I am sorry to use this words, but this guide must help you, if you read it thoroughly and implement the steps in it. I believe nothing in the world can stop you from living the life of your dreams and that's what you’re about to find out below.
These guide is full of in depth content so I really urge you to read it till the end. Of course it's not very entertaining like movie sex scenes, but the significant thing is, this guide will provide you with the correct steps to achieve success in life and to be honest anything that helps you to achieve your dream life will not be entertaining.
In fact it will be full of obstacles and hardships, and it's up to you to create interest in it. But don't worry I will show you how to do add that creativity and interest to manifest your dreams into reality.
I am telling this because the steps that I have laid in this guide are easy to read, but a bit hard to implement if you don't take interest in it. But if you apply them correctly, it will definitely inspire you to increase your self esteem, at the same time find your passion too, in order to live the life of your dreams.
The problem with human mind is, it craves pleasure and constantly tries to ignore pain. But if you're someone who's ready to take control of your life by taking action today, please go ahead and read it.
Before I start one last word - You might have heard the saying: “You will not pass this way again.” But did you ever gave a serious thought to what it actually mean?" If not, today is the day to give a thought and here’s what you're suppose to do right now - Just read now and you'll get the answers to all your questions.
If you're all set, let's Begin
#1. Practice Abundance But Honestly, First Step To Achieve Success in Life
Abundance is the most noticeable quality of the universe where we live in. Although we cannot see the universe from our naked eye, but the universe is full of energy, in other words universe itself is energy.
Whatever you and me do whether positive or negative that's what universe reflects back in us. Say for Instances - Many people try to achieve their dreams by choosing the wrong path. In other words, the short-cut to success, while doing this they believe that no one is watching them. But the fact is, the universe is watching them.
Whether you're attracting positive or negative energy depends on your acts and deeds. In the above example, where someone is doing wrong with wrong intentions are attracting negative energy.
What I want to say is your success in life mostly depends on the kind of energy that you're attracting.
Do you believe that walking on the wrong road will help you to live the life of your dreams in the long run?
No it will not, there's no short-cut to success and if you're building your dreams at the stake of wrong things, it will never serve you in the long run.
The point is you cannot receive without giving, but if you give, you are adding up to the great abundance of energy and creating more of what you want. But remember whatever you give, the same will reflect back into your own life.
Abundance breeds abundance, so better practice abundance with positivity and honesty, so that you receive positivity in replacement. Learn to give more and expect less, it is the first step to achieve success in life.
#2. Diversity is The Gift To Man Kind Value It
Diversity is nature of universe and you need to make right use of diversity to achieve success in life. I know you're confused, don't worry I'll explain now, just continue reading don't sleep in between or else you'll miss important concepts of life.
We live in a world where we are generally divided into two categories which is men and women, But if you observe no two men or women are similar. We all vary in shape, size, structure, hobbies, ambitions and personality.
It is this diversity that creates a wealth of opportunities for you and me to live the life that we truly want. For instance, Could you imagine if every single person in the world was attracted to the same kind of lover? Or what if every single person in the world wanted to become a doctor or every single person in the world wanted to live in the same country.
Life could have been so tough, because every one wants to have the same dream and same life. But it's actually not, we all have different inspirations about our lives, different ambitions, different talents and different emotional trigger buttons. In other words, we are all unique in our own sense, still there's a lot of competition when it comes to achieving success in life.
Now, when you talk of competition it boils down to quality for me, it's you who need to find out whether you and your talent is made up of quality material or not. Trust me nothing can beat quality, so start from today and focus on creating quality and you'll out rank the competition. So, better make good use of diversity to achieve your dream life but add quality in everything you do, the results will be astonishing.
#3. Always Keep Your Emotions in check
Master your emotions, it is another important step to achieve success in life and this step follows the simple human behavior principle: Meaning “You must master your emotions, or be mastered by them.
Human emotion is such a powerful tool that if used correctly they can move mountains, But working against them will only give you negativity, resentment and failure. The only way to master your emotions is by focusing them towards the achievement of the end results that you want.
The more you understand what drives you, the more easily you'll be able to control your emotions and behavior. It's because your emotions control your behaviors. Can you think how hard it is to fight against your emotions. I will explain this with a example.
Suppose your passion is singing that what's drives you and for some reason your mom and dad want you to be a engineer, what would you do in such a situation. Of course you have two choices either follow their passion or follow yours.
But tell me will you be motivated enough to fulfill their passion? No Not at all!
It's because your emotions determine your behavior when you're inspired by something so much that you feel it throughout every cell of your body, that “feeling” is preparing you to act upon the desire which created that feeling. This is why emotional desires are so difficult to oppose. They hold the power to override your decisions and push you to act in ways that we end up regretting later on.
