her what G-Spot name or names she thinks are really hot to use during sex

Always use those or that name (if it’s not the word you want to use, too bad. You must use her language not yours.)

It will not only make her feel special but also your sex will be sizzling hot.

If she isn’t sure, offer her a menu and let her choose. Here are a few names that women I polled like to use:

  • Vadge
  • Kitty
  • Pussy
  • Cunt
  • Yoni
  • Vagina
  • Pie
  • Vajayjay
  • Muff
  • Vulva
  • Snatch
  • Cum bucket

Once you have that information, here’s what I want you to do. I want you to get in the habit of saying things like:

  1. I love your yoni.
  1. Your vagina or G-Spot or clitoris is incredible.
  1. I can’t believe how tight your pussy feels on my cock.
  1. I love how your yoni is always so wet and ready for my dick.
  1. Your vulva is beautiful.
  1. I can’t believe how good it feels to be inside you.
  1. Your kitty gives me so much pleasure.
  1. I love how your pussy tastes.
  1. Your smell makes me crazy; I love your vajayjay so much!
  1. Just looking at your vagina makes my dick hard.
  1. I love how swollen your clit gets when you’re turned on.

You may think "I really don’t feel comfortable talking during sex!"

Don’t worry if talking during sex makes you uncomfortable.

Lots of people feel that way.

But I would still recommend you to follow this step to enhance your intimacy level with the woman you love.

Remember that  women love to hear good things about their vagina and it’s parts!

So do not miss this amazing chance to impress her by giving new and innovative names to her vagina.

FAQ About How to Find Her G-Spot

How to Find the exact position of the G-Spot?

Insert your finger into her vagina with your palm facing up (she has to be on her back). Probe around her front vaginal wall for the G-Spot (the “top side”).

The G-Spot will be located between two and three finger joints up on the front vaginal wall (around 2 - 3 inches).

It will feel rough or spongy.

Can women have G-Spot Orgasms?

Most men think that women can have only vaginal orgasms but that’s not true.

Women can experience G-Spot Orgasms with the right techniques and ideas.

Yes, it is a bit difficult for most men, but certainly not impossible.

What is The difference between G-Spot and vaginal orgasms?

It’s a question of debate as some women feel G-Spot orgasms is more intense than vaginal and some feel the other way round.

The G-Spot, Clitoris or the Labia are parts of Vagina so there is not any conclusive answer.

At the end what matters is your partner is fully satisfied with you.

Conclusion

I’ve covered almost everything you’ve ever wanted to know about how to find and stimulate a woman’s G-Spot, giving her amazing orgasms like she’s never before experienced.

Now that you’ve all the knowledge and skills in your hands it’s time to use them and rock your sex life by taking to the peak of sexual bliss.

About the Author Manish Yadav

My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!

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