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Today you are going to learn how to find the G-Spot, the area inside a woman’s vagina that, when stimulated properly, has the power to grow from a tingling pleasure into an earth-shattering orgasm.
Most men have heard about the G-Spot, but do not know where the G-Spot is exactly located.
And that is the main reason why most women miss this incredible pleasure when a simply amount of pressure is applied to it.
But today is your day to learn more about the G-Spot. You’ll find out where it is, how to stimulate it and what to do with it.
Once you begin with G-Spot play, a whole new world will open up to you and your partner.
And I’ll help you explore that world.
So, if you are ready to completely improve your sex life, let’s begin.
In the 1940’s, gynecologist and research scientist Ernst Grafenberg began to study the female reproductive system, especially the sensitive area where the urethra is closest to the vaginal wall.
Although Grafenberg was actually studying the area in terms of how it affected female ejaculation, his findings about the G-Spot were his largest contribution to human sexuality.
In fact, it made him famous! As you may have guessed by now, the “G” in G-Spot stands for Grafenberg.
In the late 1970’s, sexologists John Perry and Beverly Whipple took up where Grafenberg left off, again studying female ejaculation and the area they referred to as the urethral sponge.
Also in the 1970’s, researchers surveyed thousands of women about their experiences with G-Spot play.
The results were inconsistent. Some women claimed they didn’t have a G-Spot; others said they didn’t feel any different when they stimulated it.
Also in 2009, a research team at King’s College London performed the largest study on the G-Spot, interviewing 900 pairs of female twins. Their findings were inconclusive.
According to study co-author Dr. Andrea Burri, “It is irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never been proven and pressurize women and men too.
So what do these findings tell us about where is the G Spot located? Not a lot.
Let’s dig a bit more.
In 1982, Whipple and Perry, along with sexologist Alice Kahn Ladas, published The G-Spot and Other Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality, a book that turned out to be quite controversial—and an international bestseller.
Part of the controversy was based on the disagreement it caused in the scientific community.
Many doctors claimed the G-Spot didn’t exist . The main reason was because it’s extremely difficult to locate the G-Spot when a woman isn’t aroused.
Some women reported positive experiences with G-Spot play, but not enough for the research scientists to prove to their satisfaction that there was anything special about the G-Spot.
Many even felt that the only reason some women respond to G-Spot stimulation is because it’s next to the inner part of a woman’s clitoris.
In our exploration of each other’s bodies and minds, we naturally find new sources of sensual pleasure.
If you follow my advice and practice the techniques outlined in this guide, you and your partner can enjoy an intensely pleasurable form of sexual expression.
Okay, it’s time to reveal the Big Secret — where the heck is the G-Spot located?
Tip: Although the location of the G-Spot may be clear in the below picture, we recommend reading until the end of this step-by-step guide, because we provide stecific tips to find and stimulate it properly.
The location of the G-Spot is actually not that difficult to find once you know what you’re looking for.
Use the above diagram as a reference, and I’ll help you find your partner’s G-Spot.
As you can see, a woman’s anatomy has a lot of different parts.
Many of them are so squished together that it can be tough to tell what’s what, especially if you’re a man.
If you look at the diagram above, you’ll see a small area highlighted in green.
That’s the G-Spot. You’ve found it! (not really…)
Looking at a picture is one thing, and finding the G-Spot on your partner’s body is quite another.
As Emily Morse, host of the podcast “Sex with Emily” says: “If you know the right way to go about looking for the G-spot, your girl will enjoy the hunt”.
Hot Pro Tip: “The G-spot is composed of tissue that swells when it becomes aroused. If she is already turned on, it will be much easier for you to find it and go about pleasing her” – Morse says.
Insert your fore and middle fingers into her vagina with your palm facing up (she has to be on her back). You’re going to probe around her front vaginal wall for the G Spot (the “top side”).
The G-Spot will be located between two and three finger joints up on the front vaginal wall (around 2 – 3 inches).
It will feel rough or spongy.
The best way to locate it is for her to try first.
Ask her to lie down on the bed with her knees up.
She should gently insert the forefinger and middle finger of her right hand about two inches inside her vagina.
Have her feel for a rough spot on the upper part of her vagina.
The best way to find this area is if she makes a “come hither” motion with her fingers.
G-Spot pleasure stems from pressure on the area.
Have her press her G-Spot, pushing it against the pubic bone.
If she feels that pressure, chances are good that she’s found her G-Spot.
What most men don’t know is that many women if not all can feel doubtful or insecure about:
Women will also have questions like:
All of these things are going in a woman’s mind.
This is why it is important that your woman knows that you love everything about her vagina and its internal parts!
And that is what we are going to learn in detail below.
Finding the exact location of the G-Spot is just the tip of the ice-berg.