The biggest obstacles to achieving the life of your dreams is not following your passion. It’s Napoleon Hill said in “Think and Grow Rich, you can see the book by clicking here on Amazon.com.
In the end conclusion is better choose your emotions wisely before they choose you, in other words follow your passion to live the life of your dreams.
#4. Set The Right Standard To Have Command On Your Life
If you want to achieve the life of your dreams, you have to set the right standard and value. By standard I mean quality combined with correct approach. The standard that you set for yourself dictate the outcome of your life and that's what you attract into your life.
It's in your hands to do things that will inspire others to love and respect you. It's in your hands to create the life of your dreams and no one else can do it for you. To help you understand it better I will share with you a story that I read in "You can Win" a very famous book by Motivational Speaker Shiv Khera (You can check out the book by Clicking Here if you want)
There were two brothers one was a drug addict and a drunk who always use to beat up his family. The other brother was a very successful business, who was respected in the society and he had a wonderful family.
How could two brothers raised by the same parents, in the same environment be so different?
The first brother was asked, " what makes you do what you do" You are a drug addict, a drunk, you beat up your family, what motivates you? what kind of standard you have set for yourself?
He replied "My father, My father was a drug addict, he use to drink, come home and beat up my mother. What do you expect from me, this is what I am.
The second brother was also asked the same question, "How come you're doing everything right, "what is your source of motivation?"
And guess what he said, "My father when I was a little kid, use to see him come home drunk, beat up my mom and do all the wrong things. I decided this is not what I wanted to be....
Now, what conclusion you derived from the story, it's entirely up to you to set your standards. If you set wrong standards, you'll reap wrong rewards and wrong fortune and believe me or not this is one of the main reasons why most people fail to achieve their dream life.
Start from today and set the right standards no matter how hard it gets, stay firm and keep your integrity intact. Believe me guys success will be at your feet.
#6. Create Right Boundaries For Yourself
Creating boundaries is very important to live the life of your dreams. It will help you from getting diverted or distracted from the external circumstances that may tantalize you. I will tell you how sometimes external circumstances influence you negatively.
In the process of finding your dream life, you will be presented with many opportunities, some will be excellent, some will be good or maybe bad. The point is you cannot run behind each one of them.
Sometimes what happens is even after working so hard, when you don't find success in what you do, you tend to lose hope and want to move on the other side of the river, because you feel that the grass is greener on that side.
But actually, it's not, it's you who feel that way. This is why you MUST create boundaries for yourself, or you’ll end up spending your life being pulled in every different direction and doing none of your goals justice which makes no sense at all. You might have heard the saying: “If you chase after two rabbits, you’ll lose both of them".
This is so true, it' important for you to work hard keeping your cool and patience, It's important for you to focus on one thing at a time and try to dig deeper until you truly discover the abundant source of water underneath the earth.
#7. Learn How Not To Quit
In 80's there was a beautiful song by Corey Hart that said - “No one can take away your right to fight and to never surrender.”
It is one of the toughest steps to achieve success in life, if you can master the art of "How Not To Quit" the road to achieving your dream life will become little easier, if not very easy.
Failure is the highway to success. Tom Watson Sr. said, "If you want to succeed, double your failure rate.
If you look back in history, you will notice one very common thing - Whether it's Wright Brothers who invented Air Plane or Thomas Elva Edison who invented bulb they never ever wanted to quit.
All the inspiring stories of success that we read today are actually stories of great failures. But people don't see the failures. They only see one side of the coin and they say that person got lucky: "He must have been at the right place at the right time." But it's not what you think.
Remember the world where we live in is not so kind that it will hand success so easily to some undeserving people like you and me. In order to write the story of your success you desperately want, you first have to write the story of your failure......
Let me share with a life history of a very famous man. This was a man who failed in business at the age of 21 ;
was defeated in a legislative race at age 22; failed again in business at age 24; overcame the death of his sweetheart at age 26; had a nervous breakdown at age 27; lost a congressional race at age 34; lost a senatorial race at age 45; failed in an effort to become vice-president at age 47;
lost a senatorial race at age 49; and was elected president of the United States at age 52.
This man was Abraham Lincoln. Would you call him a failure? He could have quit. But to Lincoln, defeat was a detour and not a dead end
Failure is unavoidable in life, it's actually within you how you embrace failure. If you embrace it positively, it will act as an inspiration for you and if you embrace it negatively, it will be responsible for your downfall. It's you who has to decide what you want to be victor or victim.
#8. Stop Procrastinating Build The Habit Of Doing It Now
Procrastination is the biggest fear that kills us, we all have procrastinated at some point in our lives. By doing so we only end up regretting later, do you know why we develop the habit of procrastinating certain things and not every thing.
If you notice I have used the word certain, in the above sentence. It's because as I have illustrated this fact many times in my other articles and I will illustrate here too. Human mind always craves pleasure and tries to avoid pain.
