How To Seduce a Man With Words & Dirty Lines (Play With His Fantasies)

If you’ve ever had even the inkling to learn how to seduce a man with words using dirty seducing lines you will certainly LOVE reading this guide.

And even if you have zero skills of using sexy words to seduce a man, you will change your mind once you learn this!

Remember there are a few key triggers to your man’s sexual confidence, including:

  1. feeling deeply desired and sexually appreciated, even objectified and worshipped.
  2. surrendering to him / giving him a sense of ownership.
  3. knowledge he has sexually satisfied you.
  4. letting him act out his Inner Hero.

With the seduction tips in this guide, you have the ability to tap into any or all of these triggers for him.

Plus, you’ll build up anticipation and show him how eager you are for his body.

His sexual confidence and his connection to you will be off the charts because YOU have given him this starring role with your seduction moves.

Here is a little secret. . . no matter what kind of man he is – even if he’s the techie type or naturally reserved – there is a deep yearning somewhere inside of him to be the dashing hero who slays the dragon and wins the heart (and body) of the beautiful girl.

So read this guide to learn how to seduce a man with words until the end.


Men have been shown the masculine archetype through toys, books, movies, TV, and video games since childhood.

I promise you that the desire to be the hero is ingrained in his psyche somewhere.

With this fun technique, you will provide this unspoken fantasy for him, and he will wonder how he ever got so lucky to have you 🙂


Let me share one of my wife's favorite examples that she used on me once.

This is from my wife's personal collection and I want you to use this on your man if you want seduce him with words.

It is called the Stress Reliever (I am also a Banker by profession sometimes when I am tired and exhausted she plays with seducing words to turn me on. . . by the way I'll quit this JOB soon coz this blog is ROCKING. . .Anyways let's continue . . .

I show up at your office to surprise you with a lunch date. As soon as I walk through the front doors, I can tell things are hectic.

I spot you across the room, having a conversation outside of your office. Somehow you sense my presence, and our eyes meet.

You smile and motion me over.

I walk toward you and admire how good you look. And not just your clothes...you look powerful and confident.

A man in charge. I’m immediately reminded how proud I am to be with you.

But as I get closer, I can see how stressed you are.

The tension in your face, neck, and shoulders is obvious. A little grin creeps across my face as I think of how I can ease that tension for you...

“This is a nice surprise. What are you doing here today, honey?” you ask as you dismiss your co-worker and greet me with a warm hug.

“I know how hard you work, and I decided to deliver a special treat to you in person. Let’s go into your office for a minute,” I purr.

You open the door and follow me in with a confused smile.

“Shut the door and lock it, please.” You comply.

I grab your belt and pull you closer, turning you around to face me.

“So what is this treat you’ve brought me?” you ask.

“It’s a special stress-reliever. I can tell you are having a busy day,”

I explain as I slide my trench coat off and let it fall to the floor, revealing that black wrap dress I know you like on me. “Something I think you will really enjoy.”

You look me straight in the eye. “Honey, what exactly are you doing? I have a video conferencing to attend in ten minutes.”

I put my finger to your lips “Shhh...you will make your conference call.”

I gently guide you to your chair, deftly unbuckling your belt and unzipping your pants.

“Sit,” I order. You sink into the smooth leather seat.

I ease myself onto my knees between your legs. Your excitement is now visible, as you’ve clearly figured out what my treat involves.

“I was going to take you to lunch. But seeing your stress and also seeing how in control you look at the same time...I have to do this instead.”

I free your rock-hard erection from your boxers. Looking you straight in the eye, I wrap my mouth around you.

Swirling the tip of your cock with my tongue with every pass, your legs quiver with pleasure.

I begin to pick up speed, taking you deeper and deeper into my mouth with each head bob.

You stifle a moan and lean your head back on the head rest of your chair while I go to town.

Faster and faster, I am relentless in my need to make you climax.

Your hands are in my hair and your breathing is heavy and rapid. I know you are close. Your entire body tenses before release.

Just as you shudder and explode into my mouth, the intercom on your phone buzzes “We are meeting in conference room A in three minutes.”

“Perfect timing,” I announce with a wink. Standing up, I straighten my dress and smooth out my ruffled hair.