There’s a lot you can do to make her scream with extreme pleasure if only you can master the hidden secrets to playing with the Female G-Spot.
Extensive foreplay is especially important for enjoying G-Spot sex because the area around the G-Spot is much more sensitive when she is fully aroused.
Just as the blood rushes to her clitoris when she’s ready for sex, the G-Spot also becomes engorged with blood, making it extra sensitive and more responsive to your touch.
The other secret to G-Spot stimulation is firm, constant pressure.
When you and your partner are exploring G-Spot play, it’s easiest to approach her from behind.
Slide your forefinger and middle finger into her, your palm facing downward, and gently press down on her G-Spot.
Once she let’s you know she’s found it, press harder until she begins to respond.
Play around with the firmness she needs.
Some women only need a gentle touch, but others need very hard pressure.
Never forget that every woman’s body is different.
Your partner’s body may not respond at all to G-Spot stimulation, despite the tricks and techniques I’ll explain in this guide.
If that’s the case, don’t worry about it.
When you explore your partner’s body, you may find new erogenous zones she didn’t know excited her.
Either way, it’s a positive experience that can only bring you closer to each other.
I cannot place enough importance on foreplay!
For women, foreplay is sex.
Read again: For women Foreplay = Sex.
When you don’t pay attention to the very important role foreplay has in lovemaking, you deny your partner—and yourself—a rich, full, satisfying experience.
Here’s what I mean by extensive foreplay.
When you’ve been married or in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy to forget how much pleasure you can find in simply kissing one another.
Remember when you were first dating your partner? It seemed like you could spend the entire night kissing, right?
Kissing is a great place to start. Before you move on to serious foreplay, spend ten minutes kissing each other.
Don’t fondle each other during this time; use your arms and hands to hold each other and deepen your kiss.
Focus entirely on the sensation of your lips meeting hers.
Instead of reaching straight for the “good parts,” spend time touching each other’s bodies.
Start by gently stroking each other, delighting in the feel of skin-on-skin.
As your passion increases, your urgency will grow, and you’ll find yourselves touching each other with stronger hands, teasing out sensations you may not have known were possible.
Now it’s time to explore her erogenous zones.
Every woman’s body is different.
Explore her own unique landscape and take note of what she finds particularly pleasurable.
Start your exploration by lightly touching one of her erogenous zones, like the nape of her neck, an especially sensitive area.
She will probably lean into your touch.
If she does, keep going, using your lips to arouse her further.
Don’t head for the “good parts” yet; with good parts I mean the “Vagina, Clitoris, G-Spot.
See if you can discover a few more erogenous zones first. The area on the back of her leg, where her thighs meet her buttock, is incredibly sensitive to touch, as are the backs of her knees.
The deadliest erogenous zone is her inner thighs. With the right touch, usually light and tantalizing, you can have her moaning in no time, begging you to head north and touch her clitoris.
Don’t do it! Spend a little more time with her other erogenous zones, traveling back to the inner thighs when she least expects it.
You’ll soon have an incoherent woman writhing with uncontrollable passion.
Now that you’ve slowly raised the heat with foreplay now it’s time to cut the cake.
Remember pleasing a woman with the G-Spot play is about applying the right pressure and technique.
Women feel the most intense pleasure when you apply strong, constant pressure to her G-Spot but to make that happen you also need to master the right techniques.
1. Discover, touch, and tingle her G-spot (the tissue with ridges and bumps on the top of her vagina at about 1-3 inches in internal depth).
2. Apply even pressure with the flat pads of your fingers on the G-spot and drag the pads of your fingers toward you and the opening of her vagina.
3. Release the pressure, moving fingers toward the bottom of her vagina, then circle to the back of the G-spot again and repeat dragging your fingers forward, as always applying pressure.
4. Repeat steps 1-3 over and over. Increase pressure and speed as needed. Generally, as she gets closer to squirting, she will want more pressure, speed, or both.
Keep it light. Have Fun. Play and discover.
If it helps, you can always take out the word “vagina/pussy/yoni” and substitute the word “you” where appropriate.
You are so tight.
You feel so good.
Your smell drives me crazy.
You taste amazing.
You get the idea!
I use this technique all the time. Don’t be fooled. It sounds simple, but this technique is really powerful.
It feels so deeply comforting to have someone touch her G-Spot this way.
This technique will set you apart from the rest because I can almost guarantee that you will be the first person ever to touch her this way.
So let’s get to it!
A woman’s G-Spot can feel physically sensitive after sex, and she may also feel a little emotionally vulnerable.
You can show her that you love her vagina and use no words at all by cupping her vagina after she orgasms or after sex.
I call this kind of touch of the vagina – comfort touch. (And you can find out all about the comfort touch in this article here: Tantric Sex Touch Technique.
A great way to convey safety and care is by cupping her vagina with the palm of your hand after sex or after she orgasms.