In other words, our mind tries to ignore anything that requires effort and doing. THIS is the reason why we develop the habit of procrastinating things and keep them for later. I would love to share with you a beautiful example.
A man and woman in love going out for a date are very excited to meet each other. In this situation their mind already knows that this is pleasure time. And in order to make the date successful they will do anything. In this situation even if they want to, their mind will not allow them to avoid, procrastinate or cancel the date.
Are you getting my point?
That is why I said above we procrastinate in certain things and not everything in life. We enjoy doing things that we love doing, but when it comes to achieving goals and success we create stupid reasons which just don't make any sense.
Procrastination only creates negativity in your mind, body and soul. The habit of procrastination fatigues you more than the effort it takes to do it. On the other hand completed task is satisfying and energizing; an incomplete task drains energy like a leak from a tank.
If you ever wish, I am sorry if you ever want, wishing is something that people with low self esteem do. So if you ever want to live the life of your dreams, practice the habit of doing it now and don't keep things for tomorrow.
Important Note: In the process of trying not to procrastinate, you may lose some precious moments that you wanted to spend with your friends and family. It could be you will see happy faces around you, people enjoying their life and you see yourself working every time.
Don't get disheartened, It's alright pat on your back and just move on with a smile. Life will surely reward you with a beautiful gift, your hard work will never ever go in vain. Just wait and have patience and you will see for yourself how your true destiny will tune up with your dreams and desires.
#9. Build a Positive Self Esteem, It will Help You to Achieve Your Dreams
Having a positive self esteem and confidence is a practice that takes time, but it pays you big in the long run. With positive self esteem you feel good within yourself, you feel positive, energetic and peaceful and your productive increases automatically.
The best way to build a positive self esteem is to help people, who cannot repay you in cash or kind and do it without expecting anything in return not today, not tomorrow and not in future.
Have you ever helped someone desperately in need or crisis? How it feels, satisfying isn't it? Even though you do not get anything in return while helping someone but the feeling that you get is far more satisfying than the beautiful presents you get on your birthday. I cannot explain why it feels that way, but that feeling is amazing.
Develop a habit of giving, the more you give the more you will be at peace with your self esteem. Remember there are two varieties of people in this world. "Givers and Takers", Takers eat well, and givers sleep well. The only difference is givers naturally have high self esteem, and this only difference is biggest difference between success and failure. And I believe if you're reading you would never want to be a failure in life.
#10. Success is a Journey Not a Chance
Do you know, it's very easy to read and define success on paper, but equally hard to achieve it. Some people think they are unlucky and they believe the one who are successful are lucky. They were at the right place, at the right time and at the right moment. Do you also think the same way?
Trust me its not true, success is the outcome of the choice you make and more importantly how seriously you work on that choice plays a very significant role in achieving the life of your dreams.
There's a lot of study done on the subject of success and failure, but the truth is you cannot manifest money and success by just studying about it. In order to achieve success you have it live it, as I said above success is a journey and not a chance, you have to live it to achieve it.
Pro Tip - If you really want to reach the heights of success, study the life histories of people who overcame their failure by fighting obstacles. Learn from their mistakes and see what changes they made, catch the clues and adopt the qualities of successful people.
Remember the stage of life at which you are now, the people who got success where also at the same stage some time back in their life. The only difference is they failed bravely, but achieved success amazingly.
Success is no mystery, but the outcome of implementing some key principles consistently. The reverse is just as true: Failure is the outcome of repeating some mistakes consistently. In both the RESULTS the word "consistency" holds the key. Failure is not easy too, it also requires consistent doing of wrong things. But that's not something we are looking for.
So what makes someone successful? How do we understand success?
To some people, success is wealth. To some others, it is recognition, power, good health, happy family, satisfaction, and peace of mind. What this really tells us is that success is subjective. It can mean different things to different people. But in the end whatever your source of motivation is, your ultimate goal should be to achieve the success you want, no matter what happens in life.
Guys these are 10 in depth secrets to live the life of your dreams and trust me if you follow this tips you will do your best in life. No matter where you are, what your struggles are and what stage of life you're stuck in. Just apply the principles mentioned in this article consistently (with sheer patience and integrity).
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I will stop here, hope you enjoyed the article and if you really did please share it with other people around you who need inspiration to move on in life. GOOD BYE for now, have my best wishes in life. See you another day in a fresh and inspiring article just like this one. Keep coming back, I love writing for you all.
Manish Yadav a passionate Blogger from India loves writing on love, relationship and success. This blog is the medium through which I script my thoughts and imagination in form of articles to reach you all. The sad and tormenting end of my love life really is the inspiration behind my blogging career. It’s rightly said behind every man there's a woman, in my case she inspired me by leaving me alone. But “No Offense” GOD BLESS her wherever she is.
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