“Better get to the conference room. See you when you get home!” and I make my exit.

Fun, right? 😉

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This is how to seduce a man with words. I was literally blown away when I heard this as it directly triggered the BEAST in me.

Being a wife or girlfriend you need to understand a man acknowledge his career and how hard he works.

Your thoughtfulness and care for his emotional state

Your willingness and eagerness to give him sexual pleasure it all counts when it comes to seducing your man with words.

I want to share an example of a more pared-down version that has fewer supporting details and just gets straight to the action.

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If using creative words isn’t your thing, or you just want to mix it up with a straightforward “get to the sex” type of seduction idea, this is for you.

Babe, I have you on my mind so much today. I wish you were right here next to me.

Actually, I’m sitting on our bed right now. I just got out of the shower, and I’m wearing one of your T-shirts because I wanted to feel close to you.

Guess which one I put on... (let him guess what shirt of his you are wearing) Yes, I love how you look in this T-shirt.

I’m imagining your fingers grazing my skin, giving me goosebumps, as they make their way from my face, past my breasts, over my hips...ohhh.

Your hands push my legs open, and you can see I’m already so wet and turned on.

You press on my clit, gently rubbing and seeing my reaction.

A little harder and faster...then you stop. I’m quivering, waiting for you to continue.

You lean in close, and your tongue darts in, flicking my clit...then pressing...then sucking.

ohhhh...my hips can’t help but move in rhythm against your mouth. You love making me have intense orgasms, don’t you?

You are the best at that, babe. Oh my god, you make me come so hard. I love how you make my body vibrate and hum for you.

Before I even have the chance to stop shaking, you flip me over and take me hard from behind.

Your dick feels amazing pushing deep inside of me. I love how you fill me up.

I know I’m making a lot of noise, but I don’t care at this moment if our whole building hears me.

You grabbing my hips and fucking me hard makes me lose control!

Before you come, I beg you to turn me back around.

I want to feel the weight of your body on top of me. I want to see your face at the moment your orgasm overtakes you.

I watch you close your eyes as you reach the brink...faster and harder, you keep thrusting until that final moment.

Good lord, I love watching you come. And then you collapse next to me, in a glistening heap of spent energy, legs still entwined with mine.

Another strategy you can create to seduce a man with words is letting him make choices in the plot as he goes. It’s like a “Create Your Own Adventure.

One of the most common fantasies that people have is sex with someone else.

It’s totally normal, and not a threat to the fidelity of your relationship.

As much as your man loves you and only has sex with you, in his mind he’s thought about all sorts of other couplings.

Use this fun phone sex seducing words as a means to role play and bring that fantasy to life.

He will love and appreciate the freedom you give him to unabashedly enjoy this secret fantasy.

In this seducing dirty talk script, you will play the part of a phone sex operator who lets him choose his own sex adventure with you.

This is a bit more advanced and requires you to improvise on the fly.

However, when you get in the groove I think you will have a lot of fun with it.

In this you are actually seducing your man with words and lines but it's like a movie. . . kind of sexual adventure.

Hello <his name>. Welcome to your sexy adventure. My name is <make up a name>, and I’ll be your guide today. Sit back and let’s get started!

Say 1 if you’d like to be in a luxury candlelit hotel room with me as your hired masseuse.

Say 2 if you’d like to be in a private beach cabana in a tropical paradise with me as your cocktail waitress.

Describe the setting based on what he selects.

If he chooses the masseuse, describe your outfit.

Tell him about the lotions and oils you’ve brought to soothe his muscles.

If he chooses beach cocktail waitress, again, describe your outfit in detail.

Are your breasts overfilling your bikini top? If he’s an ass man, is the curve of your plump rear end visible under your short sarong skirt?

Make sure to also describe how he looks.

How you immediately find him attractive and sexy.

Comment on his attire or physique or anything you would notice that would turn you on.

Then continue the dirty word seduction script based on his selections.

Say 1 if your fantasy is for me to initiate physical contact with you.

Say 2 if you’d like to be the one to initiate physical contact.

This gives you a story line for your character to follow. Is she dominant or submissive? It gives him the chance to try out a different role! Just like in BDSM sex.

Depending on what he selects, describe how you first touch each other.