You do this by placing the bottom palm of your hand over her vaginal opening and allow the rest of your hand to curve over the top part of her pubic bone and apply gentle pressure.
Women who have experienced this kind of sexual touch have reported to me that it helps ground them after sex and also communicates a level of appreciation and care that feels nice.
If you want to really take it up a notch you can put your other hand over her heart. While touching this way, remain quiet and focus on taking deep, relaxing breaths together.
This technique lets a woman know that what just happened was really pleasurable and intense.
With these basic sexual positions, you won’t have to make too many adjustments to incorporate the techniques you’re going to learn below.
The bad news is that you may have to unlearn a few bad habits.
Fortunately, you’ll have a great time while you’re learning.
These sex positions are designed for intense G-Spot stimulation to help you and your girl enjoy the best possible sexual experience.
If you’ve never used a prop or sex pillow before, now is the perfect time to try it.
When you experiment with G-Spot play, you’ll be putting her body into positions that may feel unnatural to you.
Having extra support will make it easier for her to relax and trust that your sexual activity won’t hurt her body.
I recommend using a sex cushion when you first try the G-Force and any other positions that require your partner to balance in new ways.
The point of sexual play is pleasure, not pain, and using a sex cushion ensures your pleasure-seeking session remains a pleasure.
The image above describes the position in a much better way.
Always remember that regular missionary sex doesn’t work very well for G-Spot sex.
It feels great, but when you’re in this position, it’s difficult to line up your anatomy so she’ll feel G-Spot pleasure.
The problem is that the missionary position is the most popular position.
According to Alfred Kinsey’s studies on sexuality in the mid-20th century, as many as 70% of U.S. men reported using just this sex position, to the exclusion of all others.
1. Have her lie on the bed as she would for regular missionary sex.
2. Place one or more pillows under her bottom, which will tilt her pelvis upward.
3. Lie on top of her and enter her as you would with the unmodified missionary position.
4. Using one hand to support yourself, move the other to her vagina.
The pillows should have positioned her pelvis so that it opens more space between you.
5. If you are able to reach her G-Spot with your free hand, apply as much pressure as you can, until she tells you it’s enough.
6. As you enter and withdraw, keep your hand in place and allow the movements of your pelvis to rock your hand into her. You won’t have to use your finger muscles to keep the pressure steady; your concentrated pelvic motions will hold your fingers in place.
You’ll certainly love this modified missionary position because it brings your body into a great deal of contact with one another, and you have the chance to look into each other’s eyes while you are making love.
And you also don’t need to strain your arm muscles trying to keep your fingers on her G-Spot.
And your girl don’t have to waste energy trying to keep her hips elevated. You guys can focus purely on the feel of your bodies coming together. It’s wonderful.
Keep in mind that although missionary is the most common position, and this new techniques are easy to master, it might take a few lovemaking sessions before you and your partner can really connect in this position.
Most sex experts claim that rear entry on its own is one of the best positions for G-Spot sex.
But with a few modifications, the modified rear-entry position should work beautifully for you and your partner.
The secret is in your pelvic motions: Think short and deep, and you’ll get the idea.
Here’s what to do:
1. Have her kneel on all fours. She should spread her knees slightly, tilting her pelvis back and up. She’ll probably be tempted to place her face down on the bed, but it’s important for her to keep her back flat and her pelvis tilted up. Make sure she keeps her elbows locked and her head and spine aimed out and up.
2. Enter her from behind, as you would with typical rear-entry sex, penetrating her as deeply as is comfortable for her.
3. Holding her hips and keeping your own hips firmly in place, make a compact upward-scooping motion with your pelvis. Do not pull out more than an inch or two.
4. Continue making these stroking motions until she lets you know her G-Spot is responding. At that point, apply more pressure with your thrusts, concentrating your focus on pressing the top of your penis against her G-Spot. Moving your hips and penis in small, tight circles is a great way to keep the pressure firm.
5. As you’re penetrating her with your penis, reach one hand around her and touch her clitoris. Circle it gently with your forefinger, and then, as she responds, make your movements firmer and more concentrated, mimicking the motions of your hips as you grind into her.
If you guys can master this position perfectly, she’ll be experiencing intense orgasms from her vagina, clitoris and G-Spot at the same time as if she’s going to explode.
Source – health line
Although there are million kinds of vibrators and sex toys – but for the purpose of this guide, I’ll discuss only two sex toys G-Spot Vibrator and G-Spot Dildos.
Once you master the art of using a vibrator you can take your girl to the brink of orgasm every time you have sex with her.
When using a G-Spot vibrator you’ll be astounded at the creativity that went into this clever little invention. Someone was really thinking.
The best part of the G-Spot vibrator is that it provides direct G-Spot contact through the curved head, so that when you insert the vibrator, it hits her G-Spot without having to hold the vibrator in an uncomfortable position.
The wavy design of the shaft allows the toy to vibrate up and down her clitoris as you’re using it on her G-Spot. The sensations are really incredible.
She will probably love the particular combination of stimulations she’ll feel with a G-Spot vibrator, and you’ll get off on the expression of joy that fills her face when she reaches her climax.
Here are the steps how to use the G-Spot Vibrator.
The first step is to insert the G-Spot Vibrator inside her vagina. But without hurting her so be careful.
Once you’ve inserted the G-Spot Vibrator, confirm with your partner you’re hitting the right spot.
Now apply constant pressure to the G-Spot. She may love this, or may only want intense, direct pressure at the end. Follow her guidelines.
If she loves it, keep inserting and removing it with a steady rhythm.
As she reaches orgasm, apply firm, constant pressure to the G-Spot. And wait until just before climax to turn it on.
Source – YouTube
Dildos are different from vibrators in one significant way: They don’t vibrate. And are available in a wide range of sizes, designs, textures and materials.
Although most women prefer vibrators, many other women, particularly those who orgasm easily during intercourse, love dildos.
They can control the speed, depth and intensity of their thrusting, bringing themselves to a climax with the sensation of delightful fullness.
Women who prefer dildos will love ones specifically designed for G-Spot play. g-spot dildos are designed in a similar style as G-Spot vibrators, with a curved tip that hits her G-Spot when she thrusts the toy inside her.
All you need to do is to master how to use these two sex toys properly and you’ll become the man she’ll always want to have sex with.
Here are the steps to using the G-Spot Dildos.
The first step is to insert just the tip of the dildo inside her vagina. As usual make sure you go slow so you do not hurt her.
Start to push the dildo in and out of her vagina, gently at first. If she loves it, use the dildo to penetrate her a bit faster. Match your speed with her body’s reactions; as you observe she’s getting closer to orgasm, move the dildo faster, but without hurting her.
As she’s starting to climax, adjust your penetration according to what she needs to have an amazing climax. This last step will be different for different women, so try both techniques and find out which works better for your partner.
Now, keep penetrating in and out of her until she reaches orgasm.
Hold the dildo deep inside her during orgasm.
Source – Bad Girls Bible
For women, the key to cracking their code and unleashing the sexual beast that lives inside is all about creating a safe space for them to play.
The more they know you love their G-Spot and clitoris and know everything about it, the safer they will feel with you, and the more fully expressive and adventurous they will become.
Here is what I want you to do:
First, ask her what G-Spot name or names she thinks are really hot to use during sex.
Always use those or that name (if it’s not the word you want to use, too bad. You must use her language not yours.)
It will not only make her feel special but also your sex will be sizzling hot.
If she isn’t sure, offer her a menu and let her choose. Here are a few names that women I polled like to use:
Once you have that information, here’s what I want you to do. I want you to get in the habit of saying things like:
You may think “I really don’t feel comfortable talking during sex!“
Don’t worry if talking during sex makes you uncomfortable.
Lots of people feel that way.
But I would still recommend you to follow this step to enhance your intimacy level with the woman you love.
Remember that women love to hear good things about their vagina and it’s parts!
So do not miss this amazing chance to impress her by giving new and innovative names to her vagina.
Insert your finger into her vagina with your palm facing up (she has to be on her back). Probe around her front vaginal wall for the G-Spot (the “top side”).The G-Spot will be located between two and three finger joints up on the front vaginal wall (around 2 – 3 inches).It will feel rough or spongy.
Most men think that women can have only vaginal orgasms but that’s not true.
Women can experience G-Spot Orgasms with the right techniques and ideas.
Yes, it is a bit difficult for most men, but certainly not impossible.
It’s a question of debate as some women feel G-Spot orgasms is more intense than vaginal and some feel the other way round.
The G-Spot, Clitoris or the Labia are parts of Vagina so there is not any conclusive answer.
At the end what matters is your partner is fully satisfied with you.
I’ve covered almost everything you’ve ever wanted to know about how to find and stimulate a woman’s G-Spot, giving her amazing orgasms like she’s never before experienced.
Now that you’ve all the knowledge and skills in your hands it’s time to use them and rock your sex life by taking to the peak of sexual bliss.
My name is Manish Yadav and I’m the owner of the blog "Love Finds its Way". My advice does away with the manipulations and mind games recommended by magazines and the surface level advice of TV gurus… We’ll dive DEEP into the psychology and biology of desire and give you actionable steps you can use today. Over 900,000 men & women have transformed their relationships as a result, and I've been featured in Lifehack, Return of Kings, Menimprovement, Urban Dater, and so on... ...and no... We're not here to play games so you can manipulate your significant other... ...My only intention is to help you and your partner have a healthy and loving relationship by working on your intimacy with each other. And we’re just getting started!