If you are the aggressor, talk about how you want to run your hands on his glistening skin.

Or if he’s the aggressor, describe how he reaches out and  touches, strokes, or kisses you.

Always include how it makes you feel. Describe the sensations in detail.

You will continue building the story giving him choices on how to guide the action.

Say 1 if you want me to.

Say 2 if you want me to .

Use your imagination! Some of the choices could include:

Foreplay: kissing, touching different body parts (whose first?)

Oral sex: giving him head or him going down on you

Intercourse: Different sexual positions

Pace: slow and gentle, rough sex or wild

The entire flow of the word to word seduction conversation would build up the sexual anticipation and the adventure in his and your mind too.

And that's seducing a man is all about. . .

“Incorporating a seducing word” Movie

The Seducing Word Movie is a PERFECT way to share one of your fantasies with virtually zero risk and at the same time get him highly aroused and seduced. 

If you feel a little shy about describing what you’d like to do in words, you can frame it as if you had a dream, which feels a bit safer.

Sex in public is something a lot of people fantasize about, but not everyone can or will act upon it.

Here is a way to include him in a public sex romp where there is no chance of getting caught 😉

Tell him. . .this just to create a sexual environment and to seduce him with using this sexual lines and words.

I had the best dream about you last night. Want to hear it?

Well, it’s a little naughty. Go ahead and sit down or lie back while I give you the details.

I was having dinner with some coworkers after the big sales presentation.

We were in a corner booth, and I was sitting on the end.

The restaurant was very fancy, gorgeous table linens, dimly lit by candles.

All of the sudden, I started feeling a little tickle on my leg.

I jumped at first, but the hands down there steadied me and held me fast. I started to panic, wondering who or what was down there.

I slid my napkin off my lap to the floor so I could peek under the tablecloth. That’s when I saw you.

Somehow you had gotten yourself to the restaurant I was at, and you’d snuck under the table. I looked at my coworkers and nobody knew that you were there.

Relaxing a bit, because I knew it was you, I moved my legs so you had easier access. Because I knew without a doubt exactly why you were down there.

Your hands made quick work of the situation.

You pushed my skirt up and moved my panties aside with your fingers. Circling my clit, rubbing, pressing, getting your fingers all slippery with my juices. Oh my god...

In and out, around, pushing, pressing, torturing me with delicious pleasure as I sat there like nothing was going on.

You quickly brought me to orgasm, and I could sense your wicked smile as you felt my legs shaking hard, knowing that above the table I had to pretend I wasn’t coming.

Then you were gone! I got up to use the restroom.

As I was walking down the dimly lit corridor, the maître d stopped me and said I had a phone call. He led me to the coat closet and shut the door behind me.

Just as I was about to freak out, your strong hands were on my shoulders. You turned me around to face you.

“How did you get here? What are you doing?” I asked, but you silenced my questions with a passionate kiss...and you pressed your erection into me.

I quickly unzipped your pants and pulled you to me.

Even though I knew the restaurant staff was aware of us in the coat closet, at that moment I didn’t care. I needed your rock-hard penis in me right that second.

We loudly fucked on a pile of other people’s coats! Right as you came, I woke up. Startled and totally hot for you. Wasn’t that a crazy dream?

Powerful, seducing and mind-blowing isn't it. . . Now you know the power of words to seduce a man.

Last but not the least what if you are single How this works if you are single...

I believe a lot women will find seducing a man with words and dirty lines exercise to be fantastic but not quite yet sexually intimate with a new man.

It is basically another way to show case your wild side and whet his appetite without sharing your body (or bed) with him.

Once I you'll go down this road, though, things will tend to move quickly toward intimacy, as you both will be hot-’n-bothered.

It may feel a little risqué to be so bold with someone you don’t know well.

And quite frankly, that’s part of the fun. It is a little scary. And it will get your adrenaline pumping.

And to be honest flexing your creativity by exploring your sexuality amps up your sex appeal and sex life with your guy and that's what you want. . . Right?

Think of it as saving for a rainy day. Or making a deposit into the sexual toolkit that your future lucky man will get to enjoy.

I will stop here. I believe you truly loved reading this amazing guide on how to seduce a man with words and dirty lines.

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